Does your children affect your sex life ?

Does your children affect your sex life ?

KinkBiLove KinkBiLove
sometimes my boyfriend and i are interrupted by our 2 yr old. She always seem to appear near our bedside at the wrong time. lol . do you have this dilemma ?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, it's annoying !
Gunsmoke , married with children , jakjak , newfoundlust , JessCee , Tangerine , TexasBrat
7
No , we don't have children !
LaLaLouise , Ms. Spice , KinkBiLove , Screen Door , LavenderSkies , Lindsey123 , Love Perpetua , EndlessFrost , cburger , EdenJP , Bluebird88 , ksparkles16
12
No , our kids are not a bother.
daveysgirl , Kim! , Rossie , mama2007 , EnMH , Beck , pixxie87 , Airen Wolf , wrmbreze , Sassybunny85 , PropertyOfPotter
11
Other (comment)
Airen Wolf
1
Total votes: 31 (30 voters)
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When the kids were younger my wife was always paranoid about them hearing us. She used that as an excuse to avoid sex more than the head-ache thing - which is also a favorite of hers.

Since then she's had a change of attitude - and the kids are older, so her typical complaint these days is the head-ache thing - which unfortunately still happens.
08/18/2011
daveysgirl daveysgirl
they are out of house, so not issue
08/18/2011
Kim! Kim!
My son is 5 and gets put to bed around 7. He has a lot of sleep issues and isn't always asleep right away but generally by the time we're ready for bed on the weekends (I work overnights) he is fast asleep. He also can sleep through nearly anything and we live in an apartment building so I'm not worried about waking him since we already are a bit quieter.
08/18/2011
Rossie Rossie
My children never bothered us when they were young. I still try to keep my noise volume as low as possible, worried that my teenage son can hear us from his room.
08/18/2011
KinkBiLove KinkBiLove
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
When the kids were younger my wife was always paranoid about them hearing us. She used that as an excuse to avoid sex more than the head-ache thing - which is also a favorite of hers.

Since then she's had a change of attitude - and the ...
Lol. that's unfortunate !
08/18/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkBiLove
Lol. that's unfortunate !
nope. We wait until after they are in bed and we think they are asleep to do anything or in the middle of the night. we have two toddlers but even as babies i didnt let it bother me. they were in the next room
08/18/2011
EnMH EnMH
We have a two year old daughter who loves to play difficult to put down at night. We typically try to have her bath done and get her in bed by 7:30-7:45. She'll fight it some nights but mostly she's out by 9:00.

We just have to get creative with it. Sometimes we'll have a quickie while she's napping, we have tons of sex in the shower after she's out. Usually that spills over to the living room or our bedroom. It all just varies day to day. Overall, we have more sex now than we did when we were dating and newly married. Just get creative!
08/18/2011
married with children married with children
they will walk in if we are having sex in the morning. But at night, they are sound sleepers.
08/19/2011
Beck Beck
No way, I have two kids one is almost three and other is only 6 months. Our sex life is not affected. We make love daily, and are great at it! We have great sex life. Just have to wait till kids go to bed that is all.
08/21/2011
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I would assume they would get in the way especially under 5 year old.
08/22/2011
Screen Door Screen Door
I don't have kids, yet...I can't wait to deal with this problem :/
08/22/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkBiLove
sometimes my boyfriend and i are interrupted by our 2 yr old. She always seem to appear near our bedside at the wrong time. lol . do you have this dilemma ?
Ours are now teens/20's, so it is still an issue. The main problems today are they have weird sleep habits and they tend to come in and out as strange times.
08/24/2011
JessCee JessCee
I voted "Yes, it's annoying !"

but I'd rather just say "yes" because I don't really find it that annoying... my kids are always first, so if they "get in the way" then it is what it is. I don't really mind it so much to say its annoying though.
08/24/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkBiLove
sometimes my boyfriend and i are interrupted by our 2 yr old. She always seem to appear near our bedside at the wrong time. lol . do you have this dilemma ?
No kids yet.. but I doubt they will much.
12/02/2011
Lindsey123 Lindsey123
no kids yet, but when we do, there will be a lock on the door.
12/03/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkBiLove
sometimes my boyfriend and i are interrupted by our 2 yr old. She always seem to appear near our bedside at the wrong time. lol . do you have this dilemma ?
We have always waited till nap time or bedtime but when we didn't we made sure the door was locked and the kids safely involved with an activity. Never really bothers us.
12/03/2011
EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkBiLove
sometimes my boyfriend and i are interrupted by our 2 yr old. She always seem to appear near our bedside at the wrong time. lol . do you have this dilemma ?
No , we don't have children !
01/09/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
no no kids at the moment
01/10/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I have three kids...5 years, 3 years, and 11 months. The only issue we've ever had is the baby waking up in the middle of something. My kids are awesome and they haven't been an issue to our intimate life at all!
04/05/2012
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by KrazyKandy
I would assume they would get in the way especially under 5 year old.
not unless they sleep in same room. babies after 3 months old usually in a crib in own room, so just check diaper and change it and feed and baby goes back to sleep. our kids are 3 and 4 yrs old, so they go to bed at 930 - 10pm at times, but we don't have sex daily - usually 3 - 4x wk on a good week. hubby works hard and is tired. im always in mood but hes not so yea lol.
04/16/2012
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Unique posters: 19