Just curious of which toy is better for me to try. I have asked before but I think my choices were wrong.
Virgin: Asking about toys
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Which would you choose?
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I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
03/16/2011
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I do believe the Paul and Paulina is the most girthy rabbit on the site.
03/16/2011
I honestly would not start with a rabbit if it's your first sex toy. They are notoriously tricky and it takes time to find one that fits your anatomy just right.
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan on inserting it.
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan on inserting it.
03/17/2011
Have fun!
03/17/2011
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Yeah I wouldn't suggest a rabbit either to start with.
Originally posted by
joja
I honestly would not start with a rabbit if it's your first sex toy. They are notoriously tricky and it takes time to find one that fits your anatomy just right.
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan ... more
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan ... more
I honestly would not start with a rabbit if it's your first sex toy. They are notoriously tricky and it takes time to find one that fits your anatomy just right.
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan on inserting it. less
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan on inserting it. less
03/17/2011
I think it all depends on how comfortable you are with insertion. Use your fingers to try to get an idea of how thick of a toy you want. I know right now my thickest is 1" diameter, and that's perfect for me.
03/17/2011
I would either go with the Gigi or the fleur de lis desire by evolve. Both are quite good, however the Gigi is recharable. I would avoid bunnies since you are a beginner.
03/17/2011
I choose Fleur DE Lis because its small and one of the less expensive options but the Serenity would be equally good, either one would be enjoyable and allow you to explore with little chance of them being too much. Rabbits are tricky unless you know exactly how long a toy will fit and even then it may or may not work for you.
03/17/2011
Gigi is not only great and high-quality, but also not girthy and a good clitoral toy without extra attachments, so I think it's best for a beginner.
03/17/2011
I voted for L'Amour but I'd also encourage you to look at a clitoral vibe as well, something like Mimi (if you don't already have one). Variety is always nice.
03/17/2011
If I was you, I would look up the evolved Bottle rocket. They have four different kinds of it but it is a perfect toy for a beginner. It is small which is needed for a virgin so that first time really is an experience. But it also brings a great punch with a strong vibration that is superior to many other toys my girl has tried out. It is fairly cheap also with it being only around $15
03/17/2011
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My very first toy was the Bottle Rocket Nova. If you are new or a little hesitant of vaginal penetration, one of the bottle rockets would be great. It's not too big, which warmed me up to penetration. It's not big enough to actually make you vaginally climax, but it is a good foreplay tool, and solo, if that is your thing too. It is definitely a starter, and it's at a great price. ($11.99)
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
03/18/2011
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haha... I didn't see your post about the Bottle Rocket until I had already posted mine.. didn't mean to steal your comment. Great minds think alike, I suppose!
Originally posted by
cobiffle
If I was you, I would look up the evolved Bottle rocket. They have four different kinds of it but it is a perfect toy for a beginner. It is small which is needed for a virgin so that first time really is an experience. But it also brings a great
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If I was you, I would look up the evolved Bottle rocket. They have four different kinds of it but it is a perfect toy for a beginner. It is small which is needed for a virgin so that first time really is an experience. But it also brings a great punch with a strong vibration that is superior to many other toys my girl has tried out. It is fairly cheap also with it being only around $15
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03/18/2011
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Gigi looks great
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
03/18/2011
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Like it a lot, its reallly cuuute. Maybe I should by that and one thats 1 and 1/4 inch so I can work my way towards it. I like the Fleur De Lis silicone desire since its bendy.
Originally posted by
Miss Zombie
My very first toy was the Bottle Rocket Nova. If you are new or a little hesitant of vaginal penetration, one of the bottle rockets would be great. It's not too big, which warmed me up to penetration. It's not big enough to actually make you
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My very first toy was the Bottle Rocket Nova. If you are new or a little hesitant of vaginal penetration, one of the bottle rockets would be great. It's not too big, which warmed me up to penetration. It's not big enough to actually make you vaginally climax, but it is a good foreplay tool, and solo, if that is your thing too. It is definitely a starter, and it's at a great price. ($11.99)
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03/18/2011
Do you have any clitoral toys yet?
I would suggest those first, or ones that you could use for outside stimulation in case you do not want to insert, or are uncomfortable the first few times. It helps to be warmed up outside.
I would suggest those first, or ones that you could use for outside stimulation in case you do not want to insert, or are uncomfortable the first few times. It helps to be warmed up outside.
