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Contributor: babypinecone babypinecone
Over all trying to figure out what is somewhat common among other couples.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Foreplay, aka kissing, petting, etc. ?
Joie de Cherresse , Gunsmoke , PiratePrincess , darthkitt3n , eggiweg , jakjak , Persephone Nightmare , removedacnt , married with children , PinkPedal , newfoundlust , Rossie , mb , meganthomas , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Redboxbaby , Miss Zombie , Lolla Munz , stlouisxxx , OhMy! , Redheadinfla , teeny <3 , LennaKieran , DCorrelle , tickle me pink , Sex'и'Violence , newlady , Devz , Donord , Vegan Silk , ToyGurl , Inwitari , null , ZenaidaMacroura , MaryExy , jay28 , Karen Affeldt , Bigjohnboy is bald all over , Sir , K101 , slynch , Ms. Spice , CSEA , CharlieBrown , irishlove , LittleOne , CAKES , NuclearTeapot , ToyingCouple , Anthony , anonymouse58 , mcl272 , TheSlyFox , aliceinthehole , cherryredhead88 , Breas , domistar , Missylissy , bayosgirl , IslandGoddess , EastCoast36 , LostBoy988 , padmeamidala , LaLaLouise , Ghost , extrafun , EvilHomer , dawnkye , leanright69 , mandiegk , nancylanier , Peggi , Nora , Toys in Love , Beck , SomeGirl , sausagelover , kisme7684 , arewehavingfun? , -BillD , caligaliber , TameTemptress , Cherrylane , geliebt , Just Tigger , Mike Honcho , Vanille , Kendrir , LavenderSkies , HomuHomu , grace , PassionCpl , SweetSurprise , Teaser , Elias McLovin , LoveDove , EnterTheFist , Ansley , Apirka , Miss Morphine , ellejay , MamaDivine , MsChessnudt , dks210 , HannahPanda , Over here , sweetnlow4u , firingmissiles , Hibangel , Harpina is gone , bsgs , Hallmar82 , Anteaterz , tinadice , Stinkytofu10 , Tangles , vanilla&chocolate , The Majikat , queergaze , Deeder , ily , hall5885 , Wigychuck , MissCandyland , dhig , wildorchid , pootpootpoot , Passion plum , humpday , Catch Star , iabicpl09 , xilliannax , thekindthorn , Sam I Am , mmmmm , Undecided , solitudinarian , LorelaiK , MissBre , digit88 , gsfanatic , FHeemz , Here 4 Her Pleasure , sexydelphia , Squeaky , CadmiumKitty , KRD , HusbandandWife , rockblenny , ViVix , submarinerswife81 , chort , ankie212 , SoloJoe , Mamastoys , sexfairy , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , misty82 , Chami , True Pleasures , luvslukin , justme23 , Loriandhubby , geekkink , amazon , nosrslylol , Kenneth Fort , moops , 1001 Pleasures , Martiniman , TheDP , mpfm , Wolfcub , MsDrProfKitty , Trysexual , falalena , Caitlyn.Kitty , Checkmate , leilani , deltalima , melliegirl , GrumpyDragon , Meido , SMichelle , Adnerbmw , chicagobearsfan , oldkinky , cassondra1987
188
Bondage?
