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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
...from only penetration?

Is it 'normal' to not be able to orgasm unless it's through clitoral stimulation?
11/21/2010
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Being male this is a second hand observation.

As a young woman my wife was 100% clitoral. Her orgasms were sharp & short. Since we've learned about a-spot and g-spot stimulation her orgasms are much deeper and longer, and she can easily have 3-4 in one session. The caveat here is that there is almost always clitoral stimulation in the mix - so we talk about it in terms of a 'blended' or 'combined' orgasm. Hope that helps.
11/21/2010
Contributor: socceras socceras
i have only had a clitoral orgasm. im pretty sure its normal
11/21/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
It's takes a *LOT* of work for me. It's a blue moon occurance.
11/23/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
...from only penetration?

Is it 'normal' to not be able to orgasm unless it's through clitoral stimulation?
It's extremely normal. I think the statistic is something like "only 20% of women can orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone". Scarleteen agrees with me, so my memory is correct. So 80% orgasm through clitoral stimulation alone.

There aren't really too many "sensitive" nerve endings in the vagina. They're there, but they're nothing compared to the clitoris. If you want to orgasm from penetration alone (which it will be tough), I'd recommend masturbating/foreplay beforehand that gets her close then using a rocking motion while thrusting instead of the typical in/out type of thrust. The in/out, unless you are hitting her g-spot, doesn't do much in terms of pleasure.

Otherwise, if you want to continue the in/out, find a small vibrator that she can use during penetration. Or she can just slip her hand down there if it's a position that gives her the room. Most women also find it easier to orgasm on a woman-on-top position since she can control the depth of the thrusting and everything.

However, if you can find positions that stimulate the g-spot, she can obtain a lot more pleasure during thrusting that will make her clitoral orgasms feel better. Feel free to message me for more advice/questions.
11/23/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
Penetration feels nice, but I don't think there' been a specific time where I've just orgasmed from penetration.
12/05/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Not often.
12/05/2010