Depo Shot

Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
Has anyone had the Depo shot with a really bad outcome? My best friend is struggling with infertility after being on Deop for four years. Her step mother had her get the shot at 14, yes, 14 years old. She has been off since she was 18 and has yet to have a steady period. She just started having one a year or so ago. Needless to say she can't get pregnant. She's spoken to doctors and all that good stuff. I am just wondering if anyone else has infertility issues and has taken this birth control.
09/06/2009
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Contributor: Juliettia Juliettia
I've never heard of such a thing.
09/07/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Are you saying that she didn't have a steady period the entire time she was on it? How long has she been off? Does she know if there are other possible physical issues like PCOS?
09/07/2009
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
She had no period at all while she was on it. Basically Depo is a progesterone BC and it stops ovulation while you are on it. I know that some docs theorize that it may cause slight infertility issues. I am just wondering if anyone else had it at this young of an age and had issues after. She was fine before the damn shot, but she is still not ovulating. I feel so awful for her because she feels like this could have been prevented.
09/07/2009
Contributor: User Unknown User Unknown
I had my first Depo Shot when I was 19, and had a steady period for two months, then not at all for the duration of my shots (about a year and a half). I've been off it for about a year now, it took something like six or seven months for me to have another period, and they haven't exactly been "regular" but they weren't before I went on Depo either.

It may be that the longer you're on it, the longer it takes to clear your system so everything can start working again. And even so, a doctor may be able to prescribe a light fertility drug to jumpstart her system. But wow, 14? Had she even started her periods yet? Seems like overkill.
09/07/2009
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
She had just started...I can't even imagine how horrible my friend feels. I wonder if the age and maturity level of her body reacted badly with the drug. Depo is a strong birth control.
09/07/2009
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
The Depo shot has many problems, from what I've heard. I have heard many birth control drugs can cause infertility issues immediately after you've stopped taking it, but given the severity of issues the Depo seems to cause, I am not surprised it's possibly causing an extended problem with infertility. My heart goes out to your friend.
09/08/2009
Contributor: ordinaryak ordinaryak
Right now i am on the Depo simply becuase nothing else will work i have 6 aunts on my mothers side of the family and all of them (including my mom) got pregnant while taking the pill and my cosin had her first girl 2 years ago while useing the the patch and is pregnant again while on the pill. my other cosin just miscarried her second while using the ring her first she was 18 and useing the pill. my sister also gave got pregnant while using the pill. but no one whos used the depo has gotten pregnant. i got on the depo becuase condoms failed i had 2 miscarages while using condoms and let me tell you we were EXTREMLY careful
we never had a condom break or slip off and ifthe condom had been in my black light or was 2 weeks before expiring we tossed it out, he had to wash his hands before touch the condom to put it on and after putting it on, and if we even go naked together(before we were having sex) he had to use a condom also. we would not buy the thin condoms either. i warn alot of my friends and family about being very carful when useing just condoms becuase the first pregnancy i was 4 months along and didnt know it untill i miscarried at home. it was terrable the second time i was 2 months along and it happend while waiting to get on birth control. alot of people dont belive me when i tell them how careful i was it simply blows my mind everytime i remeber it im a stickler for sexual health and get tested for stds every year i would get naked with my boyfriend untill he got tested for everything. we went together. i really worry that i could have fetillity problems while im on the depo but i havent got much choice unless i quit having sex or being physical with my boyfriend alltogether.
02/17/2010
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
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Originally posted by ordinaryak
Right now i am on the Depo simply becuase nothing else will work i have 6 aunts on my mothers side of the family and all of them (including my mom) got pregnant while taking the pill and my cosin had her first girl 2 years ago while useing the the ... more
She did find out that she has Osteoporosis, this a common side effect of the shot.

I had two miscarriages on BCPs and had two kids, but I will note that missing a day can result in pregnancy...daughter #1 is living proof, seriously.
02/17/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
We often give Depo for women with really heavy periods, anemia, or those not responsible enough to use birth control -the day of discharge after delivery of their babies or for menorrhagia (heavy menses). Often women don't get a period at all.
02/17/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I was on BC for the majority of 8 years, I was most recently on Depo for 3 cycles and then Merina (sp?) for about 3 months before having it removed. I didnt have a period for 5 months and my Doc put me on a run of 10 days of progesterone to 'jump start' my cycles, which has seemed to work so far (this has been very recently) and Her theory is that if my cycle starts acting regular again I shouldnt have issues getting pregnant unless there is an underlying issue. If my cycle doesnt regualate (If I dont get a period next mont) she wants to investigate further. I suppose that was a long way of saying that I am concerned about my fertility having come off of a looooooong time of BC use. I really feel that it is detrimental to ones fertility to be on BC long term/starting at a young age, but I dont have any medical proof to back that up.
02/18/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I was on the shot for about 2 years, had one period (sort of) right after I went on it. Basically I ended up getting November's period in December. I really wish I knew all the horrible side effects before I went on it, because I damn near ended up with osteoporosis, if I had stayed on it much longer I would have had it. I went to the pill right away and had regular periods with that, but when I ran out of that pill I ended up having my period like, 3 weeks late or so. Arthritis and all that fun stuff runs in my family, we've got multiple people with Fibromyalgia (a form of arthritis that's so much fun it's classified off in a category of its own) and the Depo didn't do anything nice for my joints either.