03/18/2011
You'll probably find more enjoyment and comfort from either the Gigi or the Fleur De Lis Desire just because they're smaller and more compact. I have a hard time with larger toys because I'm tight, though I'm not a virgin, so I can attest to the fact that both of these work wonderfully and cause no discomfort whatsoever. I would definitely avoid a rabbit until you've worked yourself up a bit with toys and gotten yourself a bit stretched to handle more girth.
Good luck
Good luck
03/18/2011
Like others have suggested, I also think the Gigi would be more comfortable for you.
Start small and work your way up to a rabbit imo.
Start small and work your way up to a rabbit imo.
03/18/2011
I honestly wouldn't suggest a g-spot toy with such a sharp curve until you've tried something traditional. You might end up hooking your pubic bone. I say get to know your anatomy really well with something basic first.
I'd consider the Liberte 2 which is reasonably priced and is from Cal Ex's high end line. Or, the Slender Tulip Wand, which the bulb might give you some light g-spot action without hooking on your pubic bone. Just because so many people here love "luxury toys" doesn't mean you have to start with them. Especially if you don't know what you'll enjoy. It's better to try different TYPES of toys.
I'd consider the Liberte 2 which is reasonably priced and is from Cal Ex's high end line. Or, the Slender Tulip Wand, which the bulb might give you some light g-spot action without hooking on your pubic bone. Just because so many people here love "luxury toys" doesn't mean you have to start with them. Especially if you don't know what you'll enjoy. It's better to try different TYPES of toys.
03/18/2011
idk what to say, i consider it to be amorous to have them all
03/18/2011
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Yea I have a few bullets that I bought but I think I am ready for something to go inside.
Originally posted by
tigerkate
Do you have any clitoral toys yet?
I would suggest those first, or ones that you could use for outside stimulation in case you do not want to insert, or are uncomfortable the first few times. It helps to be warmed up outside.
I would suggest those first, or ones that you could use for outside stimulation in case you do not want to insert, or are uncomfortable the first few times. It helps to be warmed up outside.
03/19/2011
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The liberte 2 looks amazing to try. That sounds kind of scary. I think avoiding it for now would be the best option for myself. Thank you soo much BBW Talks Toys your really helpful advice =D.
Originally posted by
BBW Talks Toys
I honestly wouldn't suggest a g-spot toy with such a sharp curve until you've tried something traditional. You might end up hooking your pubic bone. I say get to know your anatomy really well with something basic first.
I'd ... more
I'd ... more
I honestly wouldn't suggest a g-spot toy with such a sharp curve until you've tried something traditional. You might end up hooking your pubic bone. I say get to know your anatomy really well with something basic first.
I'd consider the Liberte 2 which is reasonably priced and is from Cal Ex's high end line. Or, the Slender Tulip Wand, which the bulb might give you some light g-spot action without hooking on your pubic bone. Just because so many people here love "luxury toys" doesn't mean you have to start with them. Especially if you don't know what you'll enjoy. It's better to try different TYPES of toys. less
I'd consider the Liberte 2 which is reasonably priced and is from Cal Ex's high end line. Or, the Slender Tulip Wand, which the bulb might give you some light g-spot action without hooking on your pubic bone. Just because so many people here love "luxury toys" doesn't mean you have to start with them. Especially if you don't know what you'll enjoy. It's better to try different TYPES of toys. less
03/19/2011
I wouldn't get a rabbit vibrator as a first toy, and I wouldn't spend more than $30 until you know what it is that you like in a toy.
04/07/2011
Gigi is good for a beginner (if you can afford it), but it wasn't long enough to reach my g-spot (but I have quiet a deep g-spot).
04/08/2011
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Agreed, instead maybe buy a thin vibrator and a smaller clitoral vibrator separately. Good luck!
Originally posted by
joja
I honestly would not start with a rabbit if it's your first sex toy. They are notoriously tricky and it takes time to find one that fits your anatomy just right.
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan ... more
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan ... more
I honestly would not start with a rabbit if it's your first sex toy. They are notoriously tricky and it takes time to find one that fits your anatomy just right.
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan on inserting it. less
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan on inserting it. less
04/08/2011
Personally I'd buy a dildo! I'm not into internal vibrations but I love dildos. A great beginner's dildo is the Lelo Ella because it has two ends which allows you to experiment to see what you like best: g-spotting or a plain shaft.
04/08/2011
I'd agree with not starting with a rabbit. Out of the choices above the Gigi would be my choice BUT as other have said keep it inexpensive and experiment at first.