Joie de Cherresse , PiratePrincess , eggiweg , Persephone Nightmare , removedacnt , married with children , PinkPedal , newfoundlust , mb , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Redboxbaby , stlouisxxx , OhMy! , Redheadinfla , teeny <3 , LennaKieran , tickle me pink , newlady , Donord , Vegan Silk , null , ZenaidaMacroura , MaryExy , jay28 , Karen Affeldt , Bigjohnboy is bald all over , Sir , slynch , irishlove , LittleOne , CAKES , ToyingCouple , mcl272 , moose1120 , aliceinthehole , cherryredhead88 , domistar , Missylissy , LostBoy988 , padmeamidala , Ghost , EvilHomer , zracer , leanright69 , mandiegk , Toys in Love , Beck , SomeGirl , kisme7684 , arewehavingfun? , -BillD , caligaliber , TameTemptress , geliebt , Vanille , LavenderSkies , HomuHomu , SweetSurprise , LoveDove , EnterTheFist , rom323 , Miss Morphine , ellejay , MsChessnudt , dks210 , Nkev , MissMod , bsgs , Hallmar82 , Anteaterz , rebeccajoykirk , Stinkytofu10 , Tangles , The Majikat , ily , hall5885 , Wigychuck , dhig , pootpootpoot , Passion plum , humpday , Catch Star , thekindthorn , Sam I Am , solitudinarian , LorelaiK , digit88 , gsfanatic , FHeemz , Here 4 Her Pleasure , sexydelphia , Squeaky , KRD , HusbandandWife , rockblenny , chort , ankie212 , Chami , xcapricax , MK434 , Loriandhubby , geekkink , amazon , Kenneth Fort , 1001 Pleasures , TheDP , mpfm , Wolfcub , MsDrProfKitty , Kipperanne , Trysexual , falalena , Caitlyn.Kitty , leilani , SMichelle , Adnerbmw , chicagobearsfan , cassondra1987
118
Role play?
Joie de Cherresse , PiratePrincess , jakjak , Persephone Nightmare , PinkPedal , newfoundlust , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Redboxbaby , Redheadinfla , LennaKieran , tickle me pink , Donord , MaryExy , Karen Affeldt , Bigjohnboy is bald all over , Ms. Spice , CharlieBrown , ToyingCouple , mcl272 , aliceinthehole , cherryredhead88 , Breas , LostBoy988 , padmeamidala , Toys in Love , SomeGirl , sausagelover , TameTemptress , geliebt , Just Tigger , Vanille , LavenderSkies , HomuHomu , SweetSurprise , LoveDove , Ansley , ellejay , MsChessnudt , dks210 , MissMod , Hibangel , Harpina is gone , Hallmar82 , Stinkytofu10 , hall5885 , Wigychuck , dhig , pootpootpoot , xilliannax , mmmmm , solitudinarian , digit88 , gsfanatic , sexydelphia , Chami , luvslukin , 1001 Pleasures , mpfm , falalena , Caitlyn.Kitty , leilani
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Does he like to fuck you with your dildo?
Joie de Cherresse , Gunsmoke , PiratePrincess , eggiweg , jakjak , Persephone Nightmare , removedacnt , married with children , PinkPedal , newfoundlust , Rossie , mb , meganthomas , Redboxbaby , Miss Zombie , stlouisxxx , Redheadinfla , LennaKieran , DCorrelle , Sex'и'Violence , newlady , Inwitari , null , ZenaidaMacroura , Karen Affeldt , Bigjohnboy is bald all over , slynch , Ms. Spice , CAKES , ToyingCouple , anonymouse58 , mcl272 , aliceinthehole , cherryredhead88 , Missylissy , EastCoast36 , LostBoy988 , Ghost , extrafun , EvilHomer , leanright69 , mandiegk , Nora , Toys in Love , Beck , sausagelover , kisme7684 , -BillD , caligaliber , TameTemptress , geliebt , Just Tigger , LavenderSkies , SweetSurprise , rom323 , Ansley , Miss Morphine , ellejay , MsChessnudt , dks210 , Nkev , MissMod , sweetnlow4u , Harpina is gone , bsgs , Hallmar82 , Stinkytofu10 , Tangles , The Majikat , ily , hall5885 , Wigychuck , MissCandyland , dhig , pootpootpoot , Passion plum , xilliannax , thekindthorn , Biagain , MissBre , gsfanatic , FHeemz , licious , KRD , Scrawberry78 , konicaguy , HusbandandWife , rockblenny , submarinerswife81 , ankie212 , SoloJoe , Mamastoys , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , doc , Chami , pfoof , True Pleasures , luvslukin , MK434 , Loriandhubby , amazon , Kenneth Fort , moops , 1001 Pleasures , Martiniman , TheDP , mpfm , Wolfcub , Trysexual , falalena , Checkmate , SMichelle , Adnerbmw , chicagobearsfan , oldkinky
115
Vanilla sex?
