It seems like most toys aren't anatomically shaped for me, but I have similar shapes to the majority here. It makes me wonder who the hell actually tests these out to see if they hit the right spots or not.

I just said internal because I couldn't think of another word lol

That's fair. I sometimes just see people on the internet calling the larger labe configuration like "coming out of the vagina." Just a knee-jerk reaction, sorry.

i have no idea how you'd measure out small/medium/large bits

i just kind of based it off of porn and relating the bits to each other

Well, a friend told me she didn't understand how I didn't know where my clit was because hers was obvious. Mine is small and hides under the hood most of the time. Hers is obviously on the bigger side. And from there, just compare the different areas to each other

I have struggled a little bit with my darn labia. My labia majora (outer lips) are... well, let's just say it. They're chubby. The whole thing is chubby. I've come to like that after seeing how much my partner loved it. However, the shit I deal with over my stupid labia minora (inner) make it hard to love them, no matter how much my partner does. The left labia really isn't large at all. In fact, I'd consider it to be small. It doesn't stick out from my outer labia at all, but this one. This one damn right side labia is a nightmare! It's longer and does protrude from my outer labia. Jesus. I sound like a monster describing this! Lol.

I really don't think my largest labia is abnormally large at all. I've done some digging into labia problems from them being too big and mine really seem to be of a fine size, but it hurts all the time. The thought of surgery crosses my mind from time to time when I'm having pain there, but I so don't want to go through that and fall into the category of women who feel the need to be society's idea of perfect and therefore they're putting more money in drs pockets. The reason that upsets me is because a few years ago I read an article where the cosmetic surgeons were quoting saying things like how they simply tell a woman her labia are unsightly and bam! 10K goes right into my pocket. That is what one surgeon said. Anothr said something about how women growing more insecure are what allows him so many vacations and luxuries. It made me sick! One said that all he had to do was take a look at his patients vagina, then crinkle his nose and then she was sold and he was paid. I don't wanna be one of those girls.

Lately when I find my labia hurting me, I have this debate all day in my head. Do I want to go through all that and be "one of those girls" or can I truly deal with the discomfort, often pain? It's a hard decision and I don't know what I'll end up doing. I haven't yet truly considered getting it done though.

ANyways, there's my little labia story. LOL.

My clitoris, it's small. The skin around it is pudgy, but the clitoris is very small.

My shape down there, I don't think, has helped me benefit or not benefit with toys at all. I own almost every vibrating panty item sold these days and none didn't fit my shape. Same with toys. The shape and size of my labia and clitoris don't play any role in how a toy works or does not work for me. The space between my clitoris and my entrance has mattered when it comes to rabbit style vibes, but not much at all. I've only had one rabbit-style vibe that did not line up correctly. I've owned 8 dual action or "rabbit style" vibrators so that's pretty good.

My labia and clitoris' size haven't made any different. The sensations aren't any better or worse simply because of the size of my parts. Also, the shape of them haven't made any difference for how the vibes or panty vibes work for me. It's more about how responsive/sensitive you are. I've had issues with the panties being awfully uncomfy and the vibes being weak or numbingly buzzy, but nothing that's been due to my shape or size so far.

I've had issues with insertable toys being too big to actually fit inside me, but I just stick with average or slimmer sizes and nothing with fat, blunt tips.

I have long outer labia and a small clit so it's a little frustrating some times access wise

Mine is pretty much hidden.

same here

that is both odd and kind of sweet lol