How is your genital situation shaped?

How is your genital situation shaped?

pirata pirata
So there are some toys that are hard, if not impossible, to use if you are shaped a certain way. For me, that means vibrating panties. By this question, I mean long outer labia, short inner labia, small clit. Can see the inner labia and clit with legs mostly closed or can't. Stuff like that. (If you know better how you are shaped, you can also know what kind of things won't work well for you. So feel free to mention any toy that doesn't work well for you.)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
my internal situation is totally hidden by my outer labia
17
im not totally hidden
16
long outer labia
4
medium outer labia
23
short outer labia
6
long inner labia
13
medium inner labia
10
short inner labia
13
small clit
17
medium clit
22
large clit
Total votes: 141 (44 voters)
Poll is closed
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife has a medium size clit and outer labia. Her inner labia are fairly long and do protrude a bit. She doesn't have any trouble with tugging on her inner labia as long as she's well lubricated - either natural or added.
06/13/2012
Badass Badass
All my junk is inside my lips.
06/13/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by pirata
So there are some toys that are hard, if not impossible, to use if you are shaped a certain way. For me, that means vibrating panties. By this question, I mean long outer labia, short inner labia, small clit. Can see the inner labia and clit with ...
It seems like most toys aren't anatomically shaped for me, but I have similar shapes to the majority here. It makes me wonder who the hell actually tests these out to see if they hit the right spots or not.
06/13/2012
Khanner Khanner
Just so you know, ALL clits and labia minora are external anatomy. The only thing inside your body is the vagina, even if your majora covers everything else.

My outer labia are slim to none while my inner labia are visible and a bit big. For things I've tried, though, I haven't had a much of a problem.
06/13/2012
pirata pirata
Quote:
Originally posted by Khanner
Just so you know, ALL clits and labia minora are external anatomy. The only thing inside your body is the vagina, even if your majora covers everything else.

My outer labia are slim to none while my inner labia are visible and a bit big. For ...
I just said internal because I couldn't think of another word lol
06/14/2012
Khanner Khanner
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Originally posted by pirata
I just said internal because I couldn't think of another word lol
That's fair. I sometimes just see people on the internet calling the larger labe configuration like "coming out of the vagina." Just a knee-jerk reaction, sorry.
06/14/2012
tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by pirata
So there are some toys that are hard, if not impossible, to use if you are shaped a certain way. For me, that means vibrating panties. By this question, I mean long outer labia, short inner labia, small clit. Can see the inner labia and clit with ...
i have no idea how you'd measure out small/medium/large bits
06/16/2012
pirata pirata
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Originally posted by tigertiger
i have no idea how you'd measure out small/medium/large bits
i just kind of based it off of porn and relating the bits to each other
06/17/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
I'm kind of happy to know that the majority of votes are where I placed mine. It helps me feel a little less insecure about myself. ^__^
06/18/2012
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
my hubby told me when we first got together how small my clit is and how small my labia minora is. also comparing to Porn's I'd say I'm smaller then average, my labia majora cover up most everything but arnt closed tightly just long enough to cover from the side.
06/18/2012
humblepie humblepie
I don't really know how to gauge this
06/18/2012
pirata pirata
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Originally posted by humblepie
I don't really know how to gauge this
Well, a friend told me she didn't understand how I didn't know where my clit was because hers was obvious. Mine is small and hides under the hood most of the time. Hers is obviously on the bigger side. And from there, just compare the different areas to each other
06/19/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
i definatle need a point on the end of a vibe to reach my small clit
06/19/2012
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by pirata
So there are some toys that are hard, if not impossible, to use if you are shaped a certain way. For me, that means vibrating panties. By this question, I mean long outer labia, short inner labia, small clit. Can see the inner labia and clit with ...
I have struggled a little bit with my darn labia. My labia majora (outer lips) are... well, let's just say it. They're chubby. The whole thing is chubby. I've come to like that after seeing how much my partner loved it. However, the shit I deal with over my stupid labia minora (inner) make it hard to love them, no matter how much my partner does. The left labia really isn't large at all. In fact, I'd consider it to be small. It doesn't stick out from my outer labia at all, but this one. This one damn right side labia is a nightmare! It's longer and does protrude from my outer labia. Jesus. I sound like a monster describing this! Lol.

