As a woman, I often need to have a certain set of needs met before I can even TRY to be turned on.. Usually to feel like my man is paying attention to me on more than just a sexual level. Ladies, what does it take to turn YOU on??
What does it take to turn you on??
02/29/2012
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I need to feel emotionally close to my partner and some foreplay--unless I am in the mood already.
02/29/2012
i need to feelforeplay and emotional feelings my partner
02/29/2012
Emotions
02/29/2012
Emotional stimulation and foreplay, and if He doesn't seem to be interested then I get all damned shy and then it is just harder to enjoy it when He gets to it for my great surprise, and I need to feel it too that He is determined and fully willing to pleasure me as much as He gets pleasured! Without it I just struggle to enjoy it, and mostly end up by myself and with my toys, and maybe a little bit of His Attention... Meh... But oh well, He is loving as hell, so that keeps me cheered up anyway... ^^ ~lays ears blushy
02/29/2012
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I do need some sort of foreplay though it could be as little as a partner stroking his/her fingers over my skin. I do need some sort of connection either emotional or physical (preferably both) to fully relax and enjoy myself.
Originally posted by
kittycatgirl
As a woman, I often need to have a certain set of needs met before I can even TRY to be turned on.. Usually to feel like my man is paying attention to me on more than just a sexual level. Ladies, what does it take to turn YOU on??
02/29/2012
If I'm in a relationship with a partner who I am intellectually and emotionally stimulated by, I tend to have a hair trigger when it comes to getting turned on (my libido is really high). I do like and require foreplay. Its some of the most fun of sex and since I like variety so much I need it.
02/29/2012
I need to be in a happy, stable relationship first and foremost, but after that it doesn't always take a lot...
I'm a bit of a sex fiend right now, so foreplay is awesome and great, but hell with my last partner I'd get wet after even just TALKING about something vaguely sexual with him... it was totally weird but I never felt like I needed much foreplay >.<
I'm a bit of a sex fiend right now, so foreplay is awesome and great, but hell with my last partner I'd get wet after even just TALKING about something vaguely sexual with him... it was totally weird but I never felt like I needed much foreplay >.<
03/01/2012
I am ready at the flip of a switch when we have time and he wants it between work and kids my body is likee really we have time ? GOGOGOGOGO
03/01/2012
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Depends, but it always requires: my partner, definitely the intellectual, bonding, stuffs and foreplay. Usually it only takes a little rubbin' to get me going, but foreplay and all that is still necessary
Originally posted by
kittycatgirl
As a woman, I often need to have a certain set of needs met before I can even TRY to be turned on.. Usually to feel like my man is paying attention to me on more than just a sexual level. Ladies, what does it take to turn YOU on??
03/01/2012
I'm always ready, I always want to be close with my man, BUT, in order to get me really going, I need some attention. I need things said to me more than being touched. I get more romantically turned on than sexually turned on. Not sure if that makes sense or not.
03/01/2012
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I've said it before, but I hate the word "foreplay." It implies that PIV is the "main event" and anything before that is virtually inconsequential. My parter and I use oral, manual and genital sex all through every session of sex, so we don't have "foreplay" in the traditional sense. Also, I tend to come the first few times in each session from oral sex and/or toy play right after oral sex, and I hate for the main way I am able to come to be trivialized.
Originally posted by
kittycatgirl
As a woman, I often need to have a certain set of needs met before I can even TRY to be turned on.. Usually to feel like my man is paying attention to me on more than just a sexual level. Ladies, what does it take to turn YOU on??
I need a lot of body contact. When we're starting to mess around I'll either sit on his lap or if we're already in bed I like to lie with my back to him and have him hump me from behind. I love to feel his arms around me, his breath on my neck and his body pressing against mine.
Visual stimulation helps, too. We go through cycles with porn, we may not watch any for weeks or months and then watch some almost every time. I find it easier to get aroused more quickly with visual stimulation. I also like it to be dark, if possible. I feel safer in the dark and it's easier for me to orgasm in a dark room.
03/01/2012
I feel like I'm always ready to go. Any time he says he's ready, I'm definitely ready, but a lot of other things make me even hotter.
Sexy scenes in movies, seeing my man do stuff around the house, it all gets me going. And once we get things started up, I need to be catered to like kittycatgirl and P'Gell said above. He just needs to kiss my neck We do work oral, manual, and vaginal sex into every session as well.
Sexy scenes in movies, seeing my man do stuff around the house, it all gets me going. And once we get things started up, I need to be catered to like kittycatgirl and P'Gell said above. He just needs to kiss my neck We do work oral, manual, and vaginal sex into every session as well.
