This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but if you are in this category please vote. Thank you. Not ready to say why I'm asking.
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03/08/2012
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My pregnancies were not a result from a broken condom and unlikely from pre ejaculation.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but
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This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but if you are in this category please vote. Thank you. Not ready to say why I'm asking.
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03/08/2012
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Thanks for replying. Alright, I'll confess the reason for my poll. My period was two weeks late; I didn't think much of it at first because I've been late off and on. I finally took a pregnancy test tonight--two of them, back to back-and they both show I'm pregnant. I know this should be a happy time because I'm married, but I was considering leaving my husband due to some serious problems in our relationship. I'm still in shock that I'm pregnant, because he does NOT cum inside me. He wears condoms, but we start out 'bare'. I completely underestimated pre cum! My first (and only other) boyfriend would cum inside me quite often, usually right after my period but sometimes even during my fertile time, and I never got pregnant. I only recently learned that different men can have vastly different sperm counts...I mean, I knew that, but it never occurred to me. :-( Sorry if I'm not making sense, I'm just in total shock right now. This is NOT a good time. I need to finish school, and I have no health insurance whatsoever. I'm going to try to convince my husband to move back to WA with me, where I can get full health coverage.....but I doubt he will, because he's an immigrant and doesn't have papers to find a new job. Ugh what a mess!!! Going to call the dr. tomorrow..
Originally posted by
K101
My pregnancies were not a result from a broken condom and unlikely from pre ejaculation.
03/08/2012
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My husband and I use Withdrawal as a BC method. We have used other methods, but we have had problems with most of them. BC pills make me very ill and increase migraines. The diaphragm presses on my urethra, and I have urinary tract problems and scar tissue, so I can't use that. I am allergic to latex, so condoms are usually out, as finding condoms in Large is nearly impossible and being older, My Man can't seem to maintain an erection while using one. I gained 45 lbs on Depo Provera, I am allergic to Noxinal 9, so foams and creams are out (plus they are not really effective on their own) and last time I checked the Sponge was not only made from latex, but it contains Noxinal 9.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but
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This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but if you are in this category please vote. Thank you. Not ready to say why I'm asking.
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So, he makes sure he has urinated since his last ejaculation, and we have found that Withdrawal works well. He has excellent control, and we're fluid bound, and even Planned Parenthood admits it's a workable form of BC if practiced properly and when the penis is withdrawn BEFORE the orgasm of the man starts.
But, if he didn't urinate since the last ejaculation, or if he came "even a little bit, or I hate to say it, but some guys do it) he poked a hole in the condom to "keep" you around. This can be done THROUGH the package, and cannot be seen pregnancy is possible. If you don't have insurance, please look up your local Planned Parenthood, they can really help out women in your position. (And, hon, you need to do what YOU need to do now, which is finish school and get away from him....)
I just read that you have had two positive pregnancy tests. If you want to talk, please PM me. It's still early.
Take care honey. My thoughts are with you.
03/08/2012
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All I have for you right now is this:
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
Thanks for replying. Alright, I'll confess the reason for my poll. My period was two weeks late; I didn't think much of it at first because I've been late off and on. I finally took a pregnancy test tonight--two of them, back to back-and
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Thanks for replying. Alright, I'll confess the reason for my poll. My period was two weeks late; I didn't think much of it at first because I've been late off and on. I finally took a pregnancy test tonight--two of them, back to back-and they both show I'm pregnant. I know this should be a happy time because I'm married, but I was considering leaving my husband due to some serious problems in our relationship. I'm still in shock that I'm pregnant, because he does NOT cum inside me. He wears condoms, but we start out 'bare'. I completely underestimated pre cum! My first (and only other) boyfriend would cum inside me quite often, usually right after my period but sometimes even during my fertile time, and I never got pregnant. I only recently learned that different men can have vastly different sperm counts...I mean, I knew that, but it never occurred to me. :-( Sorry if I'm not making sense, I'm just in total shock right now. This is NOT a good time. I need to finish school, and I have no health insurance whatsoever. I'm going to try to convince my husband to move back to WA with me, where I can get full health coverage.....but I doubt he will, because he's an immigrant and doesn't have papers to find a new job. Ugh what a mess!!! Going to call the dr. tomorrow..
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03/08/2012
Like P'Gell said there's some form of planned parenthood in every state ours is called the department of health and Medicaid.
HUGS!
HUGS!
03/08/2012
We're thinking of you and on your side, honey.
03/08/2012
I haven't been pregnant, but I wanted to let you know that I have nothing but for you, and I wish you all the best of luck!