Joie de Cherresse , Gunsmoke , PiratePrincess , darthkitt3n , eggiweg , jakjak , Persephone Nightmare , removedacnt , married with children , PinkPedal , newfoundlust , uu , Redboxbaby , Miss Zombie , stlouisxxx , OhMy! , LennaKieran , DCorrelle , tickle me pink , newlady , Donord , Vegan Silk , ToyGurl , Inwitari , null , ZenaidaMacroura , MaryExy , Karen Affeldt , slynch , Ms. Spice , NuclearTeapot , ToyingCouple , Anthony , moose1120 , aliceinthehole , cherryredhead88 , domistar , bayosgirl , EastCoast36 , LostBoy988 , LaLaLouise , Ghost , EvilHomer , leanright69 , mandiegk , Peggi , Nora , Toys in Love , Beck , SomeGirl , arewehavingfun? , caligaliber , TameTemptress , Just Tigger , Kendrir , LavenderSkies , Teaser , Elias McLovin , LoveDove , EnterTheFist , rom323 , Ansley , Apirka , Miss Morphine , ellejay , MsChessnudt , dks210 , MissMod , Over here , sweetnlow4u , Hibangel , Harpina is gone , Anteaterz , Stinkytofu10 , Tangles , The Majikat , Deeder , ily , hall5885 , Wigychuck , MissCandyland , dhig , wildorchid , pootpootpoot , Passion plum , humpday , xilliannax , thekindthorn , Sam I Am , solitudinarian , LorelaiK , MissBre , gsfanatic , FHeemz , sexydelphia , Squeaky , KRD , Scrawberry78 , HusbandandWife , rockblenny , ViVix , chort , Mamastoys , sexfairy , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , Chami , pfoof , True Pleasures , justme23 , geekkink , amazon , Kenneth Fort , moops , 1001 Pleasures , Martiniman , TheDP , mpfm , MsDrProfKitty , Trysexual , falalena , Checkmate , leilani , Meido , SMichelle , oldkinky , cassondra1987
126
Multiple orgasms?
Joie de Cherresse , Gunsmoke , darthkitt3n , jakjak , removedacnt , married with children , newfoundlust , Rossie , meganthomas , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Redboxbaby , Miss Zombie , Lolla Munz , stlouisxxx , OhMy! , Redheadinfla , teeny <3 , LennaKieran , newlady , Donord , Vegan Silk , ToyGurl , Inwitari , null , ZenaidaMacroura , Karen Affeldt , Sir , K101 , slynch , Ms. Spice , CSEA , CharlieBrown , CAKES , NuclearTeapot , ToyingCouple , mcl272 , aliceinthehole , cherryredhead88 , domistar , Missylissy , LostBoy988 , padmeamidala , extrafun , EvilHomer , leanright69 , mandiegk , Peggi , Nora , Toys in Love , Beck , SomeGirl , caligaliber , Just Tigger , LavenderSkies , SweetSurprise , Teaser , Elias McLovin , LoveDove , EnterTheFist , rom323 , Ansley , Miss Morphine , ellejay , MsChessnudt , dks210 , Nkev , Over here , Hibangel , Harpina is gone , bsgs , Hallmar82 , Stinkytofu10 , Taylor Von , The Majikat , hall5885 , Wigychuck , MissCandyland , dhig , wildorchid , Passion plum , Catch Star , xilliannax , thekindthorn , Sam I Am , Undecided , solitudinarian , LorelaiK , MissBre , digit88 , gsfanatic , FHeemz , Here 4 Her Pleasure , sexydelphia , KRD , HusbandandWife , rockblenny , chort , ankie212 , Mamastoys , sexfairy , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , Chami , pfoof , luvslukin , justme23 , Loriandhubby , geekkink , amazon , 1001 Pleasures , Martiniman , TheDP , mpfm , Wolfcub , MsDrProfKitty , Checkmate , leilani , deltalima , SMichelle , oldkinky
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He doesn't Orgasm until she has?