A friend of mine is currently in the process of getting tested for infertility after being on the Depo as well, and based on her research there appear to be a couple class action lawsuits against the company as well from the women who have osteoporosis and infertility so I would maybe look into that as well?

I know it won't make things right, but it might make them a bit easier?

My heart definitely goes out to your friend, this really sucks.
02/18/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
We have a lot of women in Hawaii who get a depo shot after delivering and come back the next year having another baby. It's only good for three months and they never follow up. We have also had some stay on depo for years and have healthy kids after, like immediatley after stopping.
02/18/2010
Contributor: imp imp
I've been on it in the past and had no periods whatsoever whilst on it. It took me three months to have anything in the form of a period after I went off it and a full year before my cycles were regular. I haven't gone near it again.
02/19/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
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Originally posted by J's Alley
Has anyone had the Depo shot with a really bad outcome? My best friend is struggling with infertility after being on Deop for four years. Her step mother had her get the shot at 14, yes, 14 years old. She has been off since she was 18 and has yet ... more
My sister had this same problem. I don't recommend the Depo. I think it can really mess a girl up. I'd rather just use VCF's or condoms. Or just get sterilized.
08/15/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
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Originally posted by J's Alley
She had just started...I can't even imagine how horrible my friend feels. I wonder if the age and maturity level of her body reacted badly with the drug. Depo is a strong birth control.
Depo is definitely one birth control that can have some negative effects. I see what you mean.
08/15/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
I had it, stopped taking it a few monthes ago.

Most women dont like it cause youle gain wait and it can take up to 18 monthes to become fertile after stopping. I started it every three monthes when I joined the military.

I knew it would take some time to get fertile again but I dont want kids yet anyway. A few more years then kids. Hopefully by then ile be able to get pregnent.
08/15/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by J's Alley
She had just started...I can't even imagine how horrible my friend feels. I wonder if the age and maturity level of her body reacted badly with the drug. Depo is a strong birth control.
YES ITS DEFIINITLY STRONG, a few days after I started it I felt some emotinal issues for a few days but then after that nothing.
08/15/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I have only heard horrible things about Depo and have been strongly advised by every person I know that had it to never ever get it.
08/15/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by J's Alley
Has anyone had the Depo shot with a really bad outcome? My best friend is struggling with infertility after being on Deop for four years. Her step mother had her get the shot at 14, yes, 14 years old. She has been off since she was 18 and has yet ... more
Women are supposed to have had regular periods for at least a year BEFORE any hormonal birth control is used. Did she have a child BEFORE the Depo shot? If not, why was she "forced" to get one? The doctor who did it broke the law, if she didn't agree to it. Even at 14, she has rights.

I had Depo, and had some nasty side effects (complete cessation of periods, NO sex drive (I didn't think that was possible for me, but evidentially it is) 45 lb weigh gain etc.) It took me 6 or 9 months to get a period after my last shot......and I got pregnant less than a year later. I also have bones as hard as rocks.

I have had no Osteoporosis, despite being petite and having had children, and being considered "Caucasian." I've had bone scans, because my mother has Osteoporosis, but she smokes like s chimney, and never used any birth control. I am "supposed to" get osteoporosis, but so far, no problems. Most of the studies linking osteo with Depo were flawed and done by people already suing the maker of the drug. I'm not saying it's the best form of BC, I hated it. But, for some people, especially people who refuse to take responsibility for their fertility, it seems to be a good option.

Depo Provera, despite it's side effects is NOT a permanent form of birth control. It prevent ovulation, but nothing in it's make up will last "forever." She may have other health issues, and really needs to see a fertility specialist to find out what the problem is.

She should start with a good OBGYN and see what he or she can do, and then move on to a fertility specialist.

But, nothing in the formulation or working of Depo causes permanent infertility. It doesn't damage the ovaries, it doesn't destroy eggs, and eventually the periods will return. In long term studies, ALL women who were previously fertile had a return of fertility within a year or two after Depo.

