We definitely do all three!
Getting what you want in bed
06/24/2012
I do all of it.
06/25/2012
I make 'happy noises' when I like things and guide my partner's hands. I find it difficult giving verbal instruction while we are actually having sex but I tell him what I like at other times.
07/03/2012
It's important to communicate with your partner. Then you know what your partner wants and your partner knows what you want. Good mix...
07/04/2012
Sometimes we just do things out of the blue. It just comes out during play.
07/06/2012
If I like or don't like something...he will definitely know!
07/06/2012
I do whatever I can, and make sure he does too!
07/29/2012
I'm something of a 'dominant' type, usually with submissive types (even if we're not going gear crazy). So I get a lot of thrill from just forcing her around and leading her into what works for me. Between hair pulling, limb grasping and a few verbal commands we end up doing what I like. In addition to finding what works for her.
07/29/2012
anything I just tell it how it is
08/05/2012
If you're not getting what you want whats the point!
08/14/2012
We do all three
08/14/2012
communication is key!
08/18/2012
We talk after each session and list pros and cons.
08/19/2012
I voted before thinking about, because I mostly guide his hands to what I want him to focus on, but we also talk a lot about our sex life - what he wants from me and what I want from him. Like, if I want him to tie me up, I can't just guide his hands to the cuffs... I have to straight out tell him. But it's never killed the mood, it's made us both more aroused.
08/19/2012
Usually ask, but all of the above apply as well.
08/19/2012
I am usually up front and just tell what I want. Though sometimes I wonder if it's a turnoff!
08/23/2012
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I am a bit of a combination, but most often I just guide them there. Nothing like showing what I want lol.
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
08/25/2012
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I need so much sex, but my wife say NO!
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
08/28/2012
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I think so!
Originally posted by
Scott Ghost
The better the communication - the better the sex.
08/28/2012
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When you starts a relationship the sex is too pleasant! but with years the passion is lost!
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
I need third person in the relationship to get the sex I need!
08/28/2012
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It feels awkward to tell them
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
08/28/2012
I will just say what I like...
08/28/2012
I say it straight forward... he doesn't always listen though lol
08/28/2012
I have just recently got to where I do all three. I was tired of being sexually frustrated and unsatisfied.......
08/28/2012
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A few things I can come right out and tell her, but mostly by moving her hands and making pleasure sounds...
Originally posted by
link82
How do you let your partner know the things you like and don't like when it comes to sex (foreplay included).
08/29/2012
I try to do all three, though I'm still pretty shy when I first start having sex with someone so it takes a little time to build up my confidence in saying "you should try this" or whatever. In the meantime I just guide them by saying when something feels good or showing them how to use their hands, etc.
09/05/2012
I give multiple cues of what I want most of the time. Luckily I have a very attentive and doting partner, so I frequently find my needs satisfied.
09/12/2012
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Heh, this.
Originally posted by
froggiemoma
i "show" him what i like
And having someone get off in front of me is like the most intimate thing ever, and is a handy guide to where their personal important bits are.
And talking about it, getting intimate enough to the point where you can talk about it, is hot. Really.
09/12/2012
occasionally i speak but not outside of the bed
09/13/2012
Blatantly say it
09/13/2012