Do you find yourself getting frustrated with your partner when they are operating your toy for you? I sometimes get frustrated and take it from him and do it myself.
Do you get frustrated with you partner..
03/26/2013
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Most definitely. Even without a toy, I sometimes get frustrated. No matter how many times I politely correct him, he always seems to think the best feeling part of my clit is up higher - and generally, when my mission isn't to orgasm, this is a really pleasurable spot. But if I'm trying to get my orgasm on, it needs to be down a little lower and he's not so good at staying there consistently.
If it's taking too long, in the sense that I can tell that he's struggling to stay interested (and so am I), then I normally take over. I think he does the same when it comes to me giving him handjobs too. If it's taking too long, he'll jump in and help out.
If it's taking too long, in the sense that I can tell that he's struggling to stay interested (and so am I), then I normally take over. I think he does the same when it comes to me giving him handjobs too. If it's taking too long, he'll jump in and help out.
03/26/2013
Haven't had an issue. My boyfriend knows what I like. However, if he were to do something I didn't like, all I have to do is tell him what I want and he'll gladly oblige.
03/26/2013
Absolutely. I love when we play together, but he always seems to unintentionally move away from the right spot just when I'm about to come and I need to "find" my orgasm again when he moves back.
03/26/2013
nope, but have only introduced one toy to him as yet. the next time we have sex, I'm bringing along a new toy.
03/26/2013
I don't have an issue with my current partner he knows what I like and asks questions as he is using my dildos or vibrator on me. My ex I ended up taking the vibe from him and doing it myself
03/26/2013
a little. He tends to overdo it sometimes and I get overstimulated...somet imes a light touch will do the job! I can't be upset at him for enthusiasm and wanting to please though.
03/26/2013
I try not to but sometimes can't help it. I do try to give words of encouragement and helpful suggestions. Then sometimes I found it was the toy, while my partner isn't successful with one he is with another. For example, the Lelo Ina 2 he is able to use quite well to pleasure me.
03/26/2013
she does, but part of that is because she does not want to be vocal and voice what she wants. I have to go off of what worked the last time. I get frustrated. I dont understand why she has such a hard time being vocal. We have been together for 20 years.
03/26/2013
She does BUT its not my FUCKING FAULT! I ask her over and over again to spend time with me and show me what she likes and we just end up paying with the toy for a little bit then she usually throws it aside and its just straight up sex from there on. I actually wish she would let me play with her with toys more often and give me time to learn what toys are the best where.
03/27/2013
I do. I try to gently tell him what I would like, or guide his hands. I can imagine it's hard for someone to know how to pleasure someone else's body, especially with a toy.
03/27/2013
It definitely happens with me sometimes. He does a decent job most of the time, but sometimes he won't be applying enough pressure right where I need it (my G-spot can be tricky), and I'll end up taking over.
03/27/2013
I havent actually had this problem. While my partner will sometimes miss my clit, it takes a swift hand or a bit of rearranging my pelvis to fix this. When we use a rabbit vibe, and my partner is thrusting a toy in and out of me the worst that happens is that they become very tired or their arm hurts, and i can easily finish myself off or have already came twice by then.
03/27/2013
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This sounds a lot like us. I can't always get it right, so she will ask me to switch. I usually have enough options within reach - but sometimes I'll get up and pull something from the toy drawer.
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KinkyKatieJames
Haven't had an issue. My boyfriend knows what I like. However, if he were to do something I didn't like, all I have to do is tell him what I want and he'll gladly oblige.
03/27/2013
Sometimes, because he will get crazy with it when I am ultra sensitive.
03/27/2013
Yeah, sometimes. It's hard to know how it feels when it isn't your own.
03/27/2013
Sometimes I have to slow him down a little or I'll get sore. I never get "frustrated" or upset with him, though.
04/03/2013
I am very particular in what kind of stimulation I need and where...and he never seems to get it just right very often (it's hard for even ME to get there, though, on my own)....so I do get frustrated sometimes that he will get the spot and change rhythm or position and I lose it all over again. I've tried to work with him on it, but he doesn't have the greatest memory for these things! (back rubs are always the same way - I'll tell him where I'm sore and that seems to be the spot he rubs the least!!)
04/03/2013
Absolutely. He gets a little crazy with thrusting sometimes. It's awful when it happens with glass.
04/03/2013
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