Anal play: Where to start?

Contributor: g- g-
My husband and I are interested in experimenting with Anal play but have no idea where to begin! Should we start with beads or plugs? And why? There seems to be a lot of conflicting information out there....
06/09/2012
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Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by g-
My husband and I are interested in experimenting with Anal play but have no idea where to begin! Should we start with beads or plugs? And why? There seems to be a lot of conflicting information out there....
You should start with rimming and fingers. Then move to toys like beads and plugs.
06/10/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
You should start by reading some comments made by other contributors who have asked similar questions. Go to FORUM section and look for a category called Everday Sex and look for a section called Anal Sex. Click on any of 577 threads that were started and get a feel for the Pros or Cons and any other information that would help you better. I have provided a direct link here as follows, ANAL SEX.

There are other places to look, but I actually started anal play using a starter plug (others use anal probes) like this one, The Luxotiq Glass Plug. It is high quality. Another one to look at is, The Ripple in maybe medium size. You should also look at Beginner Anal Kits too! Good luck!
06/10/2012
Contributor: PeachCandy PeachCandy
Definitely start out using fingers and rimming before you move onto probes, plugs, beads, etc. Also, remember that anything you put in your ass, should not go in your pussy until it has been thoroughly cleaned.
06/10/2012
Contributor: g- g-
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Originally posted by PassionateLover2
You should start by reading some comments made by other contributors who have asked similar questions. Go to FORUM section and look for a category called Everday Sex and look for a section called Anal Sex. Click on any of 577 threads that were ... more
Thanks for the links!
06/11/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Start with lubed fingers on the outside of the anus. I'd say skip rimming until you know both of you are comfortable with that - I class that as a much more advanced activity. Once you're comfortable with external play and enjoy the sensations then try inserting a finger.

Once you're done with that decide if you like more active play (thrusting) or prefer to just have something in there. If you like active play go for a silcone dildo or probe, for passive play get a plug (silicone, glass or metal).
06/12/2012
Contributor: g- g-
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Originally posted by ScottA
Start with lubed fingers on the outside of the anus. I'd say skip rimming until you know both of you are comfortable with that - I class that as a much more advanced activity. Once you're comfortable with external play and enjoy the ... more
Thanks for the advice!
06/13/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
great tips guys. thanks!
06/14/2012
Contributor: Sir Fapsalot Sir Fapsalot
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Originally posted by g-
My husband and I are interested in experimenting with Anal play but have no idea where to begin! Should we start with beads or plugs? And why? There seems to be a lot of conflicting information out there....
I would start with a thin probe, personally
06/14/2012
Contributor: CaliGirl CaliGirl
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Originally posted by g-
My husband and I are interested in experimenting with Anal play but have no idea where to begin! Should we start with beads or plugs? And why? There seems to be a lot of conflicting information out there....
I would start with a finger or two then a small toy. after that try maybe half a strand of beads. I'm experienced and i still prefer a plug than a whole strand of beads if its going to be for a long time
06/20/2012