What Do You Call Sexual Actions?

Contributor: tokensgirl tokensgirl
sex
05/12/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Depending!
Fuck= When i just want to cum
Love making= When i want that close feeling
Let's do something= When we are around other people. lol haahahahahha
06/02/2011
Contributor: Scott Ghost Scott Ghost
I always saw straight fucking as rather un-emotional, just doing it to get off. Sex as dirty sleazy and hot. Love is the opposite of a fuck.
06/04/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
I HATE "making love."

However, I have repeatedly (though not regularly) said things like "love me hard" or some such thing. Love, clearly, in replace of fuck. When I do it it's usually without thinking. I have a feeling it's probably because something inside me feels like the word fuck has connotations of being more physical than emotional, by way of motivation. As in, you fuck because it feels good, not because you love/want to feel close to them. I also think of fucking as rougher. I would never call sweet slow gentle whatever sex "fucking." Because of that, I think that when I'm in the mood to have really emotionally charged and loving rough sex with my partner that I shy away from saying "fuck" and replace it with something else.

I don't usually use "sex" when I ask for it. "Sex" is typically my retrospect word so when it comes up after the fact I'd say "when we were having sex" rather than "when we were fucking" or whatever.

My favorite flirtatious euphemism is simply saying something along the lines of "come play with me" or "lets go play!"
11/13/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
Mostly "fucking." Sometimes "sex" or "let's go to bed" if I'm having a rare subtle moment. But, the phrase "making love" gives me the heebies.
11/13/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Unconventional
Just because you don't call it "making love" doesn't mean that's not what you're doing. We hate calling it that, but our sexual encounters are nothing short of it.

That being said, our verbal communication is ... more


'we are lookin' for blues clues!'
11/13/2011
Contributor: eeep eeep
I think "making love" only feels like it should apply when it is going to be soft and sweet. Which doesn't often seem to apply
11/13/2011
Contributor: allybee allybee
sex
11/13/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
We alternate between 'fuck' and 'making love'. When we're being all you know, sentimental and 'oh my god, stop I'm going to puke from the fluff' we say "I want to make love to you." When we're in that ravaging, completely turned-on...hot... "I want to fuck you." comes into play.

So really, it depends on the situation at hand.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
All of the above, depending on the context.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Matheri89
This week, I suggested, in honor of A Clockwork Orange, "A little of the ol' in-out in-out". Didn't fly.

We usually go with the juvenile "do it".
my favorite term. that or fucking
11/13/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Depends on the context of the conversation.
11/14/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
We don't use any of those terms actually but I chose fuck. We just say "stick it in".
11/16/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Depends. If the husband's being really rough lately the word fucking comes up more. If we go without for a few days, or it's a little less rough, the term sex comes up more.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
Do its or touches. We just have an odd sense of humor, and it's weird to use fuck in reference to having sex when we are having a normal conversation. We think its fun to come up with interesting euphemisms.
11/17/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Mostly sex I don't think I've ever heard my wife say "make love"
11/17/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
All of the above. It definitely depends on the mood.
11/17/2011
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
It really really really depends, I do call it making love, fucking, mating, coupling, and whatever else may pop into my head...

But I NEVER call it sex, and personally, I hate that expression for it!
02/10/2012
Contributor: PDXlady PDXlady
I hate the term making love too. For some reason I just can't say it seriously.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
depends on the mood
02/10/2012
Contributor: OrangeKushBB OrangeKushBB
"Sex"
02/10/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Other/it depends.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
All of the above... depends on the mood.
02/11/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
Depends on the day too
02/11/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It's all about the love here! We get gritty sometimes, but in general, it's making love
02/16/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
All of the above. Like Avant-garde said, sex is the actual act. But depending on the mood or feelings (or lack thereof) involved, it can either be a fuck or making sweet love.
Agreed.
02/16/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Fucking or sex, depending...
02/17/2012
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
I would like to vote for fuck and sex it depneds on the mood, we use both, and it also depends on who is around.
02/28/2012
Contributor: AJvil AJvil
Quote:
Originally posted by CS2012
My husband & I both hate the term making love. We either call sexual actions fuck or sex. So I was wondering what is your favorite term for referring to sexual actions?
sex
02/29/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by CS2012
My husband & I both hate the term making love. We either call sexual actions fuck or sex. So I was wondering what is your favorite term for referring to sexual actions?
I hate saying "making love." However, I've recently started calling sex "nookie." LOL! Have to have a sense of humor sometimes to keep things interesting.
03/04/2012