Joie de Cherresse , Gunsmoke , darthkitt3n , removedacnt , married with children , Rossie , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Redboxbaby , Miss Zombie , stlouisxxx , OhMy! , teeny <3 , LennaKieran , tickle me pink , newlady , ToyGurl , Inwitari , ZenaidaMacroura , Bigjohnboy is bald all over , K101 , slynch , NuclearTeapot , ToyingCouple , mcl272 , Missylissy , IslandGoddess , EastCoast36 , LostBoy988 , Stagger13 , mandiegk , Peggi , Nora , Toys in Love , Beck , kisme7684 , LavenderSkies , PassionCpl , Teaser , Elias McLovin , rom323 , Ansley , ellejay , Nkev , Hibangel , hillys , Harpina is gone , bsgs , Anteaterz , Stinkytofu10 , GS500 , hall5885 , Wigychuck , dhig , Passion plum , xilliannax , epiphanyjayne , thekindthorn , solitudinarian , MissBre , FHeemz , Here 4 Her Pleasure , Squeaky , Scrawberry78 , HusbandandWife , Mamastoys , sexfairy , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , Chami , pfoof , luvslukin , justme23 , Loriandhubby , geekkink , moops , Martiniman , mpfm , Wolfcub , bigmomma1962 , Trysexual , falalena , Checkmate , Adnerbmw
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He gets a quicky before the real fun starts?
Joie de Cherresse , married with children , Redboxbaby , Miss Zombie , tickle me pink , newlady , ToyGurl , MaryExy , CSEA , cherryredhead88 , IslandGoddess , Ghost , extrafun , mandiegk , Just Tigger , LoveDove , Harpina is gone , Stinkytofu10 , dhig , xilliannax , solitudinarian , HusbandandWife , Kenneth Fort , TheDP , mpfm , leilani , SMichelle
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Watching Porn together?
Joie de Cherresse , eggiweg , married with children , newfoundlust , meganthomas , Redboxbaby , stlouisxxx , OhMy! , Sex'и'Violence , newlady , ZenaidaMacroura , Bigjohnboy is bald all over , slynch , Ms. Spice , irishlove , ToyingCouple , anonymouse58 , mcl272 , moose1120 , aliceinthehole , Triple X Moma , domistar , EastCoast36 , padmeamidala , extrafun , mandiegk , Nora , Toys in Love , Beck , SomeGirl , kisme7684 , caligaliber , geliebt , Just Tigger , SweetSurprise , STM , rom323 , Ansley , Apirka , MsChessnudt , dks210 , HannahPanda , Harpina is gone , Anteaterz , Stinkytofu10 , GS500 , queergaze , ily , dhig , Passion plum , xilliannax , digit88 , FHeemz , KRD , Scrawberry78 , HusbandandWife , ViVix , ankie212 , Chami , Loriandhubby , amazon , Kenneth Fort , 1001 Pleasures , Martiniman , mpfm , Wolfcub , falalena , featherhead , Checkmate , SMichelle , Adnerbmw , oldkinky , cassondra1987
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Total votes: 909 (213 voters)
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Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
All of the above... lol
05/02/2011
Contributor: babypinecone babypinecone
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
All of the above... lol
we do too! It just kind of allows for a variety of sensations and fun
05/02/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Most of the above and then some.
05/03/2011
Contributor: babypinecone babypinecone
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Most of the above and then some.
