Do you identify as being a feminist?

Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
Do you identify as being a feminist?

What does the word mean to you, and do you have any qualms with the feminist movement? If so, what are they?
02/04/2013
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Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Yes, of course I identify as a feminist.

Feminism is the radical notion that women are people.
02/04/2013
Contributor: marriedlady123 marriedlady123
yes i do, and i believe that it means that men and women deserve the same basic rights and responsibilities. I don't see how women can't identify as such!
02/04/2013
Contributor: hem hem
Yep! To me, feminism is about overturning the idea that "masculine" is better/stronger/etc. than "feminine," but while also denying the gender binary.
02/04/2013
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
Absolutely! There are different sections of the movement I of course don't agree with or identify with, but the one message that all types of feminism work toward is gender equality. Something I'm very passionate about, and while we've come a long way towards equality, it is far from over. I think feminist is a word that carries a lot of negative weight with some people and that is why some a hesitant to embrace it, but any movement is going to be complex, and shying away from the issue all together is not the way to tackle it.
02/04/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife does not identify with feminism - so I don't worry about it one way or the other.
02/05/2013
Contributor: Trixxxy Trixxxy
Meh not really. I don't usually wear a bra though lol
02/05/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
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Originally posted by xGOLDx
Absolutely! There are different sections of the movement I of course don't agree with or identify with, but the one message that all types of feminism work toward is gender equality. Something I'm very passionate about, and while we've ... more
xGoldx explained how I feel about it precisely. Often the word feminism carries negative connotations. People associate it with flannel wearing, men hating lesbians who don't shave. While there are feminists like this, I am far from that. I believe that both genders are equally valuable. Women and men are not the same, its just a fact, but we should embrace and respect our differences and unique strengths. In our society women are almost forced to adopt male traits in order to be respected by men in the business word. I hope that this can change and we have made leaps and bounds. I still like to feel feminine and allow my man dominance in certain areas of our relationship, but overall I'm very strong willed and feel blessed to be a woman.
02/05/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I identify strongly as a feminist and so does my current partner, who is a cisman.

I don't like academic, upper class feminism that's heavy in theory and is opposed to hierarchy and that sort of thing. I am a working class feminist, so I'm really interested in real issues on the ground that myself and my friends deal with, like access to abortion and birth control, sexual harassment, health insurance, sexual abuse and other violence against women, and that sort of thing. I like organizations that have co-chairs and find it really annoying and quite frankly a waste of time to sit around and talk about how we shouldn't have leadership positions and all be on equal footing in a feminist student group, which it seems like all upper class feminists want to do.
02/05/2013
Contributor: DigitalSweety DigitalSweety
I absolutely do. And yes, I'm one of those "loud" feminists.
02/06/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
If I were to call myself a feminist, it would be based on the fact that woman and men should be treated equally and there is no "top gender".
I also believe that women need to respect themselves more...I know of many women who think that be being a slut, basically, makes them "strong". No-- you were a booty call.
Anyway, I believe in equality.
02/06/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
Oh, wow. So many yes's, ha.

I guess I was mostly curious because I know lots of people personally who say they DON'T identify as being a feminist because for so long certain feminists have only cared about issues that affect white cis women.

So basically they are hesitant to associate themselves with a group that claimed to be all inclusive but wasn't that much, really.
02/07/2013
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Can you imagine the flack someone would get if they said they weren't a feminist? It would be like admitting you drown bags of puppies on the weekends or something.

I'm an equalist. It's just a no-brainer to me: we're all people. Treat everyone with respect and be reasonable.
02/08/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I'm a man and yes, a feminist. I'm really a "humanist", i.e., I'm for the rights and happiness of all people. But I find myself doing more to advance women's rights because that's the work that needs doing now.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Llewey Llewey
I identify as a feminist. I don't agree with some of the more radical ideologies stemming from third-wave feminist initiatives, but there are radicals no matter where you look. Feminism has done a lot of good for not just women, but how society views gender as a whole. There's still a ways to go.
02/09/2013
Contributor: doowop doowop
I do. My beliefs are a little more radical.
02/09/2013
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
It depends on the context but I tend to avoid just because in many places say the word feminist and people already start building the straw-man in their heads.
02/09/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by fizzygato
Do you identify as being a feminist?

What does the word mean to you, and do you have any qualms with the feminist movement? If so, what are they?
I am not a radical feminist but I do believe in people being treated equally and celebrated for their individual strengths and abilities. I do not believe that men and women are exactly the same nor should they try to be...just as I don't think ANYONE should try to be the exact same and anyone else. If, however, a man proves he is a nurturing parent he should be allowed to celebrate his partner going out and earning them a living. Likewise if a woman has proven she is capable it is immoral and wrong to judge her unworthy because she MIGHT get pregnant. Men have mood swings just as frequently as women and if a woman's cycle is impacting her life negatively there are ways to cope. There are things in men's lives that have just as much impact regularly on their lives as a monthly cycle!

