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How do you come to an orgasm?

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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
So there are a million types of different orgasms in the world, it seems. Clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms, g-spot orgasms w/ ejaculation, and some women even claim to be able orgasm from anal or breast stimulation.

And then there's the men - We all know about the regular orgasms through penis stimulation. However, my fiance can orgasm through being massaged on his perineum, P-spot, and even his scrotum. It takes a helluva long time, but it has happen and he has ejaculated quite a lot from these different types of stimulation.

There are also some weird ones (no offense, weird doesn't always mean bad). A woman once reported that by simply brushing her teeth, she would come to an orgasm. I've heard of girls orgasming from a man massaging her back, or massaging her buttocks. I'm not sure if I can believe everything I hear but I would love to know how you all come to an orgasm. Do you take extra measures to get there? Do you have to stretch your legs as far as you can, breathe a certain way, or rub a certain part of your body? Let me know!
05/04/2011
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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I'll be first to say that when I need to orgasm, it almost always has to be through some sort of clitoral stimulation. It takes quite a long time in most cases, but there are days when my fiance really "rubs me the right way" during foreplay and I can cum both vaginally and clitorally during sex.

He even surprised me (I thought something was wrong because I was unaware at the time that this can happen) and brought me to orgasm on night while he sat behind me and lightly rubbed my breasts with his palms. He put his hands around each breast, and just rotated them in circles - I came without even feeling the moments leading up to an orgasm. I just simply had an orgasm, out of nowhere, and it was amazing.

During solo play, I have to go to the ends of the earth sometimes to make myself cum. I lay on my back, legs open, and stretching on leg out as far as I can while stimulating my clit. My favorite new way to do this is by running my Violet Wonder link up and down my clit and side to side until I climax. Things also have to be quite slippery for me to reach an orgasm. Nobody likes a dry rub!
05/04/2011
Contributor: dogsrule dogsrule
Pretty much always need some sort of clit stimulation. I do enjoy having my g-spot rubbed and clit rubbed at the same time...Makes me cum fast and hard!
07/14/2011
Contributor: Jimmy Stevenson Jimmy Stevenson
Getting a helping hand if you catch my drift...
09/01/2011
Contributor: sexy bitch sexy bitch
gotta have it rough and pounding
11/02/2011
Contributor: Theaadrian Theaadrian
I always do clit stimulation. but I'm excited to get a vibrator and try out different places to stimulate...
11/13/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I've only ever had clitoral orgasms.
11/26/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
Clit only, but my gspor or aspot being rubbed helps.
11/26/2011
Contributor: MaryH MaryH
I thought I was strange from only ever having clit orgasms... guess it is common
12/06/2011
Contributor: zensgirl10 zensgirl10
clit stimulation
12/09/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
I've only ever had clitoral orgasms, so far.
12/09/2011
Contributor: SweetSurprise SweetSurprise
only clitoral so far...maybe one day another way
12/09/2011
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
Persistent, firm, circular clitoral stimulation. Manually, it takes about 20 minutes. With a vibrator, and if I'm "warmed up," it can take about 2 minutes. I lay on my back, legs pressed together, back arched.
01/10/2012
Contributor: hillys hillys
I usually i need the both the clit and vag to finish, don't know what I'd call it.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Kaleb Kaleb
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
So there are a million types of different orgasms in the world, it seems. Clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms, g-spot orgasms w/ ejaculation, and some women even claim to be able orgasm from anal or breast stimulation.



And then ... more
As a trans guy, I have to be in the right mindset and fully see my clit as a penis. Physically though, no vaginal stuff. I have to have my clit rubbed consistently with anal or nipple stimulation as a bonus.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
So there are a million types of different orgasms in the world, it seems. Clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms, g-spot orgasms w/ ejaculation, and some women even claim to be able orgasm from anal or breast stimulation.



And then ... more
Yeah. Weird conditions can make anything do it. Or even nothing at all.
09/24/2012
Contributor: jasminedarling jasminedarling
For the longest time, always just clit stimulation. Now I use PicoBong Moka & can have a g spot orgasm.
Or I can just place Moka in my in the right spot, get some clit stimulation going and have both simultaneously.
That's fantastic.
01/20/2013
Contributor: freeu2bfree freeu2bfree
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
So there are a million types of different orgasms in the world, it seems. Clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms, g-spot orgasms w/ ejaculation, and some women even claim to be able orgasm from anal or breast stimulation.



And then ... more
I heard of having one just by thoughts.
02/08/2013