Oh Really?! If you don't mind sharing we would love to hear about some of the other things
05/03/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
We do most of it.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
All of the above and much more.

There are times when I do not give him the option to wait for me to cum. There are other times when he has multiple orgasms too.
05/04/2011
Contributor: ToyingCouple ToyingCouple
Everything and more! You need a bigger list.
05/04/2011
Contributor: babypinecone babypinecone
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyingCouple
Everything and more! You need a bigger list.
We are still experimenting with our sexuality! I would welcome some ideas! We would definitely love any suggestions you have!!!
05/04/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by babypinecone
Over all trying to figure out what is somewhat common among other couples.
All of the above plus others stuff.
05/14/2011
Contributor: big b big b
i only like to orgasm after my wife has.a guy thing i think.
05/20/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Almost all of the above. Wouldn't want things to get boring.
05/20/2011
Contributor: babypinecone babypinecone
Quote:
Originally posted by big b
i only like to orgasm after my wife has.a guy thing i think.
I love that! I wish my ex would have felt like that, sadly I think you are one of a dying breed. Anymore I think a lot of men are more worried about their finish and climax than their partners.
05/21/2011
Contributor: Devz Devz
we love foreplay
05/26/2011
Contributor: Bigjohnboy is bald all over Bigjohnboy is bald all over
Being tied up & ave her smoking cig blowin smoke over ck & ass before she slips strapon up my ass fuckin me as she stroke my cock
06/12/2011
Contributor: Bigjohnboy is bald all over Bigjohnboy is bald all over
My fantasy is lady dressed in kinky gear wearing glasses red lipstick long finger nails painted red puffing on cig slowly slipping lips frm cig as she rubs her pusi as i watch till my cock is throbin hard & she starts wanking an suckin me opening my japs eye blowin smoke in it as her tongue licks all over til i cum
06/12/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
We do forplay every time we do it, but it's more than the kissing/petting. He always gives oral & usually a vibe to play around with before and occasionally light bondage. A little role playing. It just depends on our mood.
06/12/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
foreplay is a must. roleplay and playing with toys when there is more time though
06/12/2011
Contributor: NuclearTeapot NuclearTeapot
Multiple orgasms happens almost always for me. I usually feel lucky if I can get my husband off once. My husband and I are total opposites. He generally takes some time and needs a lot of attention to orgasm, where I can practically cum on command. >< Sometimes it makes feel a bit embarrassed how easily I get off. Is this how "minute-men" feel?
07/15/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
All of the above... lol
LOL yes, pretty much all of the above as well as some other things.
07/23/2011
Contributor: babypinecone babypinecone
Quote:
Originally posted by NuclearTeapot
Multiple orgasms happens almost always for me. I usually feel lucky if I can get my husband off once. My husband and I are total opposites. He generally takes some time and needs a lot of attention to orgasm, where I can practically cum on command. ... more
I definitely lol'd on that last comment. I wish I could multiple orgasm some nights, but my guy is kind of on the line, he can go either way depending on what round we are on. lol
07/26/2011
Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
More foreplay and vanilla than anything else, but sometimes we go all out with porn and toys. Almost always some oral for one or both of us.
08/17/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Almost all of the above
08/17/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
I voted for several things but lately its been pretty cold in the bed room
08/17/2011
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Most of the above and then some.
That'd be my answer too.
08/19/2011
Contributor: nancylanier nancylanier
we love to wash eachother and to fuck
09/30/2011
Contributor: Nora Nora
And then some!
09/30/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Most of the above and then some.
Same here! Also I had no idea what vanilla sex was, seriously had to Google it!
10/01/2011
Contributor: SomeGirl SomeGirl
I'm not much into "traditional" foreplay. I prefer to have my hair stroked, pulled, and just played with.
10/04/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I have so many kinks, but on the top of the list is D/s. Foreplay can be nice, 'usual' sort of stuff, or being called nasty names and such...
It's a really wide variety for me, though!
10/28/2011