I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
How do you feel about anal?
08/28/2012
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I answered "tried but didn't like it" but I wouldn't say that that completely accurately describes my feelings about anal. I've tried anal sex with every single guy I've ever been with, but have only been able to do it successfully with one person.
I had always kind of wanted to be an anal whore. One of the first porns I watched was nothing but anal, and I thought women who could do it were kind of like Wonder Woman. I was determined that that would be me..
Alas, it's just not what I really enjoy. It takes me a lot of time to get into it, it takes him a lot of effort to keep my relaxed and then sometimes it feels really great after a certain point and I take it like a champ and other times, it's uncomfortable, it's awkward and it never starts feeling good. I have extremely mixed feelings about it.
I have a rule that I have to try everything three times before I gave it up. And even though my first 3 attempts at anal were absolute and complete failures, I still go back to it every once and awhile. I definitely would say that you definitely have to try it, because you really can't know how you'll feel about it until you do.
I had always kind of wanted to be an anal whore. One of the first porns I watched was nothing but anal, and I thought women who could do it were kind of like Wonder Woman. I was determined that that would be me..
Alas, it's just not what I really enjoy. It takes me a lot of time to get into it, it takes him a lot of effort to keep my relaxed and then sometimes it feels really great after a certain point and I take it like a champ and other times, it's uncomfortable, it's awkward and it never starts feeling good. I have extremely mixed feelings about it.
I have a rule that I have to try everything three times before I gave it up. And even though my first 3 attempts at anal were absolute and complete failures, I still go back to it every once and awhile. I definitely would say that you definitely have to try it, because you really can't know how you'll feel about it until you do.
08/28/2012
its fun
08/28/2012
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I have, I feel it could be more enjoyable if you get used to it first. Im quite big and trying with someone that has never done something like that isnt a good idea
Originally posted by
aryce
I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
08/28/2012
I don't want it all the time but when the mood hits it is always nice.
08/28/2012
No thank you!
08/29/2012
you need to be warmed up good and get nicely rubbed around that area to loosen up, and work your way into it, it took me 4 years to eventually learn how to do it with it hurting or feeling uncomfortable. I needed to watch porn on my own and play with myself and do it to myself with a small toy. now I love doing it with my hubby, and it never hurts and It hasn't stretched me out any either so, toy around with it until you decide yay or nay. I thought I didn't like it but after playing around I figured out how I like it.
08/29/2012
it's not something i have tried, and i don't think i will.
I have a high squick sensitivity!
I have a high squick sensitivity!
08/29/2012
I enjoyed it the one and only time I've done it so far. But he spent quite a long time loosening me up properly before every trying to enter me. I'll do it with more people in the future, but there are certain standards they need to meet first before I'll trust them to do that correctly.
08/29/2012
as long as I can take it slow I like it. If its like wam bam then NOOOOOO.
08/29/2012
Technically, I have tried it but it was against my will...But nothing is going back there PERIOD.
08/29/2012
I used to really dislike the idea of it, but now I love it. I think that it's a part of the body that everyone should explore at some point and learn to enjoy.
08/29/2012
I like it, my wife doesn't so therefore it doesn't happen very much, or really at all.
08/29/2012
with the right guy (preferably experienced and a small cock) it can be soooooo fun.... however, my Mister isnt into it, which i'm totally ok with as he has one of the thickest cocks i've ever had LOL not sure i could handle it anyways
08/29/2012
I picked 'never had and never will' but I'm not sure if I never will.. we shall see if I can open up to the idea eventually
08/29/2012
Um...haven't tried it but intend to?
08/29/2012
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I enjoy it, but my wife is a little freaked out at the idea...
Originally posted by
aryce
I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
08/29/2012
It's not my favorite..I don't play anally on my own, but my husband and I have anal sex every now and then because I know that he enjoys it.
08/29/2012
i've tried anal twice in the past and it was terrible.
but ever since trying it with my current boyfriend and getting some plugs, i've really been enjoying it.
but ever since trying it with my current boyfriend and getting some plugs, i've really been enjoying it.
