My husband has never. Over the past 8 years I will admit I have gained weight. Just had a baby 4 months ago. I want to lose weight for myself (and for jean size) but he says that if I do it, I need to do it for MYSELF. not for him because he loves me no matter what.
Its an amazing feeling to have him so supportive.
If your guy isn't, I'm sorry. If he married you at this size, or near this size, then there shouldn't be no issues now. I can understand if its health related, but if you don't have many health problems (don't get me wrong, we can be big and not have health problems that normally come with it).

Good luck, hun.