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Sex in the shower hot or not?

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Contributor: raudy raudy
Quote:
Originally posted by SourAppleMartini
Hot, but potentially dangerous .
slippery when wet lol
08/18/2013
Contributor: bellaapple23 bellaapple23
I have never had successful shower sex. It may have just been a problem of heights and getting things lined up. But, I always ended up just bending over which isn't the greatest when your in the shower because water is all up in your face and stuff. Also, I'm really clumsy so adding water to that is just really dangerous for me. I'll stick to just making out and goofing off in the shower.
09/26/2013
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
It just doesn't do anything for me. The bed is the only place I really feel comfy.
10/02/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
My wife likes sex in the shower. Easy clean up. It's ok as long as the water stays warm enough. Not nice when water turns cold !
10/02/2013
Contributor: Leopard Kittie Leopard Kittie
Something stupid ALWAYS happens! I always fall or hit my head or sli por something... so we don't do that haha
10/03/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
I've never had it go well. Typically I'm too afraid of falling to actually enjoy it.
10/04/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I haven't tried yet, but I mostly don't care too much for the idea, and I don't find it super hot. I imagine it's not much different from regular sex other than all the water and worrying about slipping and breaking something.
10/27/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
Do you guys think shower sex is hot or is it difficult/unnecessary etc?
We leave home at the same "very early" time of morning. Shower sex was always our quickie thing. We also have long, hot shower "foreplay" if we want to prep for a long session of anal play, so we do a lot of shower time together. It is why when we built our last house, and our current one, we built huge showers, with multiple heads, seating, saunas and even mood lighting and entertainment systems "built in". Our current "adult playroom" bathroom has a "rain forest" shower and is big enough for any activity we could ever think of...with room to spare. It even will do "rain forest" sounds and green foliage lighting!

YES, shower sex can be "steamy hot" (pun).
10/27/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by chicmichiw
I like the idea -- hot, steamy, clean, already naked -- but water always washes any natural fluids away. Since it's usually spontaneous, I never bring lube in with in me!
We actually have liquid soap, shampoo, conditioner, body lotion and "sexual lube" dispensers in the shower!!!!
10/27/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
I had some of the hottest sex of my life in the shower. It can be a little awkward but totally worth it.
With practice, that awkward thing passes. You get good at it. Like ice skating.
10/27/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretKinksters
It's ok, but shower sex has never been "great" for us due to our height difference.
We overcame that by putting in a standing and sitting area in our custom shower enclosure as well as putting a step up (at just the right height for me) all the way around the perimeter. Even a simple bath stool might solve your problem.
10/27/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by HannahPanda
I love it!
Simple, direct and clear. We are with you on this one.
10/27/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
My wife likes sex in the shower. Easy clean up. It's ok as long as the water stays warm enough. Not nice when water turns cold !
We solved this one years ago. Tankless water heaters. Save energy, and unlimited hot water. Play till you become prunes if you like...but you never get cold!!!

link
10/27/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Always concerned about slipping - too much to worry about for me! Though I saw a new shower mount kit recently that looks exciting, and would make it easier.
10/27/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
yes it can be very hot. Something about being wet is super sexy
10/27/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
I used to hate it but with my current partner I looovvvveee it
10/28/2013
Contributor: LovemyWife1966 LovemyWife1966
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
Do you guys think shower sex is hot or is it difficult/unnecessary etc?
I voted "yes" although actual sex in the shower usually is something that sounds like it will be better than it ends up being. We do lots of kissing and caressing in the shower, and have tried to use the shower head to get my wife over the edge, which works with varying degrees of success. But in our shower, we're either standing, which can get tiring and the angles aren't perfect, or kneeling, which is uncomfortable. We usually get to about the same point in the encounter and think, "Oh yeah. We usually get to about here and then stop, dry off, and head to the bed to finish up." So we do. Thanks for the question.
10/28/2013
Contributor: battleaxe battleaxe
Quote:
Originally posted by bellaapple23
I have never had successful shower sex. It may have just been a problem of heights and getting things lined up. But, I always ended up just bending over which isn't the greatest when your in the shower because water is all up in your face and ... more
Same. And water always gets in my eyes, which make my contacts either fall out or move around awkwardly...which then transforms me into a one-eyed pirate.
11/08/2013
Contributor: hmb12 hmb12
Its fun... until you get stuck.
12/16/2013
Contributor: GirlyGirlRed GirlyGirlRed
Hot, but safety is definitely a necessary precaution. Don't want an unwanted visit to the er.
12/21/2013
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
We may start in the shower, but we rarely finish in the shower.
01/02/2014
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Having sex in the shower is definitely a steamin' hot experience, but I must emphasize that WATER IS NOT LUBE. Moreover, water can wash away the natural lubrication, which puts any kind of stimulation at risk of being unpleasant. Choose silicone based lubes for your shower play - and all will be not only steaming but also smooth
05/02/2019
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
I love shower sex, but I'm super short and all three of my partners are rather tall - making it very awkward and not nearly as fun as it could be. I did date a guy once who was just the right height and it was incredible, but a short lived relationship with TONS of shower sex. Lol.
05/06/2019
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
It is only fun for us if you have a big enough shower and a seat or ledge to sit on. Standing sex doesn't work for most people.
05/07/2019
Contributor: NinaH NinaH
Oh, I love shower sex pretty much! My SO is taller than me, but we haven't faced any difficulties and awkwardnesses
05/09/2019
Contributor: Thelovelysexxto1 Thelovelysexxto1
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
Do you guys think shower sex is hot or is it difficult/unnecessary etc?
I love shower sex! It is a major turn on. Best part is you don't even really have to shower again all you have to do is wash off since your already in there.
10/04/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
Do you guys think shower sex is hot or is it difficult/unnecessary etc?
I love shower sex! But now we live in a house that the showers aren't really set up for "safe" shower sex and it would be really cramped. We really didn't consider that when we bought the house--LOL!! We can have lots of shower sex when we go on vacation!!
10/05/2019
Contributor: orgasmicfarmer orgasmicfarmer
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
anything off the bed appeals to me.
My wife is way and it semi-annoys me. I suppose it's were we both lay.
10/07/2019
Contributor: madame macbeth madame macbeth
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
Do you guys think shower sex is hot or is it difficult/unnecessary etc?
It is definitely quite a challenge for taller people and small tubs.
10/10/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
I hate water in my face. I also have a fear of falling, lol.
10/14/2019