Do you share all of your sexual fantasies with your partners or are there some you choose to keep to yourself?

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Do you share all of your sexual fantasies with your partners or are there some you choose to keep to yourself?

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Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
10/11/2013
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I share selectively.
10/30/2013
Contributor: Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
Selectively here to
10/30/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I've shared pretty much every one of the sexual fantasies I can think of with my boyfriend.
10/30/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
I love to share! Makes things much more exciting
10/31/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
And I love to hear his, too!!
10/31/2013
Contributor: Foxy Funk Foxy Funk
My wife and I make it a point to share our fantasies with each other. The great thing is that then, often, those fantasies become realities.
11/20/2013
Contributor: chrisman93 chrisman93
Sometimes, depending on who my girlfriend is, I will share. You never know when your significant other will be up to fulfilling those naughty desires. Make sure you know how your partner might react though before bringing them up.
11/20/2013
Contributor: DirtyBoy DirtyBoy
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Originally posted by Billie Bones
I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
I share them all...eventually. Sometimes you have to pick the right moment to share. Emotions are huge with how a woman will handle the desire/fantasy.
11/26/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I'm with shotgun93 and DirtyBoy. It's great when your SO is willing to fulfill those treasured desires. And you need to have an inkling before suggesting/hinting them. And until then like DirtyBoy.. eventually. Hit it on the nose about right moment and emotions huge on how it will be handled.
11/26/2013
Contributor: sexilexi29 sexilexi29
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Originally posted by Billie Bones
I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
I'm with shotgun93 and DirtyBoy on this one too. Eventually, I will share all my fantasies/desires/etc with my partners but it's all about timing. I want to make sure that I can completely trust my partner before sharing some of my darker desires especially. But sharing is more fun because, like Foxy Funk said, when you share your fantasies, those fantasies tend to become realities.
11/29/2013
Contributor: Rhinobaby Rhinobaby
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Originally posted by Billie Bones
I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
I keep some secrets
12/03/2013
Contributor: Confusedxfreak Confusedxfreak
I think it's good to share, with my new bf I want us to be as open as possible with each other.
08/12/2014
Contributor: gazz1455 gazz1455
I debated this for a long time with my gf and finally decided that I would take a chance, knowing that it could freak her out. I told her that I fantasized about giving a guy oral and having a 3some with her. She actually found it kind of sexy and we had some really hot sex sessions based off of it. We talked about it often and it would completely turn us on. Wish we could get back to those days but ithat's another story.
11/14/2014
Contributor: CuriousJ CuriousJ
I share very selectively. My partner is kinda weirded out by some of my preferences so its always a decision on what to share. Wish i could be completely open with her, but that's another discussion for another day.
11/14/2014
Contributor: Nice Nice
I don't have fantasies really or secrets about my sexuality. If I want to try something new, I simply say it, do it or hint around until it's clear. It really depends on what the situation is, as to how I go about making my wants known.

That said, I've been with my Husband for 16 years....there's no need for secrets and certainly no need to feel weird about sharing desires.
11/16/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Very selective sharing. I'm lucky though, the fantasys I have shared with the partner have been very well received.
11/16/2014
Contributor: benjiwithaz benjiwithaz
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Originally posted by Billie Bones
I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
I keep a lot to myself because that is part of the fun is having a taboo secret. If I get really close with someone I let them in on it so they can enjoy it too
12/24/2014
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by edeneve
I share selectively.
That is exactly my feeling on to share or not to share.
My first wife would and did use that sort of information as a weapon against me.
12/25/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by RonLee
That is exactly my feeling on to share or not to share.
My first wife would and did use that sort of information as a weapon against me.
Ouch, that is uncalled for. How did you handle that?
12/25/2014
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Billie Bones
I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
We have a clear cut agreement. Anything either one of us wants to try, so long as it is just between the two of us, is a green light "go". In fact, we agreed ahead of time that it is a "twice go", since you may not like something the first time or do it well, so you cannot rule it out without trying it at least twice. We have yet to find any fantasy the other has, something we didn't want to try again. We both enjoy making the other as happy as possible, and that applies in and out of the bedroom.
12/25/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Bignuf
We have a clear cut agreement. Anything either one of us wants to try, so long as it is just between the two of us, is a green light "go". In fact, we agreed ahead of time that it is a "twice go", since you may not like something ... more
That is good advice.
12/25/2014
Contributor: PiercedDownunder PiercedDownunder
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Originally posted by Billie Bones
I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
I share them all with my wife and most of them we explore regularly now and the ones that we have and like but we never will explore we watch porn movies of. Works for us, honesty is the key.
04/28/2018
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by Billie Bones
I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
I have kept some to myself, as my husband is very basic and I already have a hard time getting him to do certain things with me
11/12/2019
Contributor: CurvyVixen CurvyVixen
I only share some of my fantasies with my partner. Mostly because I am wayyyyy more experienced than he is and I'm into alot more kinky stuff. If only he knew
04/09/2020