08/29/2012
I only got a plug recently to try out and so far it's just ok for me. But I'm hoping to like it more as I get more used to it.
08/29/2012
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If I can work with my partner and trust him to be gentle, then it is great. If not, then say no thanks and move on.
Originally posted by
aryce
I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
08/29/2012
Like it from time to time!
08/29/2012
I like it but we don't often do it--too much prep to bother with.
08/30/2012
Love it--and I have since the first time I tried it. It's easy to cleanse yourself so you don't worry about mishaps, (and if they do happen, who cares? I hope you're with a partner who is mature enough to handle that possibility), using lots of lube and easing into it is easy enough--really, it doesn't hurt unless you're not using enough lube, aren't relaxed, or have a partner that's being too aggressive. If you approach it the right way, it is very pleasurable, highly intimate, and really hot. You gotta at least try it--you never know until you do!
08/30/2012
I wish I would have tried it earlier in my life!
08/30/2012
Eh, it doesn't do much for me. I tried it with my current boyfriend (who has a rather large penis) and that was just painful, plus he's a much greater fan of vaginal sex. I've tried it with men in the past and was rather indifferent about it. I didn't have orgasms from vaginal sex back then, and quite frankly, found all sex boring. I'm a kinky girl and the sex I was having was fairly vanilla. The guys weren't overly large, so it wasn't painful... just meh. These days, I'd much rather have the multiple orgasms that come from my boyfriend fucking my vagina I do like butt plugs though.
08/30/2012
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Tried it, but didn't care for it.
Originally posted by
aryce
I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
-Ash
08/30/2012
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Nothing to freak out about. Anal play, if done carefully and with lots of patience and lube, is amazingly sensual, amazingly stimulating FUN. The amount of nerves back there is astounding. I have my BIGGEST. WETTEST "O"s from anal play. Combine anal penetration with a small vibe in the front and my hubby massaging my clit and I am in a zone that NOTHING else comes close to. (That is why we love anal in the missionary position...all access pass).
Originally posted by
aryce
I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
Anyway, just relax and enjoy. There is nothing to be freaky, geeky about it.
If you TAKE YOUR TIME, stay in control and use TOO MUCH Lube, then all is well.
ENJOY!!!!
08/30/2012
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Kind of a mixed message there. You enjoy plugs, but don't like anal? You didn't enjoy anal at a time you were "not having orgasms from vaginal sex"? Sounds like your partners were not doing it for you very well! All sex was boring, but you are a "kinky girl"? WOW...you are a tough one to figure out.
Originally posted by
solitudinarian
Eh, it doesn't do much for me. I tried it with my current boyfriend (who has a rather large penis) and that was just painful, plus he's a much greater fan of vaginal sex. I've tried it with men in the past and was rather indifferent about
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Eh, it doesn't do much for me. I tried it with my current boyfriend (who has a rather large penis) and that was just painful, plus he's a much greater fan of vaginal sex. I've tried it with men in the past and was rather indifferent about it. I didn't have orgasms from vaginal sex back then, and quite frankly, found all sex boring. I'm a kinky girl and the sex I was having was fairly vanilla. The guys weren't overly large, so it wasn't painful... just meh. These days, I'd much rather have the multiple orgasms that come from my boyfriend fucking my vagina I do like butt plugs though.
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Anyway, I am glad you found your happy niche, but honestly, I have MORE multiple orgasms and FAR more powerful ones, when anal play is involved. Once you have the right lover and are "into" the stimulation of the "plugs" and know how to have a great orgasm...maybe time to revisit some anal play. You might have a much more positive experience. Just sayin....
08/30/2012
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It's never too late. We have all those wonderful, nerve rich orifices our entire lives...so if you are ALIVE, you can try ANYTHING and still have FUN. Yes...sexual fun, even in old age, believe it or not!!!!!
Originally posted by
travelnurse
I wish I would have tried it earlier in my life!
08/30/2012