03/08/2012
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Yes, I have been pregnant and it was definitely from cum
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but
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more
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but if you are in this category please vote. Thank you. Not ready to say why I'm asking.
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03/08/2012
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I have an oddly tilted uterus and cervix so I know for a fact that I have only gotten pregnant if Sigel and Arch ejaculated deeply near my cervix and only if I was on my knees or on top of them. If I curl up on my back in the missioary position my cervix curls up and it not reachable by the poor little sperm. LOL So no precum stories for me!
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but
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more
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but if you are in this category please vote. Thank you. Not ready to say why I'm asking.
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However, my cousin was fanatical about never having ejaculate anywhere near the inside of her vagina and her husband would pull out and ejaculate on her stomach....she got pregnant and the DR. told her that probably it happened either from precum or from when she jumped into a warm bath after sex. So it CAN happen.
I had another friend who believed that she was fine having anal sex only and got pregnant but (this is sort of gross) she had a fissure between her anus and her vagina that leaked some fecal matter and apparently sperm into just the right spot...and lead to a MASSIVE infection that nearly cost her the pregnancy and could have cost her the ability to have children in the future. This isn't a cautionary tale about anal sex though it was just an odd happening. She and her lover had a habit of using spit as lube and she had a weak area in the muscles of her perineum....so the real moral is LUBE up then add some more lube and remember to use a proper lube!
It is amazing to me how sometimes it seems no matter how careful you are if it's meant to be it's simply meant to be!
03/08/2012
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I wish you the best and hope you will reach out to P'Gell and others who can help you through this. You aren't alone in whatever you decide.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
Thanks for replying. Alright, I'll confess the reason for my poll. My period was two weeks late; I didn't think much of it at first because I've been late off and on. I finally took a pregnancy test tonight--two of them, back to back-and
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more
Thanks for replying. Alright, I'll confess the reason for my poll. My period was two weeks late; I didn't think much of it at first because I've been late off and on. I finally took a pregnancy test tonight--two of them, back to back-and they both show I'm pregnant. I know this should be a happy time because I'm married, but I was considering leaving my husband due to some serious problems in our relationship. I'm still in shock that I'm pregnant, because he does NOT cum inside me. He wears condoms, but we start out 'bare'. I completely underestimated pre cum! My first (and only other) boyfriend would cum inside me quite often, usually right after my period but sometimes even during my fertile time, and I never got pregnant. I only recently learned that different men can have vastly different sperm counts...I mean, I knew that, but it never occurred to me. :-( Sorry if I'm not making sense, I'm just in total shock right now. This is NOT a good time. I need to finish school, and I have no health insurance whatsoever. I'm going to try to convince my husband to move back to WA with me, where I can get full health coverage.....but I doubt he will, because he's an immigrant and doesn't have papers to find a new job. Ugh what a mess!!! Going to call the dr. tomorrow..
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03/08/2012
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Originally posted by
bayosgirl
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but
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more
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but if you are in this category please vote. Thank you. Not ready to say why I'm asking.
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03/08/2012
Guys, I'm not going to abort my baby. If indeed this is correct, and I haven't been to the dr. yet to confirm, I cannot do that. I don't know what I'm going to do, but abortion is not an option. Thank you for your well meaning support and kind words.
03/08/2012
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definitely from cum
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but
...
more
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but if you are in this category please vote. Thank you. Not ready to say why I'm asking.
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03/12/2012
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definitely from cum
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but
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more
This poll is for ladies who have been pregnant only, please. I'm wondering how many have been pregnant when their partner/s did NOT cum inside them, in other words, pre-cum had to have been the cause. I know this might be hard to determine, but if you are in this category please vote. Thank you. Not ready to say why I'm asking.
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03/12/2012
Pre cum can definitely carry sperm
03/12/2012
i've never been pregnant and have used the withdrawal method and rhythm/calendar method mainly.
if you are pregnant and facing a difficult decision about how to proceed with this new addition, i really wish you all the best. if you feel overwhelmed, feel free to pm me any time.
hugs.
if you are pregnant and facing a difficult decision about how to proceed with this new addition, i really wish you all the best. if you feel overwhelmed, feel free to pm me any time.
hugs.
03/12/2012
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Thank you. I appreciate the support.
