For me it depends on the position my partner and I are in, if we are doing more laying down positions I try not to use my hands, but if it's a bit more frontal then my hand is there. Deepthroating is a bit hard for me, but I can do it either way.
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Is your hand involved in a blowjob?
09/27/2012
deepthroat, stroke, repeat.
09/27/2012
i don't blow
10/01/2012
I usually do
10/11/2012
I change it up and use every technique I can. I love experimenting.
10/13/2012
I almost always do. Can't keep my hands off of him, hehe.
10/13/2012
I have to use my hand because my husband's dick is too big and if I took the whole thing in my mouth I would surely gag. Also I want to give him as many sensations as possible.
10/13/2012
I don't use my hands on his penis, but I do tend to grab on to his legs or butt, depending on what position we're in.
10/15/2012
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I totally think this counts, too. Some men think that adds to the overall sensation. I'm glad someone else appreciates this. Plus it is nice to feel his body. It's something natural and sensual.
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kolink
I don't use my hands on his penis, but I do tend to grab on to his legs or butt, depending on what position we're in.
10/15/2012
It always ends up getting used.
11/10/2012
Absolutely. I love to deepthroat, but I also like to give as much pleasure and different sensations as possible. Legs, butt, balls, shaft--everywhere I know hands feel good--and it's a pleasure for my hands too!
When I am deepthroating, I like to "follow" my lips back up the shaft with my hands, and then "lead" them down again. This feels especially amazing when it's done slowly and over and over and over. Mix in a little ball fondling and butt squeezing and it's pretty amazing.
Sometimes it's also fun to do hands-free, or to let him hold my head and move it however he likes it, but hands are extremely important most of the time.
When I am deepthroating, I like to "follow" my lips back up the shaft with my hands, and then "lead" them down again. This feels especially amazing when it's done slowly and over and over and over. Mix in a little ball fondling and butt squeezing and it's pretty amazing.
Sometimes it's also fun to do hands-free, or to let him hold my head and move it however he likes it, but hands are extremely important most of the time.
11/11/2012
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Of course, its more better
Originally posted by
vanilla&chocolate
When you're giving someone a blowjob, do you use a combo of hand and mouth action or simply rely on your mouth? I, for one, use both because deepthroating is uncomfortable for me.
11/11/2012
Depends
11/11/2012
Most definitely! However, there are some times that my guy likes to tie my hands behind my back and then have me go down on him (he likes doing this so he can thrust up into my mouth instead of me actually doing any "work" ).
11/11/2012
Mostly mouth because he tries to not let me use hands, but sometimes hands to speed it up a bit or give my mouth a break.
11/11/2012
Depends upon what he wants. I prefer to use my hand too.
11/11/2012
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Sometimes when he just fucks my mouth and I'm in the bottom, I can't move my hands.
Originally posted by
vanilla&chocolate
When you're giving someone a blowjob, do you use a combo of hand and mouth action or simply rely on your mouth? I, for one, use both because deepthroating is uncomfortable for me.
11/12/2012
I do it for the sole reason that he loves it...
11/13/2012
my man loves when i use both
11/13/2012
Yes, I always give the balls some attention too.
11/18/2012
Yup!
11/18/2012
I've never done this before, but my guy is really into it (he's not pushing me, but I want to make him happy). Is there, perhaps, a technique recommended specifically for beginners?
11/19/2012
Only if I am not deep throating, or if he just wants to be in my mouth.
11/19/2012
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My advice would be to use one hand on his shaft and move it up and down along with your mouth. That way, you can pleasure all of his penis without having to gag from taking too much in your mouth. And it feels REALLY good. When you get comfortable enough with that, let your other hand explore other parts of him, especially his balls and butt.
Originally posted by
timelady
I've never done this before, but my guy is really into it (he's not pushing me, but I want to make him happy). Is there, perhaps, a technique recommended specifically for beginners?
You'll have to experiment and pay close attention to his reactions to find what he enjoys because different guys like different things. Personally, I like a mix of hand + mouth and just mouth, usually with a slow and steady rhythm. And I really love it when I know my wife is enjoying what she's doing, so if you are enjoying it, making some "mmmmm" sounds is a great way to convey it! Again it feels great.
If you're motivated and willing to invest a little time in mastering your bj skills, I'd recommend buying a dildo about the same size as your guy and practicing on that. I learned to deepthroat that way.
Above all, have fun with it! As the saying goes, the worst blowjob ever was still pretty good!
11/24/2012
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hands and mouth and tongue
Originally posted by
vanilla&chocolate
When you're giving someone a blowjob, do you use a combo of hand and mouth action or simply rely on your mouth? I, for one, use both because deepthroating is uncomfortable for me.
11/24/2012
I use my hands to do other things at the same time generally, like stimulating his balls or fingering him or just running them across his stomach or chest.
11/24/2012
I use the hand mouth combo, my gag reflex gets to me too. I move both in sync with each other, and use a slight twist of my hand when coming back up the shaft, it drives my partner crazy!
11/27/2012
it really depends on the moment and person really
11/27/2012
Yeah hands are definitely incorporated when I go down on him. He really likes it when I massage his balls ;]
01/20/2013
I've probably done it without before, but my boyfriend likes to relax and enjoy a long blow job. This is hard for my neck unless I use my hand a little. I don't mind taking a while, it turns me on and makes me happy to see how I can get him to react.
01/23/2013