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Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
that guys taking things up the ass from females is somehow "gay." That's one I randomly hear a lot. I'm not even sure why anyone would think that.
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Orientation is meaningless. Why does it matter.
3  (8%)
They have a point.... taking thigns in is not masculine.
it's not if it's with a female.
2  (5%)
It kind of is, but who cares?
I'm not sure
2  (5%)
I think it might reflect some level of such.
Ass has nothing to do with orientation anyways.
30  (79%)
It's something different altogether.
1  (3%)
Total votes: 38
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Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
Individuals how make comments like that I have always seen as insecure in their sexuality.
10/20/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I always wonder why people even care what other people do in bed. I've not heard people say that It's "gay" before but I don't really talk about sex much other than on here.
10/20/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I have heard that too. I do not know where the association even comes from. Not all gay men enjoy anal sex. And anal sex is fine for a women to like, so why does a straight guy liking it make him any more "gay". It is just bizarre to me. If something feels good then it is completely separate from sexual orientation
10/20/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
It's so immature when people say things like that. lol
10/20/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
that guys taking things up the ass from females is somehow "gay." That's one I randomly hear a lot. I'm not even sure why anyone would think that.
Liking anal play, if you're a guy, doesn't make you gay. Liking anal play with a male bodied partner MIGHT mean you are gay. Preferring to have anal play with a male bodied partner almost certainly is a great indication that you are gay. Then again anal penetration isn't a reliable indicator of whether a man is homosexual because some homosexual men do not like anal penetration.

Sexual orientation is much more complicated than simply liking to have certain areas of the body stimulated.
10/20/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Sticking anything up your butt has nothing to do with being gay and it does tick me off a bit to hear that assumption, along with others (like girls who like boobs are lesbians, or if they have short hair, etc...).
10/20/2012
Contributor: PinkPennyPanties PinkPennyPanties
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
that guys taking things up the ass from females is somehow "gay." That's one I randomly hear a lot. I'm not even sure why anyone would think that.
As a cross-dresser I love to take a strap-on,butt plugs etc. feels great and makes me feel like a real women.
PinkPennyPanties
Nice for a male or female to play with.
10/20/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
that guys taking things up the ass from females is somehow "gay." That's one I randomly hear a lot. I'm not even sure why anyone would think that.
Ass has nothing to do with orientation anyways
10/20/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Ass is ass. It's a hole. Big whoop
10/21/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
Quote:
Originally posted by kitty1949
Ass is ass. It's a hole. Big whoop
Hahahaha, couldn't have said it better.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Has nothing to do with orientation. Funny you should ask, I was writing an article about this just yesterday for Sexis.
11/14/2012
Contributor: Jesyra Jesyra
Heard this before, but to me it shows a total lack of understand for what sexual orientation is in the first place.
11/14/2012
Contributor: mikeysPlace mikeysPlace
Uh, thanks for that photo?
11/14/2012
Contributor: SassySam SassySam
people can get stuck on weird ideas.
11/14/2012
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
Ass has nothing to do with orientation anyways.
11/15/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Some people are just ignorant. Prostate play or pegging (or whatever other name you'd like to use) doesn't make a man gay. He's only gay if that's what he identifies as, and even then, what's it matter?
01/04/2013
Contributor: VictoriaDaniel1 VictoriaDaniel1
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
that guys taking things up the ass from females is somehow "gay." That's one I randomly hear a lot. I'm not even sure why anyone would think that.
so not true! some guys like anal some guys don't. most guys are to afraid to find out if they will like it or not becuase of the coment that that might make them gay. enough sexism!!!!
01/18/2013
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
that guys taking things up the ass from females is somehow "gay." That's one I randomly hear a lot. I'm not even sure why anyone would think that.
The responses have it. How can something between a man & a woman be considered 'gay'? Also let be honest - who cares? As long as everyone is happy and enjoying themselves it's all good.
02/11/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
that guys taking things up the ass from females is somehow "gay." That's one I randomly hear a lot. I'm not even sure why anyone would think that.
a lot goes into it
02/24/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I don't know where that came from (sounds like hysteria on the part of those who are homophobic), but I certainly don't think that way. If a guy does think that way, it seems he would have other issues to work out.
03/03/2013