Started joining a women's tennis team. Nothing professional. Just fun. We hit the spas afterwards and see each other naked quite a bit. My friend and I both realized we have chunky vulvas. Neither of us are obese, but slightly overweight by maybe 20 pounds or less. However my vulva always looked chunky even when I was a twig in high school. I felt so embarrassed wearing a swimsuit because it looked like I carried men's junk!

It's chunky in the front pelvic area and my lips are a little fat. My OB/GYN claims half the women he sees have chunky vulvas but I never see that anywhere in magazines or movies. Everyone else's seems so tiny! Especially in our tennis group. Almost makes me want to get work done.

Does anyone else have a chunky vulva/pelvic/pubic area. less

Started joining a women's tennis team. Nothing professional. Just fun. We hit the spas afterwards and see each other naked quite a bit. My friend and I both realized we have chunky vulvas. Neither of us are obese, but slightly overweight by maybe 20 pounds or less. However my vulva always looked chunky even when I was a twig in high school. I felt so embarrassed wearing a swimsuit because it looked like I carried men's junk!

It's chunky in the front pelvic area and my lips are a little fat. My OB/GYN claims half the women he sees have chunky vulvas but I never see that anywhere in magazines or movies. Everyone else's seems so tiny! Especially in our tennis group. Almost makes me want to get work done.

Does anyone else have a chunky vulva/pelvic/pubic area. less

Woops. I missed the second vote about being overweight, so I'll say it here.

I do have a fat cooter, and I am not overweight. It doesn't bother me, and never really has. I guess it's something I have kind of embraced. Everyone's is different, and it doesn't matter what size you or your crotch is. My partner says he LOVES the chubby thing. Ha Ha. Don't be embarrassed. I hate that for you.

Oh and the worst thing you can do is look in mags and movies! Goodness, they have been so airbrushed. If you're going to look through those mags, I recommend you do a search on those people "before they were airbrushed." You'll feel completely different! I've seen the posts outing certain magazines by showing the before and after photos! Some of the people are outraged when their photos appear airbrushed/edited in a magazine, and they speak out about it. Look it up online and I'm sure you'll find the real photos.

I really hope you are able to come to love your vagina and not get work done! Dear God, you have to research the negative things that can happen from that. Loss of sensation, ongoing pain. I used to hate my labia, well one of them because one is large and scraped my jeans causing discomfort, always gets tugged during sex and is ugly to me, so I considered work. No way! After I learned the possibly effects, I think I immediately started loving my labia just a smidgen more, just thinking about how awful they could end up -- pain, no sensation.

Don't worry. Mine is not tiny. I'm with you. And my partner really doesn't care. He grabs it! And says "oooh! It makes me grit my teeth cause it's cute." So I'm sure your own partner(s) have no issue with yours, if that is something you're worried about. Honestly, I highly doubt men see fat cooters as ugly. I really don't think anybody does. I don't. I don't think a "skinny" cooter is nicer looking.

I am sorry you feel badly though, I know what it's like to feel like crap about your body. I really do. But I know sometimes, you can end up loving a certain part you once hated and I hope that you do end up loving it instead of feeling bad about it. It can happen. Things can change. I just hate for any girl to feel bad about herself. It makes me sad.

Anyways, just know you aren't alone. I think you should do a poll for the guys, asking what they think of cooter size. Maybe more perspective would give you a better idea what other's think and maybe even show you that it's not something considered "ugly." less

Woops. I missed the second vote about being overweight, so I'll say it here.

I do have a fat cooter, and I am not overweight. It doesn't bother me, and never really has. I guess it's something I have kind of embraced. Everyone's is different, and it doesn't matter what size you or your crotch is. My partner says he LOVES the chubby thing. Ha Ha. Don't be embarrassed. I hate that for you.

Oh and the worst thing you can do is look in mags and movies! Goodness, they have been so airbrushed. If you're going to look through those mags, I recommend you do a search on those people "before they were airbrushed." You'll feel completely different! I've seen the posts outing certain magazines by showing the before and after photos! Some of the people are outraged when their photos appear airbrushed/edited in a magazine, and they speak out about it. Look it up online and I'm sure you'll find the real photos.

I really hope you are able to come to love your vagina and not get work done! Dear God, you have to research the negative things that can happen from that. Loss of sensation, ongoing pain. I used to hate my labia, well one of them because one is large and scraped my jeans causing discomfort, always gets tugged during sex and is ugly to me, so I considered work. No way! After I learned the possibly effects, I think I immediately started loving my labia just a smidgen more, just thinking about how awful they could end up -- pain, no sensation.

Don't worry. Mine is not tiny. I'm with you. And my partner really doesn't care. He grabs it! And says "oooh! It makes me grit my teeth cause it's cute." So I'm sure your own partner(s) have no issue with yours, if that is something you're worried about. Honestly, I highly doubt men see fat cooters as ugly. I really don't think anybody does. I don't. I don't think a "skinny" cooter is nicer looking.

I am sorry you feel badly though, I know what it's like to feel like crap about your body. I really do. But I know sometimes, you can end up loving a certain part you once hated and I hope that you do end up loving it instead of feeling bad about it. It can happen. Things can change. I just hate for any girl to feel bad about herself. It makes me sad.

Anyways, just know you aren't alone. I think you should do a poll for the guys, asking what they think of cooter size. Maybe more perspective would give you a better idea what other's think and maybe even show you that it's not something considered "ugly." less

First of all, magazines and most photo porn/erotica are definitely photoshopped. See this documentary for proof!

Vulvas are actually extremely variable in their measurements, sizes, and shapes. Before you go thinking about chopping it up, think about why you would want to look like everyone else (or what you think everyone else looks like). What if everyone got surgery to make their noses look the same? Where's the fun in that?

I used to get worked up about my lippy vagina, but then I realized I was actually concerned about the stereotypes about big vulvas. Contrary to popular belief, the look of your genitals is genetic, and not a sign of "looseness" or anything. Just ask your partner. We should be getting rid of those stereotypes, not trying to make everyone fit into one definition of beauty. less

First of all, magazines and most photo porn/erotica are definitely photoshopped. See this documentary for proof!

Vulvas are actually extremely variable in their measurements, sizes, and shapes. Before you go thinking about chopping it up, think about why you would want to look like everyone else (or what you think everyone else looks like). What if everyone got surgery to make their noses look the same? Where's the fun in that?

I used to get worked up about my lippy vagina, but then I realized I was actually concerned about the stereotypes about big vulvas. Contrary to popular belief, the look of your genitals is genetic, and not a sign of "looseness" or anything. Just ask your partner. We should be getting rid of those stereotypes, not trying to make everyone fit into one definition of beauty. less