Help me please!

Contributor: ImmatureLust ImmatureLust
I need some serious advice on my wife. What would be the best way to get her to open up and tell me what her darkest desires/fantasies are? She seems so shy and embarrassed to really just tell me what she wants.
08/08/2011
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Contributor: v23 v23
Express one of your fantasies to her, nothing too intimidating. You don't want to make her uncomfy. Start with something you think she'd be comfortable with. Kind of ease into it. Don't just burst out that you want to hog tie her. LOL. After you've shared, casually ask if there's anything she'd like to try. Make it fun and sexy.
08/08/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I definitely agree to not just jump into it. Start slow with one or two of yours, and encourage her to share hers as well. But don't get upset with her if she doesn't feel comfortable yet, since you getting visibly frustrated with her will probably make her a lot less likely to want to share them in the future. Gentle encouragement is key, and keeping it fun and sexy will definitely help.
08/08/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Will she watch porn with you? If so, watch stuff that's a little less on the vanilla side of things and judge her reactions to what she is seeing and ask her questions in the moment. The key is to create a safe space. What also helps is to talk about things outside of the bedroom so the pressure is off.
08/08/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I'd say you should mention to her that you think that it would be good to share one of your own if she'll share one of hers!
08/08/2011
Contributor: ImmatureLust ImmatureLust
Thank you for all your replies.
08/08/2011