Overwhelming emotional orgasms?

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Zaftig

Hey Ladies:
So when I met my husband (years ago) whenever I would have an orgasm with him penetrating me and adding a vibe to my clitoris, I would end up having such an intense orgasm that I would cry !! Is this common? For a long time I have been having solo orgasms before or after we had sex, (I can't have an orgasm from penetration alone). Then on New Years Eve I grabbed my Hitachi Magic wand and used it during. I cried so hard afterward I was embarrassed. A male friend of mine said women should NEVER cry before during or after sex as it could deflate your partners ego. Any thoughts? Also I cannot have multiple orgasms just one really huge intense one that leaves me debilitated for a 1/2 hour.

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Yes I cry during before or after orgasm but just occasionally

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No emotional response of any kind ever

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Yes an emotional response every time solo or partner sex ( crying laughing or ???)

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Total votes: 98 (95 voters)

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01/02/2011

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ScottA

I'd say go ahead and cry if you want to. Your partner should care about you enough to take care of you rather than being wrapped up in themselves all the time.

01/02/2011

Redboxbaby

If I have been under extreme stress and we have sex, resulting in an intense blended orgasm (usually A-spot, G-spot and clitoral all at the same time), I have done all sorts of strange things. I have hyperventilated and occasionally I will cry. The orgasm is just the stress reliever. The crying is an emotional response to the stress. Just because I cry, it doesn't mean I want to stop having sex or that the sex is bad. My husband just holds me closer and kisses me and we continue with what we are doing. He knows that it has nothing to do with him (the crying). He knows he is the vehicle that helps me release that which is bothering me.

01/02/2011

Lucidity

I've never cried because of an orgasm, but I know it's not uncommon. I did once have what I can only call a "head orgasm", after a particularly long and intense session with my partner, where I didn't climax, but seemed to have a strong emotional and physical response. I wanted to cry after that, but held it in. It was cool.

I'm sure your husband understands and isn't offended, he's probably happy he can get that kind of reaction from you.

01/02/2011

Jobthingy

If i have a very intense orgasm my eyes will tear like non stop. It is annoying and weird but I figure it is just the rush and that is part of my body's release.

01/02/2011

Angel deSanguine

I do occasionally cry from very intense orgasms, my husband was concerned the first time it happened. Once I explained that it wasn't a negative side effect of something he had done he has been understanding and just holds me close. Now the laughing WHILE crying I had to really explain Again, doesn't happen often, just during or after an intense scene or an intense orgasm.

01/02/2011

joja

I voted never, as I have never cried, though I do occasionally get the "sex giggles"

01/02/2011

Waterfall

I voted occasionally, but this has only happened 2 or 3 times. Right now I can't remember if there was anything significantly different about those times. The times were always with a partner, so maybe something else was involved?

01/02/2011

Zaftig

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Originally posted by ScottA

I'd say go ahead and cry if you want to. Your partner should care about you enough to take care of you rather than being wrapped up in themselves all the time.

Interestingly I asked him about it the next day and he said that he likes it when that happen because then he knows it was a really good one. He kinda just chuckles at me when I am doing it, at first I thought it was because he was uncomfortable but now I know it is because is proud of himself

01/02/2011

Zaftig

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Originally posted by Redboxbaby

I think it's also interesting to note; that I am not a 'crier' by nature. I seldom cry in my everyday life, I am wondering if that intense release is causing such an upswing in reaction?

01/02/2011

Zaftig

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Originally posted by joja

I voted never, as I have never cried, though I do occasionally get the "sex giggles"

Depends on how intense my orgasms are, but I will cry and then start laughing hysterically. The last few have only been crying only and they have been the more intense orgasms. my poor husband.

01/02/2011

Shellz31

If it's a really intense orgasm (so far only during solo play), I will have a few tears afterwards but not full on crying.
At first it was overwhelming cause ya can't control it.

01/03/2011

liilii080

I voted no, but that's not to say I haven't come close or been emotional. It's your orgasm and you shouldn't be embarrassed of it.

01/03/2011

Liz2

I also said no but I am not a crier but can be very emotional and "out there" during an intense orgasm.

01/03/2011

Airen Wolf

(EF Review Program Mentor)

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Originally posted by Zaftig

It's perfectly natural and shouldn't deflate your partner but make him proud! An emotional response, provided it isn't related to emotional distress is an indication of a TOTAL release and tears are a good sign of a GREAT orgasm.

01/03/2011

deletedacct

It's happened a handful of times during an orgasm from intercourse. It freaked my partner out but i told him they were simply tears of joy.

01/04/2011

LavenderSkies

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Originally posted by Zaftig

I've had emotional experiences on more than one occasion!

01/08/2011

Eliza

I've cried a number of times, usually immediately following a very intense orgasm. If your partner has a problem with it, you need to have a talk with him about it. It's not something you should try to stop or hide -- it's completely natural.

01/08/2011

mama2007

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Originally posted by Zaftig

true true

01/24/2011

A Good Girl

I just get sleepy

01/25/2011

Kitty8908

nope i dont cry or laugh usually i fall asleep

02/02/2011

LikeSunshineDust

Other.. I have gotten emotional during or after sex when J and I were apart for a long time, but it's not a regular occurrence.

02/09/2011

A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)

Oh yes, I cried a couple of times! I loved it and I really hope I have more orgasms like that!

02/09/2011

zeebot

I don't cry, I laugh. It's sort of awkward because sometimes they'll think I'm laughing at them, but I'm not! I'm laughing because I feel awesome!

02/11/2011

rdytogo

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Originally posted by Kitty8908

nope i dont cry or laugh usually i fall asleep

Same for me

02/14/2011

BeautiFullFigured

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Originally posted by Redboxbaby

I couldn't have worded it better myself. Exactly.

02/14/2011

indiglo

Yeah, for me it depends on the day, my mood, and the type of orgasm it is. Personally, I kind of enjoy those kinds of orgasms - the bond I feel with my partner afterwards is amazing. He's never been bothered by it.

02/15/2011

SapphirexIce

I never cried during sex, i just fall asleep better though :p

03/06/2011

Love Bites

This is very interesting,because tonight I had this happen to me.he was fingering both holes and eating me out.it was random,and I broke down in tears for no reason after my orgasm.its the first time I ever felt like that,and the only time I ever cried.my guy was worred that he had hurt me,but hwhen I explained he gave me a tender smile and made love to me.it was a wonderful feeling.

03/12/2011

VioletLilly

I've never done this (or had much of an orgasm), prior to my current girlfriend. The first time it happened she had a vibe on my doggy-style and as I came I had tears streaming down my face while laughing (the whole, can't decide if I should laugh or cry situation). She was a little freaked out at first, but now she gets excited when she's able to give me that intense of an orgasm. I didn't even know women could react like that: I'm glad I'm not the only one who gets that way. XD

03/13/2011

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