Get a simple bullet vibe for under $30 and/or maybe an egg vibe, again under $30. Keep it simple and inexpensive until you have an idea what you may like.
Get a simple bullet vibe for under $30 and/or maybe an egg vibe, again under $30. Keep it simple and inexpensive until you have an idea what you may like.
04/13/2011
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Hardly. The Passion Wave is much girthier.
Originally posted by
potstickers
I do believe the Paul and Paulina is the most girthy rabbit on the site.
I vote for Fleur De Lis. I think if you bought the Gigi and it didn't work, you'd be out of a lot of money.
04/14/2011
Try the gigi
04/14/2011
I wouldn't spend a ton of money on it because if you do not like it you will be stuck with it. I would try something that has good reviews but not to pricey to figure out what you like.
04/14/2011
My first vibe was the Butterfly Kiss.
I really wouldn't try a rabbit to start with, but if you find you like them after using this toy (the Butterfly Kiss is similar to a rabbit, but the shaft and clitoral stimulator are waaaaay less intimidating), then you might could try one of those.
I really wouldn't try a rabbit to start with, but if you find you like them after using this toy (the Butterfly Kiss is similar to a rabbit, but the shaft and clitoral stimulator are waaaaay less intimidating), then you might could try one of those.
05/14/2011
Gigi
05/14/2011
Gigi! I still want to get that for myself. lol
05/15/2011
Honestly, I think the bullet bunny looks great for a beginner! Fairly inexpensive too.
05/15/2011
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My vote is for Serenity because it is made of Silicone, making it very hygienic, and it is flexible and giving. This will help you ease into use and feel comfortable. It also has gentle vibrations that may be good for a first time. IDK about you, but I would rather start too gentle than too hard! Good luck!
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
05/15/2011
Start with something small and work yourself up.
05/16/2011
Gigi!
05/17/2011
Archeteuthis
It might be a bit on the big side, but my first toy was a Fun Factory Astrovibe. It's inexpensive, made of silicone, and has a non-threatening design.
05/22/2011
I think your best bet would be to try the Petite Couture Serenity. It has very little texture and is of a modest girth and length (which is important for a virgin).
I think for a first toy you should stay away from the really specialized toys (like rabbits and g-spotters) because those often have more of a learning curve. But a basic, traditional style vibrator of a modest size will be versatile enough for you to use it for clitoral or internal stimulation and will allow you to get an idea of what works for you. After learning more about your body you'll be able to branch out and get the different kinds of toys that you know you'll like.
I think for a first toy you should stay away from the really specialized toys (like rabbits and g-spotters) because those often have more of a learning curve. But a basic, traditional style vibrator of a modest size will be versatile enough for you to use it for clitoral or internal stimulation and will allow you to get an idea of what works for you. After learning more about your body you'll be able to branch out and get the different kinds of toys that you know you'll like.
05/29/2011
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Gigi because its great for everyhing expecially beginners
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
07/31/2011
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im not sure id recomend any of these for a first time er
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
07/31/2011
I'd say the Gigi out of the ones you picked.
07/31/2011
Fleur De Lis silicone desire (Purple) this looks nice
08/01/2011
Lelo makes great things. I'd go with gigi.
09/02/2011
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Sorry to disagree with most, but that little rabbit is the SPECIAL part. Don't give me many toys without it.
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
09/09/2011
Lelo stuff is always good! The Gigi is really worth it. As others have said, I would definitely built up to any kind of rabbit
11/12/2011
I think Gigi is the best investment quality-wise
11/30/2011
I can't speak for any of those toys.
I'm a virgin as well and pretty new to this stuff myself. My first toy was a Hitachi Magic Wand. It was scary at first, but I just took a bunch of towels and layered it over the area until I got used to the vibrations. Then I'd flip off towel layers. I started with just clit play and exploring. Later I bought a bunch of attachments, including a rabbit one that is small and smooth.
The key with getting ready for penetration is lots of foreplay - buildup and exploring around. If it's not lubed up enough down there or uncomfortable, keep playing around with other bits until it is. You might need some artificial lube to really keep things safe and comfy. But don't use too much, either...
Rabbits still confuse me a little. I prefer to focus on one area at a time right now - G spot or clit, not both at once - so I can learn about the different feelings and how each orgasm feels (they're a little different).
Good luck!