I really don't think my largest labia is abnormally large at all. I've done some digging into labia problems from them being too big and mine really seem to be of a fine size, but it hurts all the time. The thought of surgery crosses my mind from time to time when I'm having pain there, but I so don't want to go through that and fall into the category of women who feel the need to be society's idea of perfect and therefore they're putting more money in drs pockets. The reason that upsets me is because a few years ago I read an article where the cosmetic surgeons were quoting saying things like how they simply tell a woman her labia are unsightly and bam! 10K goes right into my pocket. That is what one surgeon said. Anothr said something about how women growing more insecure are what allows him so many vacations and luxuries. It made me sick! One said that all he had to do was take a look at his patients vagina, then crinkle his nose and then she was sold and he was paid. I don't wanna be one of those girls.

Lately when I find my labia hurting me, I have this debate all day in my head. Do I want to go through all that and be "one of those girls" or can I truly deal with the discomfort, often pain? It's a hard decision and I don't know what I'll end up doing. I haven't yet truly considered getting it done though.

ANyways, there's my little labia story. LOL.

My clitoris, it's small. The skin around it is pudgy, but the clitoris is very small.

My shape down there, I don't think, has helped me benefit or not benefit with toys at all. I own almost every vibrating panty item sold these days and none didn't fit my shape. Same with toys. The shape and size of my labia and clitoris don't play any role in how a toy works or does not work for me. The space between my clitoris and my entrance has mattered when it comes to rabbit style vibes, but not much at all. I've only had one rabbit-style vibe that did not line up correctly. I've owned 8 dual action or "rabbit style" vibrators so that's pretty good.

My labia and clitoris' size haven't made any different. The sensations aren't any better or worse simply because of the size of my parts. Also, the shape of them haven't made any difference for how the vibes or panty vibes work for me. It's more about how responsive/sensitive you are. I've had issues with the panties being awfully uncomfy and the vibes being weak or numbingly buzzy, but nothing that's been due to my shape or size so far.

I've had issues with insertable toys being too big to actually fit inside me, but I just stick with average or slimmer sizes and nothing with fat, blunt tips.
06/21/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by pirata
So there are some toys that are hard, if not impossible, to use if you are shaped a certain way. For me, that means vibrating panties. By this question, I mean long outer labia, short inner labia, small clit. Can see the inner labia and clit with ...
I have long outer labia and a small clit so it's a little frustrating some times access wise
06/21/2012
AshMegYo AshMegYo
I'm fairly well hidden.. I kinda wish I showed a little bit, but only because I think its hot on some people
06/22/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by pirata
So there are some toys that are hard, if not impossible, to use if you are shaped a certain way. For me, that means vibrating panties. By this question, I mean long outer labia, short inner labia, small clit. Can see the inner labia and clit with ...
Mine is pretty much hidden.
06/22/2012
hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
When my legs are not spread, everything is hidden by my outer labia unless I am aroused. In this case, some of my clitoris is visible.
06/26/2012
G&L G&L
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Originally posted by hybridinsurge
When my legs are not spread, everything is hidden by my outer labia unless I am aroused. In this case, some of my clitoris is visible.
same here
06/30/2012
Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
i was told my genital area looks like one you would see in a book........he said it was picture perfect.
06/30/2012
pirata pirata
Quote:
Originally posted by Scrawberry78
i was told my genital area looks like one you would see in a book........he said it was picture perfect.
that is both odd and kind of sweet lol
07/01/2012
Total posts: 22
Unique posters: 17