Most of my life I've had issues with not being able to get lubricated enough. I'd get excited... but no lubrication, or very little.
My current Man & I actually dated before, and during that time, I usually had to use lube or tough it out until intercourse started for me to get comfortably lubricated (an issue since he's a big boy in the equipment department) we broke up, now a couple years later we're back together, and now I'm a flipping waterfall.
While back then I would have loved to have this issue, I am experiencing a DRASTIC decrease in sensation. There are no medications that are different that could be causing this, we don't use condoms (I've got my tubes tied, so no birth control) I'm eating better and have gained weight, that's about the only differences. (Eating better didn't cause me to gain weight, I'm eating better BECAUSE I gained weight... I'm obese... if that has ANYTHING to do with anything.)
With not ENOUGH lube, you can apply some. I really don't want to have to continuously wipe it away. I haven't spoken to him about it yet, but I think he's enjoying it less now too. Which is sad, because we're both a lot better in bed now... more willing to explore each other's fantasies.
And I'm NOT loose, so not feeling him except when he hits my cervix SUCKS. There is no friction.
Any ideas? Someone suggested to me to use a vaginal tightening gel...
My current Man & I actually dated before, and during that time, I usually had to use lube or tough it out until intercourse started for me to get comfortably lubricated (an issue since he's a big boy in the equipment department) we broke up, now a couple years later we're back together, and now I'm a flipping waterfall.
While back then I would have loved to have this issue, I am experiencing a DRASTIC decrease in sensation. There are no medications that are different that could be causing this, we don't use condoms (I've got my tubes tied, so no birth control) I'm eating better and have gained weight, that's about the only differences. (Eating better didn't cause me to gain weight, I'm eating better BECAUSE I gained weight... I'm obese... if that has ANYTHING to do with anything.)
With not ENOUGH lube, you can apply some. I really don't want to have to continuously wipe it away. I haven't spoken to him about it yet, but I think he's enjoying it less now too. Which is sad, because we're both a lot better in bed now... more willing to explore each other's fantasies.
And I'm NOT loose, so not feeling him except when he hits my cervix SUCKS. There is no friction.
Any ideas? Someone suggested to me to use a vaginal tightening gel...