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
i've never been pregnant and have used the withdrawal method and rhythm/calendar method mainly.
if you are pregnant and facing a difficult decision about how to proceed with this new addition, i really wish you all the best. if you feel ... more
if you are pregnant and facing a difficult decision about how to proceed with this new addition, i really wish you all the best. if you feel ... more
i've never been pregnant and have used the withdrawal method and rhythm/calendar method mainly.
if you are pregnant and facing a difficult decision about how to proceed with this new addition, i really wish you all the best. if you feel overwhelmed, feel free to pm me any time.
hugs. less
if you are pregnant and facing a difficult decision about how to proceed with this new addition, i really wish you all the best. if you feel overwhelmed, feel free to pm me any time.
hugs. less
03/13/2012
We used pull out for 1.5 years before I got the pill, since I could not afford to go to the Dr. I did not get pregnant. I have been pregnant 3 times so far and they were all planned, so it was the full load inside of me all time.
If you got a positive result you are more than likely pregnant. There are false results with EPT's, but they inaccurate results are rarely, if ever, a positive test that should be negative. This is because the test is looking for the hormone and if you have the hormone you are pregnant. It will sometimes read negative when you are actually positive because there isn't enough hormone to get an accurate result.
Good luck to you and I hope you figure out what is best for you and your family.
If you got a positive result you are more than likely pregnant. There are false results with EPT's, but they inaccurate results are rarely, if ever, a positive test that should be negative. This is because the test is looking for the hormone and if you have the hormone you are pregnant. It will sometimes read negative when you are actually positive because there isn't enough hormone to get an accurate result.
Good luck to you and I hope you figure out what is best for you and your family.
03/13/2012
Pre cum is a fluid that the male body uses to clean out the pipes before ejaculating. If a guys pees after every ejaculation the fluid does not have any Sperm
03/14/2012
Its how I got pregnant! And we know it for a fact because we got interrupted right in the middle of sex, and I had to leave. We didnt have sex for another three months! So it had to be that time, and it had to be pre cum.
04/23/2012
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Depo Provera is EVIL. I gained 80 lbs and even though I have been off it for 10 years I still don't have regular periods.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
My husband and I use Withdrawal as a BC method. We have used other methods, but we have had problems with most of them. BC pills make me very ill and increase migraines. The diaphragm presses on my urethra, and I have urinary tract problems and scar
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more
My husband and I use Withdrawal as a BC method. We have used other methods, but we have had problems with most of them. BC pills make me very ill and increase migraines. The diaphragm presses on my urethra, and I have urinary tract problems and scar tissue, so I can't use that. I am allergic to latex, so condoms are usually out, as finding condoms in Large is nearly impossible and being older, My Man can't seem to maintain an erection while using one. I gained 45 lbs on Depo Provera, I am allergic to Noxinal 9, so foams and creams are out (plus they are not really effective on their own) and last time I checked the Sponge was not only made from latex, but it contains Noxinal 9.
So, he makes sure he has urinated since his last ejaculation, and we have found that Withdrawal works well. He has excellent control, and we're fluid bound, and even Planned Parenthood admits it's a workable form of BC if practiced properly and when the penis is withdrawn BEFORE the orgasm of the man starts.
But, if he didn't urinate since the last ejaculation, or if he came "even a little bit, or I hate to say it, but some guys do it) he poked a hole in the condom to "keep" you around. This can be done THROUGH the package, and cannot be seen pregnancy is possible. If you don't have insurance, please look up your local Planned Parenthood, they can really help out women in your position. (And, hon, you need to do what YOU need to do now, which is finish school and get away from him....)
I just read that you have had two positive pregnancy tests. If you want to talk, please PM me. It's still early.
Take care honey. My thoughts are with you. less
So, he makes sure he has urinated since his last ejaculation, and we have found that Withdrawal works well. He has excellent control, and we're fluid bound, and even Planned Parenthood admits it's a workable form of BC if practiced properly and when the penis is withdrawn BEFORE the orgasm of the man starts.
But, if he didn't urinate since the last ejaculation, or if he came "even a little bit, or I hate to say it, but some guys do it) he poked a hole in the condom to "keep" you around. This can be done THROUGH the package, and cannot be seen pregnancy is possible. If you don't have insurance, please look up your local Planned Parenthood, they can really help out women in your position. (And, hon, you need to do what YOU need to do now, which is finish school and get away from him....)
I just read that you have had two positive pregnancy tests. If you want to talk, please PM me. It's still early.
Take care honey. My thoughts are with you. less
04/25/2012
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Planned Parenthood offers a wide range of women's health - it is not just for abortions.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
Guys, I'm not going to abort my baby. If indeed this is correct, and I haven't been to the dr. yet to confirm, I cannot do that. I don't know what I'm going to do, but abortion is not an option. Thank you for your well meaning support and kind words.
04/25/2012
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