I do not believe we should ever denigrate a woman who wishes to accept the traditional duties of a mother/housewife. Running a household is a full time job and should be treated as a career choice not a cop out. Not all of us WANT to work outside the home but it doesn't mean I want women to be denied the same paycheck as any man with the same qualifications.

I am a feminist but I don't blame men because lots of times women have allowed men to do as they please because it was just easier than fighting. I see this as a human problem and I think as men and women we need to come together to work out these differences instead of being adversaries.
02/10/2013
Contributor: FlightyBroad FlightyBroad
I am a feminist, and must admit I'm a little sad at how many responses there are that say they aren't "like those other feminists that wear flannel". There is such a negative connotation with feminism, and it's something that needs to be banished. What is wrong with butch women who like wearing flannel? Why must other women make it such a big deal to separate themselves from these women? It's quite ridiculous.
Feminism is a much needed thing in today's society, as long as people are educated on current feminism. There is some ideals that I heavily disagree with, such as the "womyn born womyn" ridiculousness that excludes trans*women from the movement. All sisters should be accepted and celebrated.
02/11/2013
Contributor: socceras socceras
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Originally posted by fizzygato
Do you identify as being a feminist?

What does the word mean to you, and do you have any qualms with the feminist movement? If so, what are they?
I don't consider myself one. I don't feel like I have had any problems being a woman. Sometimes I think people take it too far and feel that just because she is a woman she should be treated better than a man.
02/11/2013
Contributor: improbableomnicide improbableomnicide
Feminism is one of the most important movements in the world. When you look at the base ideals, it's about equal treatment, something everyone deserves and no one should be denied. Everyone should be a feminist, and everyone should learn the proper meaning of the word. I'm a proud feminist, but all I ask for is the right to be heard, because the only kind of "special" treatment I'd like is equality.
02/12/2013
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by improbableomnicide
Feminism is one of the most important movements in the world. When you look at the base ideals, it's about equal treatment, something everyone deserves and no one should be denied. Everyone should be a feminist, and everyone should learn the ... more
I can totally see your point, but you remarkably demonstrate may issues with Feminism...semantics.
02/12/2013
Contributor: Meido Meido
Of course, I would really consider myself an egalitarian.
02/12/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Everyone needs feminism. Even men.
02/12/2013
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by TheirPet
Everyone needs feminism. Even men.
Wouldn't you call that "equality" then? See...semantics.
02/12/2013
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Wouldn't you call that "equality" then? See...semantics.
It only as semantically as the difference between a doctor and a cardiologist. "Equality" is an extremely broad thing, too broad for any one to be a specialist in all respects the same way no one is a proficient in all form of medicine. A Feminists demotes working for equality through a lens of gender analysis and changes based around gender mainly focused around the gender labeled woman, others work for equality through an economic lens, yet no one would say the difference between (insert economic theory here) and "equality" is just semantics. Others work for equality through a more racial lens, other by analysis of class.

That you want for "equality" doesn't mean you know or practice it through the lens of gender any more then working for equality through the lens of gender means you understand economic inequality. Their is of course overlap and it get very very complicated but my basic point remains to me saying you believe in "equality' is like a chef saying his culinary specificity is "food" all who have worked for equality have done so through specific lens ,even if they are unaware of which lens they where using, giving names to those lens is no more semantic then giving different culinary approaches different names.

To put it another equality is a goal, feminism is a class of approaches towards that goal (and only one of multiple which must be deployed for that goal to be met.) It is not semantic to differentiate between the goal and the means nor to difference between different process working towards that goal.
02/12/2013
Contributor: StarrStacked StarrStacked
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Originally posted by fizzygato
Do you identify as being a feminist?

What does the word mean to you, and do you have any qualms with the feminist movement? If so, what are they?
I identify as a feminist. It took me until college and a few gender studies classes before I owned the title. I always had this perception that feminists were all radical before then. I actually kind of had a coming out with my boyfriend, I told him I was a feminist and he said "uh.....I know." haha I guess it was obvious to everyone but me.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by novanilla
I identify strongly as a feminist and so does my current partner, who is a cisman.

I don't like academic, upper class feminism that's heavy in theory and is opposed to hierarchy and that sort of thing. I am a working class feminist, so ... more
I like this stance.
02/20/2013
Contributor: dks210 dks210
YES! There is still a ton of oppression that women have to deal with.
02/21/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by fizzygato
Do you identify as being a feminist?

What does the word mean to you, and do you have any qualms with the feminist movement? If so, what are they?
yes and no
02/21/2013