I read a lot of erotica, and I notice that the authors will throw in in a bit of realism in the form of "safety measures" - like mentioning condoms, or cleaning a toy. But, I've realized that when it comes to anal sex, they leave out lube. Is lube somehow unsexy? Are these authors just imagining what anal sex is, without experiencing? Do these authors realize what happens when you don't use lube?! I'm sorry, but I don't think a sore bum is sexy.
I just read a story last night where a girl is introduced to anal sex via a giant dildo - and while the author mentions a condom she put on the carrot she used moments ago, there is no mention of lube for the giant dildo. All I could think is, "Puh-lease. That is SO not gonna work."
Maybe I'm just a stickler for lube-realism....
I just read a story last night where a girl is introduced to anal sex via a giant dildo - and while the author mentions a condom she put on the carrot she used moments ago, there is no mention of lube for the giant dildo. All I could think is, "Puh-lease. That is SO not gonna work."
Maybe I'm just a stickler for lube-realism....