What Do You Call Sexual Actions?

Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I feel that Sex is just sex
Fucking is more...
and
Making Love is a VERY deep act of intimacy...
11/09/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by CS2012
My husband & I both hate the term making love. We either call sexual actions fuck or sex. So I was wondering what is your favorite term for referring to sexual actions?
I ALWAYS say "making love." That's my favorite. It sounds beautiful, and it gives me more intimate respect for sex with my husband.
11/16/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I love all those words and phrases, but would agree with others here that there are some many many other things to say depending on the mood. If I am feeling particularly naughty I tell my husband I want to fuck him, but usually I use that word in the act. If I am feeling like I really want to be close to my husband and sweetly intimate with him then I tell him I want to make love to him. When there are kids around it is more obscure, something like "wanna go hang drapes or dust the ceiling fan?", but mostly I will just whisper what I wanna do to him at the moment I really don't have to even mention the words sex, fuck, love or anything, just "I'm gonna go in the bedroom and get naked, wanna watch?" and that gets me what I want mostly.
11/16/2010
Contributor: socceras socceras
Quote:
Originally posted by Avant-garde
Sex = Is just the physical act.
making love = means so much more than just the physical act.
true
11/16/2010
Contributor: Twist Twist
I don't really call it anything...usually by the way she moves I know exactly what she wants.
11/17/2010
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
Quote:
Originally posted by CS2012
My husband & I both hate the term making love. We either call sexual actions fuck or sex. So I was wondering what is your favorite term for referring to sexual actions?
All of them, although fucking and sex are very similar to me. Making love is something different, more emotional, I suppose
11/20/2010
Contributor: Ropeguy Ropeguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Andromeda
FRAKKING!

We're nerds.
love that- too bad my g/f isn't quite that nerdy.
11/23/2010
Contributor: Ropeguy Ropeguy
For us at least I usually call it play, though after hearing a very funny portion (what not to call your lover's anatomy) of a seminar about talking dirty my girlfriend usually says something like " I want your pickle in my fur burger" with a laugh and a sexy grin.
11/23/2010
Contributor: CanMan CanMan
My girl will grab me by the shirt and tell me to F**k the S**t outta her... God I love my girl but on the flip side when were being passionate I'll tell her to make love to me tonight, morning, afternoon whenever... Most of the time we will just call it being bunnies. Hey hun you wanna be bunnie rabbits tonight... No but I'm gonna use my Jack Rabbit... lol
11/23/2010
Contributor: Cadence Cadence
I rarely curse, so the second option is definitely NOT what I refer to sex as.
11/29/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
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Originally posted by Blinker
All of the above! Sexing, fucking, doing, banging, diddling, bumping uglies, making an affront to God, waking the neighbors, cleaning the bats out of my plumbing, etc.

We call it everything and anything we can think of. The first time my ... more
Next time I'm at a party, I'm finding a cute lesbian.. or straight boy if I'm drunk enough and whisper that in their ear.

I'll let you know how it goes.
11/29/2010
Contributor: AU AU
I say "sex" because "fuck" sounds too vulgar to describe the act for me, though I occasionally use it as an expletive. "Making love" is embarrassing to me somehow and not appropriate for describing people having sex in a loveless situation. My significant other is a little more fond of "making love" as he is the more romantic one. Our own description of the act is pretty silly and complicated. But that is our own private language. Not saying more...
12/03/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
If we are really horny it is fucking, if we got into a fight it is making love, and if it is for no reason at all, just because, it is sex.
12/03/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
Fucking fucking fucking.

And sometimes "sex." hehe
Same here, lol.

We've made love a feww times, but yeah.
12/23/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
my hubby and my pet call it "playing pounce"
12/25/2010
Contributor: Kiwi Kiwi
Either fucking or having sex; making love is way too mushy. I appreciate the fracking though.
01/03/2011
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Well, we haven't had sex yet, but when we're in the mood to fool around, it's time for "sexy times." We're both kind of silly, so we started calling it that and it stuck.

Sexy times are the best~!
01/07/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Unconventional
Just because you don't call it "making love" doesn't mean that's not what you're doing. We hate calling it that, but our sexual encounters are nothing short of it.

That being said, our verbal communication is ... more
lovin or making love
02/10/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Quote:
Originally posted by Andromeda
FRAKKING!

We're nerds.
Seconded.
02/10/2011
Contributor: lezergirl lezergirl
make love always sounds like a bad lyric in a country song...
02/13/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
other- "hump" as in..."lets hump!"
02/13/2011
Contributor: SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
making love and sex, fucking sounds too slutty.
02/19/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
All of the above and sometimes funtime or sexy time too
02/19/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by CS2012
My husband & I both hate the term making love. We either call sexual actions fuck or sex. So I was wondering what is your favorite term for referring to sexual actions?
Depends on our mood. We have been known to say all of those, plus others.
05/09/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
I'm sitting here and i realize i have never discussed having it prior, only talked about it after and then usually sex or fucking. I guess usually it just happens. I cant decide if that is bad or good haha.
05/09/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We say sex. It just seems the easiest.
05/10/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
We use sex most often, but we say the other two a lot as well.
05/11/2011
Contributor: REDRUM REDRUM
I can't say "making love," I feel cheesy when I do. Some people I know can say it and make it sound so natural. I just can't. So I just say sex.
05/11/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
All of things. He usually says " I'm gonna lick your.." Lol & I say things like "you wanna put your big... in my tight, wet..." Yea! Lol. It gets pretty dirty.

If were only talking about sex, not actually about to do it or referring to us doing it, we just say sex or fuck or doing it.
05/11/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
Bangin' is a personal favorite. We usually use it in a lighthearted way and say it in silly voices. We're, uh, weird.

We also say "sex", "fucking", "makin' sweet, sweet love", it's business time, and any other random thing that makes us laugh.
05/11/2011