Ever tried fisting?

Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
Have you ever tried fisting? H ow was it for you or would you ever do it?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
im a girl yes
12  (17%)
im a girl no
39  (54%)
im a guy yes
8  (11%)
im a guy no
13  (18%)
other
Total votes: 72
Poll is closed
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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
You did not specify with your "Have you ever tried fisting?" question, if that is as the receptive or penetrative partner. To answer those two possibilities, I have never been the bottom but I have been the top.
12/27/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
Never tried it and I don't think it will ever happen for her or me, but who knows, things could change, but I doubt it.
12/27/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Quote:
Originally posted by xcapricax
Have you ever tried fisting? H ow was it for you or would you ever do it?
Never tried, never will. Doesn't look attractive at all.
12/27/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
hmmmm...prolly not
12/27/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
No I never have and I never will.
12/27/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I've thought about trying fisting (on the receiving end)...but after having trouble taking larger toys regardless of how warmed up/turned on I am, I don't think it will really work for me.
12/27/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by xcapricax
Have you ever tried fisting? H ow was it for you or would you ever do it?
im a girl no
12/27/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
Never tried it and no desire too...
12/27/2012
Contributor: MommaJo MommaJo
Have you ever had a baby? Cause they don't ask if you'd like a fist. They just do it.
12/27/2012
Contributor: butts butts
I haven't, I'm not terribly interested either. My partner definitely isn't XD
12/27/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
No I haven't and not interested.
12/28/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Yes I have and I loved it.
12/28/2012
Contributor: atryonix atryonix
nope
12/28/2012
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
I'd love to try it! We're still working our way up (slowly, very slowly) to it. I can take about 3.5 fingers right now, and I can't wait to be able to accommodate an entire fist!
12/28/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife is very tight and can't take more than three fingers comfortably.
12/28/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Not my thing
12/28/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Not any where near that!
12/28/2012
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
Yes, but it wasn't planned. What started out as a fingering, ended up four fingers, a thumb and much of my hand. I wasn't that into it. LOL
01/02/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
never... never would
01/08/2013
Contributor: Flower1 Flower1
No and I never will.
01/08/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by xcapricax
Have you ever tried fisting? H ow was it for you or would you ever do it?
no a little too much
01/08/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
no interest
01/09/2013
Contributor: leilani leilani
Quote:
Originally posted by xcapricax
Have you ever tried fisting? H ow was it for you or would you ever do it?
i was curious, my husband fisted me, i cried, he was turned on with sadistic pleasure to the point he came almost instantly during intercourse, needless to say though he loved my crying, he doesnt want to hurt me again
01/20/2013
Contributor: iabicpl09 iabicpl09
Never tried it
02/02/2013
Contributor: So Long Ya Doofuses! So Long Ya Doofuses!
Ever since I read Jiz Lee's article on fisting, I've been strangely intrigued. They (Lee's preferred pronoun) were on top and fisting the vagina of a female-bodied person on bottom. Despite myself, I was fascinated. If I ever were to try it, it would have to be very gradual and over several lovemaking sessions, with someone I completely trusted, and with gloves and lube.
02/04/2013
Contributor: slynch slynch
I want to eventually take my wife's hand.
02/09/2013
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
i'm a guy n no
02/09/2013
Contributor: equally-owned equally-owned
Hell to the yes! Not only have I loved it in the past, Mr. Visual and I started to go there for the first time, and lo and behold, we hit the g-spot and Oi! -- unexpected fun for SERIOUSLY 20 minutes (the first time...) -- So, this next try, we'll be actually 'getting there' (if we don't get too distracted!), and see how much fun *that* will be...I have a feeling that now that we have g-spot orgasms down, it's going to bring a whole new level to something I already enjoyed.

In all seriousness -- The thing is, there has to be so many things... A lot of trust. A lot of relaxation. Plenty of warm-up. _Gentleness_. The desire for pleasure on the behalf of *both* parties. PLENTY OF LUBE... Knowledge about bodies -- your own, your partners, how they work. (AND, need I say? CLEAN hands. Trimmed nails. And/or, gloves -- depending on who/what the sitch is. Take Care Of Yourself!)

There are plenty of articles out "there" on the interwebs about vaginal fisting (in my case...), and many are very helpful for those interested. (In my case, it happened the first time with a careful, kind partner, and we just experimented.) It can be very intense, pleasurable, and also emotional, and can require the same kind of 'aftercare' (look it up if not familiar with the term) that heavier play also can require. Here's why: In the same way that lots of chemicals are released from the brain in BDSM -- endorphins, adrenalin (and in women, also sometimes a big fat estrogen wave) -- the 'coming down' (no pun intended) can be really , unexpected, too. It's truly important to make sure that someone's headspace and heartspace is taken care of just as much as the bodyspace. (Or, not: sometimes it is what it is, and that's it!)

For a 'first time' person, though both parties should expect the unexpected. Take care of each other. Be _nice_ (Before, during, and after!) -- this stuff is supposed to be FUN! And if it's not -- then hey...don't do it. Or try it again when it feels right. It can be amazing...(If it wasn't, why would people be trying it? )
02/14/2013
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by xcapricax
Have you ever tried fisting? H ow was it for you or would you ever do it?
ouch!!!! Im a size queen but not THAT size!
02/14/2013