HOW LONG has she been off of it? You said, "Since she was 18" but how old is she now? If she has "spoken to doctors" did she not express her fears? I'm a nurse and any decent OBGYN or fertility specialist WILL take a woman's fear of infertility seriously. What did the doctors say to her? What tests have they done? Does she have a diagnosis?

How long has she been off the Depo? Fertility can take up to 2 years to return. Usually, women are fertile after their first period, but some take longer to regain ovulation. But, nothing in the drug has been linked to infertility in good studies, and most women who have taken it HAVE gotten pregnant after the drug wears off. In fact, we see a lot of women who are simply "late" for their shot showing up pregnant.

It seems like she needs to be more proactive on her own behalf on getting answers from her doctors.
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08/16/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I've never tried depo simply because I've had nasty side effects just from strong birth control pills so the hormone levels in depo would've sent me off the deep end, physically and mentally. My cousin was on it though and was actually ill the entire time she was on it. It just doesn't seem to make sense to me to do something like that unless you have no alternatives.
08/16/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
I have only heard horrible things about Depo and have been strongly advised by every person I know that had it to never ever get it.
I was on it for about 2 years, and I always strongly advise against it to anybody who mentions they're looking into it.
08/16/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
I have only heard horrible things about Depo and have been strongly advised by every person I know that had it to never ever get it.
Its a very controversial form of birth control.

Some like it but most seem to hate it.

I know a few women who used it when/while there in the miltiary. Its helps alot because it only has to be taken every three monthes and completly stops your period. Its extremely hard to be able to make sure you take a pill everyday because you never know what your doing when and were. Its also one more thing you have to bring in with you, witch even a small pack of bc can take up space. Its also nice becuase it helps completly stop your period. Its a pain in the ass to have to bring in tampons with you and worry about changing them. Even noova ring were its not needed every day can easily be forgotten or easily overlooked. for most women in the miltiary who see active combat it is a good form of birthcontrol.

But now with IUDs and all the other forms of birth control Depo is becomeing to a point were its rarely like.

Other then that I canot think of many other uses. Now with nuva ring and all those other products that are not like the traditional pill theres many more options. If I was no not of been in the military I would of not used DEPO, but at the time it was the best choice, and I dont regret it.

So there is some good to it
08/16/2010
Contributor: lovehurts lovehurts
I had this birth control before and you should wait one year before trying to have a baby. It do affect your period that a side affect from it. Some women have no period after 60 days of use or you can have spotting in between periods. It make you gain or loss wieght. But her body is different she may need more time to just let it clear here system
10/22/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I was on it for several years and it took 18 months before I could conceive after coming off it. I always thought it was great because I never had periods at all but yeah it takes a long time to get back out of your system.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Before I heard anything about Depo, I remember inquiring my gyno about "the birth control shot" and he looked at me, blinked, and said "No. Nope. Noooo. NO!"

He refuses to give his patients Depo Provera. I've read up on it (of course these are all people's stories and whatnot) on several Livejournal communities, and it worries me that this is still being used for anyone except in rare instances of chemical castration. And when those fuckers get Depo, I hope they get the shot right in the dick. Repeatedly. And with much force.

I've yet to hear one good thing about Depo Provera. That doesn't mean that there aren't good points about it (it may work wonders for some women) but just that it seems to be the Linsday Lohan of HBC. No one wants it and it makes everyone crazy.

I hope your friend finds answers soon, and things get better.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I was on it for about 2 years, and I always strongly advise against it to anybody who mentions they're looking into it.
I currently use it and I've had no issues.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Blinker
Before I heard anything about Depo, I remember inquiring my gyno about "the birth control shot" and he looked at me, blinked, and said "No. Nope. Noooo. NO!"

He refuses to give his patients Depo Provera. I've read up on ... more
The only issue I've had with depo is the whole depleting of your calcuim thing. It SERIOUSLY made it so I had to drink tons of milk and vitamins to keep my bones from feeling so brittle and old. I like the not-having period part. Since I'm in a long distance relationship, I go months without taking it and my period comes back PISSED off at me.. but it still comes back.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
I hated the Depo. It made me gain weight and I would start bleeding 2 weeks before the first day I was able to get the shot. If for some reason or another I couldn't make it in to the Dr's office til the end of the 2 week window, I'd bleed for almost a month straight.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Illusional
I currently use it and I've had no issues.
I ended up being really close to having osteoporosis at 18, because they didn't know about the bone depleting til after I had been on it for a while. And my best friend who went off of it the same time I did almost 4 years ago still isn't ovulating because of it.

I'm not saying that nobody should take it, I just won't be telling anybody I think it's a good idea, lol. I'm glad it's working for you so far, just make sure to stay up on the calcium supplements. The Viactive chews aren't all that bad.
10/23/2010