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Contributor: virtualmirage virtualmirage
When you haven't seen your lover in over 2 weeks, do you want romance or sex when he finally arrives?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
SEX SEX SEX !!!!
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I want to be Romanced !
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I want plenty of romance followed by plenty of SEX...LOL
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Total votes: 199 (187 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I want both, but I'd actually rather have the sex first and some romance after.
02/20/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
Romance and sex at the same time? Then maybe some romance... or sex. Then the other.
02/21/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
I choose a third one

Because I am so greed
02/21/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Lol - I'm not really one for romance. I don't mind romancing a partner on the rare occasion but I don't need it.
02/21/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I want romance first. Just to see him and feel him and enjoy his presence next to me. Once we've had a little time to reconnect then it's time for sex, and more romance and more sex, and more romance...you get the idea!
02/21/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
To give and to get, I REALLY want BOTH!
02/21/2011
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
first, i'd start out with attacking him with kisses and hugs, some snuggling together........then a bit of touching and fooling around.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Rain. Rain.
I guess my answer depends on the situation. But in new relationships I prefer romance, but after awhile I want the romance/sex package. I guess that's my way of avoiding overly causal relationships lol
03/22/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I chose both, but would probably get to the sex pretty damn quickly. LOL But we both have pretty high sex drives.
03/22/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I like allot of BOTH when SHE gets home yes
03/22/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
BOTH
03/22/2011
Contributor: PinkPedal PinkPedal
I do not like to be romanced just skip right to the sex lol
04/07/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Both, combined and alone. I'd rather have romance/ cuddling and talking first if I haven't seen him in a while though.
04/07/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Generally we'll jump right into bed at the first possible moment and make the sex as romantic as possible.
05/20/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Definitely romance.
07/01/2011
Contributor: nori nori
if i HAD to choose between one or the other. romance lasts longer in the memory.
07/28/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I want a bit of a cuddle, a quick fuck, more of a cuddle, then a slower fuck. Then to go back to our normal life, which romance isn't really a big feature in.
07/28/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I want it all. Romance AND sex.
07/28/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
both
08/14/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
both. definitely.
08/14/2011
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
both for sure
08/29/2011
Contributor: samopayn samopayn
My man is currently away and when he comes home I want some romance but U have sure been missing the sex!
10/19/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Both but ultimately SEX SEX & more SEX. lol
10/19/2011
Contributor: mh11 mh11
both at the same time
11/03/2011
Contributor: Raym Raym
Sex first, but plenty of both by the end of the day/night!
11/03/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I'm going to interchange romance with intimacy, I want to talk to him, cuddle, and have lots of sex.
11/03/2011
Contributor: lilly555 lilly555
Romance that leads to sex would be nice
11/03/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I say romance that leads to sex, but if I must choose, I'd say romance.
11/03/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I want both!! lol
11/04/2011