I'm a virgin as well and pretty new to this stuff myself. My first toy was a Hitachi Magic Wand. It was scary at first, but I just took a bunch of towels and layered it over the area until I got used to the vibrations. Then I'd flip off towel layers. I started with just clit play and exploring. Later I bought a bunch of attachments, including a rabbit one that is small and smooth.
The key with getting ready for penetration is lots of foreplay - buildup and exploring around. If it's not lubed up enough down there or uncomfortable, keep playing around with other bits until it is. You might need some artificial lube to really keep things safe and comfy. But don't use too much, either...
Rabbits still confuse me a little. I prefer to focus on one area at a time right now - G spot or clit, not both at once - so I can learn about the different feelings and how each orgasm feels (they're a little different).
Good luck!
11/30/2011
Did you choose something eventually? Not in your selection but LELO Liv. Perfect in every way
12/01/2011
Way back when I chose Gigi as one of my firsts, I suggest it highly. And I've never been able to make rabbits work.
12/06/2011
i have the gigi! it's great
12/07/2011
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you should give Gigi a try.
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
12/07/2011
I just recently got the Gigi, and it's already earned a spot at the top of our toybox. Totally worth the money, and not intimidatingly large at all.
01/04/2012
I would definitely suggest a toy that deals with clitoral stimulation first before you deal with g spot stimulation
01/10/2012
Schmems527
I'm wondering the same thing basically. I have a vibrator but it is very basic and doesn't exactly thrill me. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
01/10/2012
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Agreed
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
I would either go with the Gigi or the fleur de lis desire by evolve. Both are quite good, however the Gigi is recharable. I would avoid bunnies since you are a beginner.
01/10/2012
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I agree, I wouldn't start off with a rabbit. Also, if this is your first toy I would get something cheaper because that way if the toy is too big or you don't like it for whatever reason, you didn't blow a lot of money on it.
Originally posted by
joja
I honestly would not start with a rabbit if it's your first sex toy. They are notoriously tricky and it takes time to find one that fits your anatomy just right.
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan ... more
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan ... more
I honestly would not start with a rabbit if it's your first sex toy. They are notoriously tricky and it takes time to find one that fits your anatomy just right.
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan on inserting it. less
I also wouldn't go with anything over 1.5 inches in diameter if you plan on inserting it. less
I started buying toys when I was a virgin, and I learned from experience to start off with something that is 1 inch in diameter or less. If that's fine, then I would suggest going up in size, but it helped me to start less. So, I wouldn't recomend getting any of these choices because they're all farily pricey and large. I'd start off trying something cheap and smaller so that you can learn what you like without blowing your budget on something you can't use.
02/17/2012
I would recommend you looking at the toy's sizes, particularly the diameters to see how big you would want to go. Also, something with a lot of texture may not be good for a first time. Have fun.
03/22/2012
Definitely the Gigi, I've heard great things about it.
03/24/2012
I bought the Gigi for my friend who is also a virgin and she loves it. I love the Fun Factory toys, but they get pretty thick. I think the Mini Paul would be a good option.
04/25/2012
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I agree! The Bottle Rockets were great for me when I first started out.
Originally posted by
cobiffle
If I was you, I would look up the evolved Bottle rocket. They have four different kinds of it but it is a perfect toy for a beginner. It is small which is needed for a virgin so that first time really is an experience. But it also brings a great
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more
If I was you, I would look up the evolved Bottle rocket. They have four different kinds of it but it is a perfect toy for a beginner. It is small which is needed for a virgin so that first time really is an experience. But it also brings a great punch with a strong vibration that is superior to many other toys my girl has tried out. It is fairly cheap also with it being only around $15
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04/27/2012
Gigi
04/27/2012
Everyone seems to like the Gigi, it looks pretty nice.
04/28/2012
I think the GiGi would be the best choice. You are new to this. You shouldn't be going with something that is going to over power your body your be painful. I would actually send you to the Ella by Lelo instead of the the gigi. You are going to get the same hi quality but it maybe more comfortable for a first timer. I would not every recommend that you start with a rabbit. It may over power you or be too large if you are not used to penetration. Everyone on here wants you to have a positive experience. I wish you the best of luck .
04/29/2012
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I second this. GiGi is a good choice for beginners.
Originally posted by
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Gigi is not only great and high-quality, but also not girthy and a good clitoral toy without extra attachments, so I think it's best for a beginner.
04/30/2012
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gigi
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
05/03/2012
The Petite Couture Amorous.
