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What types of kinks do you try to use outside of regular sexual use?

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Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
As in just when you're out and about? And reasons, too.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Bondage gear
9
dildos?
6
anal plugs
9
various outfittery
6
hooks
I generally dont.
10
other
12
Total votes: 52 (34 voters)
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10/28/2012
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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I enjoy the use of my metal cock rings 24/7. They are comfortable for wearing 24/7 and I can wear them anywhere I go.
10/28/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
my D/s relationship is 24/7 which is Oour kink extending beyond our sex life constantly. i wear a necklace that symbolizes this. Wwe have rules, protocols, rituals, assignments, etc. that are in effect at all times, both in public and at home. Most are subtle and discreet but present nonetheless. i've also worn my collars out and about when the situation is appropriate and my Mistress often wears a small leather band around her wrist that is symbolic of Oour relationship. All of these things are reassuring and reaffirming of our relationship but also act as sort of constant low level foreplay. If Wwe ramp up the protocol level when Wwe're out, it can especially have Uus both really turned on and ready to claw each other's clothes off when Wwe get home. At fetish or BDSM events, this effect is even more magnified.
10/28/2012
Contributor: butts butts
I wish I could get my partner to wear more cross-dressy stuff in public but he gets shy about people because he was bullied/harassed a lot in the past. Other than that, we keep most everything in the bedroom.
10/29/2012
Contributor: Crichton Crichton
I have my Story of O ring that I wear and if I didn't leave all my stuff at my ex's place I would also wear rope corsets out.
11/06/2012
Contributor: jdFtM jdFtM
I love my 'outfittery'! I'd say my fave are my vinyl pants. Mmm
11/22/2012
Contributor: daniel420 daniel420
love my bondage grear
11/27/2012
Contributor: burtnuh burtnuh
Bondage gear for sure!
11/29/2012
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I once wore a vibrating anal toy that was operated by a wireless remote, which my partner had. Honestly, it wasn't that much fun (in public). I'd rather keep the sex stuff private, I guess.
01/02/2013
Contributor: Meido Meido
Maybe wear a plug out if it were comfortable enough. I've had my kegal balls in but I generally prefer to keep those things in private.
03/13/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Underwear
03/13/2013
Contributor: sinnerandsaint sinnerandsaint
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
As in just when you're out and about? And reasons, too.
My Sir sometimes requires me to wear clamps on my nipples while out in public. He has also allowed me to wear a bullet connected to a remote which he obviously controlled. However.. I sort of look like I'm either really cold or I'm in the beginning stages of a seizure when he uses the bullet. So needless to say we don't use that much. My favorite accessory is a nice red welt or bruise on my bottom to let me know he was there.
03/13/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
None. I like to keep my sexual stuff seperate from my public life.
03/14/2013
Contributor: cassondra1987 cassondra1987
We actually haven't used anything out in public yet. I bought a wireless controlled bullet but we haven't been ballsy enough to take it out in public yet. Maybe if we were going someplace with constant noise we will but settings around here are generally to quiet
07/14/2013