03/01/2012
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I agree about the term "foreplay." It's just one of many indications that we still live in a patriarchal society. The attitude being, just get the "other stuff" out of the way before the "main part", the penetration. I wish this would change but I don't have much hope.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I've said it before, but I hate the word "foreplay." It implies that PIV is the "main event" and anything before that is virtually inconsequential. My parter and I use oral, manual and genital sex all through every session of
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I've said it before, but I hate the word "foreplay." It implies that PIV is the "main event" and anything before that is virtually inconsequential. My parter and I use oral, manual and genital sex all through every session of sex, so we don't have "foreplay" in the traditional sense. Also, I tend to come the first few times in each session from oral sex and/or toy play right after oral sex, and I hate for the main way I am able to come to be trivialized.
I need a lot of body contact. When we're starting to mess around I'll either sit on his lap or if we're already in bed I like to lie with my back to him and have him hump me from behind. I love to feel his arms around me, his breath on my neck and his body pressing against mine.
Visual stimulation helps, too. We go through cycles with porn, we may not watch any for weeks or months and then watch some almost every time. I find it easier to get aroused more quickly with visual stimulation. I also like it to be dark, if possible. I feel safer in the dark and it's easier for me to orgasm in a dark room. less
I need a lot of body contact. When we're starting to mess around I'll either sit on his lap or if we're already in bed I like to lie with my back to him and have him hump me from behind. I love to feel his arms around me, his breath on my neck and his body pressing against mine.
Visual stimulation helps, too. We go through cycles with porn, we may not watch any for weeks or months and then watch some almost every time. I find it easier to get aroused more quickly with visual stimulation. I also like it to be dark, if possible. I feel safer in the dark and it's easier for me to orgasm in a dark room. less
In response to the OP, I need a lot of things....emotional connection, talking, and of course touching. If I don't get all three in the right proportions, I will be in pain when it comes to intercourse...even if I'm wet or use lube. Which is why we don't have sex very often (I've complained before about how my husband isn't a good lover. Won't bore you guys with that today.)
03/01/2012
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I need foreplay to get me in the mood, unless I'm already in the mood.
Originally posted by
kittycatgirl
As a woman, I often need to have a certain set of needs met before I can even TRY to be turned on.. Usually to feel like my man is paying attention to me on more than just a sexual level. Ladies, what does it take to turn YOU on??
03/01/2012
It doesn't take too much to get me mentally stimulated, but physically is a whole different story... I haven't found the balance between too little or too much foreplay in order for me to be ready physically. I tend to "think" I am ready, when my body isn't, and so I end up in painful situations.
03/01/2012
It depends on whose idea it was and what kind of sex I'm in the mood for. If I him to take control I want him to be pushy, etc.
03/01/2012
I need an emotional connection, and foreplay. Other stuff can be nice too .
03/03/2012
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I need foreplay.
Originally posted by
kittycatgirl
As a woman, I often need to have a certain set of needs met before I can even TRY to be turned on.. Usually to feel like my man is paying attention to me on more than just a sexual level. Ladies, what does it take to turn YOU on??
03/03/2012
emotional connection and foreplay.
03/03/2012
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It depends on the day. Sometimes I need an emotional connection, sometimes I need foreplay, sometimes I just want to jump the guy standing next to me at the grocery store.
Originally posted by
kittycatgirl
As a woman, I often need to have a certain set of needs met before I can even TRY to be turned on.. Usually to feel like my man is paying attention to me on more than just a sexual level. Ladies, what does it take to turn YOU on??
03/03/2012
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LOL! Any time my daughter has a sleepover with her grandma I feel like I have to be in the mood because I might not get an opportunity for a long time after.
Originally posted by
underHim
I am ready at the flip of a switch when we have time and he wants it between work and kids my body is likee really we have time ? GOGOGOGOGO
03/03/2012
I like romantic stuff! And I want to kiss and keep clothes on for a while to build up a little arousal. I'm on medication that makes it much harder to have an orgasm so I really have to put some effort into sex and I need close to perfect conditions! But if my boyfriend wants to have sex I'm open for business 24/7 just for my special love bugs!
03/04/2012
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Love and foreplay.
Originally posted by
kittycatgirl
As a woman, I often need to have a certain set of needs met before I can even TRY to be turned on.. Usually to feel like my man is paying attention to me on more than just a sexual level. Ladies, what does it take to turn YOU on??
03/05/2012
I need to feel some emotion and some foreplay. I hate it when guys think that we women can go zero to sixty the way they can, because for me at least, that won't happen.
03/25/2012
Emotional connection and I just love it if he initiates. Even if I'm not in the mood and he initiates...I'm in the mood.
03/25/2012
sometime when my bf is extra romantic it helps and i need forplay i hate when he skips it unless im already really horny wich happpens every once and a while
03/25/2012
Definitely emotionally/intellectu ally stimulated. If he's into it, then I am
03/25/2012
I need to feel emotionally connected to my partner, and most importantly I need to feel like my partner is interested in me and what's going on! If my mate initiates, that's normally a good shortcut to me feeling sexy, but if I initiate and there is a good response (rather than a phoning-it-in kind of feel) then I'm just as happy.
03/25/2012
My wife needs a lot of attention and "motivation" to get in the mood. Mainly, she needs to be needed and wants me to initiate...rather forcefully.
03/25/2012
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