How would you react if you cought your partner having solo fun? Would you just watch and enjoy the sight? Would you join? Would you leave them to their privacy? Something different?
How would you react if you cought your partner having solo fun?
12/01/2012
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watch..then join depending on the vibe I got. My partner never plays solo unfortunately. I'd love to catch her in the act.
12/01/2012
Relationships are complicated! My first reactions to the question was watch or join in. The idea of it certianly is appealing! But it depends on how the relationship is going. If I recently initiated sex and was turned down (this does happen) then I think I might feel sad or undesirable. Like I said it is more complicated when I think about it.
12/01/2012
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I absolutely agree with you @Gracie. My first reaction was to say that I would watch for awhile and then join in and it would be hot!! I'm the first person to tell anyone that masturbation is normal and should be enjoyed often.
Originally posted by
Gracie
Relationships are complicated! My first reactions to the question was watch or join in. The idea of it certianly is appealing! But it depends on how the relationship is going. If I recently initiated sex and was turned down (this does happen)
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Relationships are complicated! My first reactions to the question was watch or join in. The idea of it certianly is appealing! But it depends on how the relationship is going. If I recently initiated sex and was turned down (this does happen) then I think I might feel sad or undesirable. Like I said it is more complicated when I think about it.
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However, I've experienced this first hand and it doesn't feel good. When you're expecting it (like if you had previously agreed that you were going to walk in on your partner), it's probably sexy as hell. When you're not expecting it, it hits you like a ton of bricks and begin questioning everything about the whole sexual relationship.
I remember one time walking in on one of my partners while he was watching porn on the computer. I was mortified! The fact that he was watching redhead "teens" and I was definitely not a redhead "teen" - couldn't even act like it - was something that stuck with me, as his sexual partner, for a really long time. He was also one of those boyfriends who doesn't understand a lick about insecurity, so was a horrible support for my mini-meltdown.
I'm also a little more sensitive than your average bear.
12/01/2012
I would ask if I could join in! But if he said no thanks I wouldn't be upset
12/01/2012
Leave him to his privacy. Typically, if he is masturbating instead of asking for sex, that's just what he's in the mood for and I don't need to intrude. Generally, he'll even say something like, "Would you be offended if I..." or something along those lines. I don't join in and I don't care that he has solo time. He does the same for me.
12/01/2012
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I like this a lot. I think I'd leave him alone, too. If he wanted me to join in, he'd probably ask and then I would.
Originally posted by
SneakersAndPearls
Leave him to his privacy. Typically, if he is masturbating instead of asking for sex, that's just what he's in the mood for and I don't need to intrude. Generally, he'll even say something like, "Would you be offended if
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Leave him to his privacy. Typically, if he is masturbating instead of asking for sex, that's just what he's in the mood for and I don't need to intrude. Generally, he'll even say something like, "Would you be offended if I..." or something along those lines. I don't join in and I don't care that he has solo time. He does the same for me.
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12/02/2012
Happens a lot for me, actually. He has a habit of just whipping his dick out while hanging out next to me, doesn't bother me a bit. Sometimes I just ignore him and keep doing what I'm doing, sometimes I help him out, sometimes I start playing solo myself. It all depends on my mood I guess.
12/02/2012
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leave him be unless he wanted me in
Originally posted by
Arlinnae
How would you react if you cought your partner having solo fun? Would you just watch and enjoy the sight? Would you join? Would you leave them to their privacy? Something different?
12/02/2012
I'd watch but then probably start playing with myself. If I was asked to join then I would otherwise I wouldn't mind just watching each other and each of us having solo fun
12/03/2012
If he wanted me to join in he would just ask. But if I caught him playing solo I would honestly laugh (not at him! We have a running joke from when we first started dating), tell him I love him, and to let me know if he wants some help.
12/04/2012
I'd be so into watching. I'd probably touch myself while I watched. and then go over and join in. cause we'd both be super turned on
12/04/2012
I'd watch and start playing with myself.
12/04/2012
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I'd probably join in. I think it depends on how he responds to me catching him.
Originally posted by
Arlinnae
How would you react if you cought your partner having solo fun? Would you just watch and enjoy the sight? Would you join? Would you leave them to their privacy? Something different?
12/06/2012
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depends, either help him, or maybe get one of my toys out, and get myself off
Originally posted by
Arlinnae
How would you react if you cought your partner having solo fun? Would you just watch and enjoy the sight? Would you join? Would you leave them to their privacy? Something different?
12/07/2012
Join in or leave him to it, depends on if it seems like he wants me too.
12/22/2012
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enjoy the show, maybe join in, or take care of myself
Originally posted by
Arlinnae
How would you react if you cought your partner having solo fun? Would you just watch and enjoy the sight? Would you join? Would you leave them to their privacy? Something different?
12/24/2012
I would ask "may I be of assistance" and hope that the answer would be yes.
12/24/2012
I'd ask if it was okay for me to watch (and take care of myself while I was at it) or join in, depending on what I felt like doing. If I got a "yes," I'd proceed. If I got a "no," I'd be quite all right with giving him some privacy. It's not wrong to need some alone time now and then.
12/24/2012
Join in.
12/24/2012
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