05/03/2012
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My first toy was the Evolved Seduction, and it's still my favorite toy. It's great for beginner because it's not too huge and it has powerful vibrations. I think you should try that one to start, it's pretty inexpensive and it's a great product. Seriously look into it! And good luck
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
05/03/2012
Gigi for sure!
05/08/2012
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Gigi
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
05/09/2012
Well, the GIGI is small, but effective. Works for me!
05/09/2012
i think you would have more fun with Gigi
05/09/2012
I have the L’Amour premium silicone massager Flutter and it's not powerful enough for me. BUT I've had toys for over 10 years though, so for a virgin, it might be good! It's thin and really smooth. It also has the clitoral stimulation, which is is always good
It really just depends on how comfortable you are with insertion. I would go with the smaller diameter ones to start. Experiment with one and find what you like.
It really just depends on how comfortable you are with insertion. I would go with the smaller diameter ones to start. Experiment with one and find what you like.
07/20/2012
I would not recommend a rabbit for your first toy. I'm very experienced with all kinds of toys and I'm still very picky about rabbits. I'd say the Gigi, but it's pricey.
07/20/2012
Gigi
07/20/2012
Gigi
07/25/2012
Evolved Fleur de Lis line is fabulous. And it's not as expensive as Gigi
07/26/2012
I do not have experience with any of those so I can not offer any advice according to the toys. However, advice in general - make sure it is a toy that you are comfortable with. Check the size/girth of the toy, don't get one that is very expensive in case you don't like it. Start simple and work your way up. Make sure you have a lube, a toy cleaner, and a safe place to store your toys (like a pouch from Eden to prevent germs getting on it when stored). Hope this helps.
08/08/2012
I'd go with something external for clitoral stimulation like the clitoral hummer or a wand.
08/08/2012
I'm a virgin, and use the Short n Sweet. I use it on my clitoris and I use it vaginally. It has not caused me any trouble, it's small and comfortable to use.
08/11/2012
Beginners should probably stay away from dual-stimulation toys until they know their body better and can make an informed decision. The Gigi is probably the best beginner toy of the ones you listed.
08/11/2012
I am a virgin and the first toy I got was a standard, small vibe, meant mostly for clitoral. It did absolutely nothing for me. The second toy I bought was the Vibratex Rabbit Habit and, while it's not perfect, I've enjoyed it a lot more than the first one. So, rabbits can be fine for beginners.
I would just suggest that, if you do want to start with a rabbit, you get one that is a bit cheaper than the Rabbit Habit, so you can figure out if you like it. My thinking behind getting a rabbit so early on in my toy career was that it they are practically "idiot proof"- I didn't have to figure out where to use it or experiment as much as you have to with a traditional vibe. Just insert and make sure the ears are on the clit- that sort of simplicity is what I need
I would just suggest that, if you do want to start with a rabbit, you get one that is a bit cheaper than the Rabbit Habit, so you can figure out if you like it. My thinking behind getting a rabbit so early on in my toy career was that it they are practically "idiot proof"- I didn't have to figure out where to use it or experiment as much as you have to with a traditional vibe. Just insert and make sure the ears are on the clit- that sort of simplicity is what I need
08/13/2012
Gigi (Purple)
08/13/2012
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I agree with this.
Originally posted by
Fuck it.
I wouldn't get a rabbit vibrator as a first toy, and I wouldn't spend more than $30 until you know what it is that you like in a toy.
09/13/2012
I would stay away from Rabbits for your first one.
09/17/2012
Gigi would probably be best for you. It's not too big and doesn't have much girth as well.
10/14/2012
Gigi
10/14/2012
I wouldn't go for a rabbit for your first. Gigi is pretty awesome. But you might want to consider a clit vibe.
10/14/2012
The gigi looks really nice!
10/14/2012
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maybe try an egg it small and simple to control
Originally posted by
Stephanie Marie
Yeah I wouldn't suggest a rabbit either to start with.
12/09/2012
If you start with any toy you dont't need to insert it. Many women I know never inserted a vibe, just used it externally.
But for a beginner I think everything that vibrates is good.
But for a beginner I think everything that vibrates is good.
12/17/2012
The GiGi, I say. I have my eye on it as well.
12/17/2012
anything silicon makes for a great first toy
12/30/2012
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Quality material is my suggestion.
Originally posted by
ColorSplash
I found a couple that I like a lot but I am not sure which would be best for me.
02/28/2013
If you are just starting out with toys, I'd recommend a basic bullet and not a rabbit.
03/03/2013
Gigi looks the best
03/06/2013
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