Do you find yourself exploring, experimenting and/or trying more stuff when going solo or do you explore and push new boundaries together with your partner?
Are you more kinky with yourself or with your partner?
03/13/2019
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As my friend used to say, and I agree with him, masturbation is sex with a person you like the most To share with a partner some erotic fantasies and implement them in life are definitely important. But there are some things which are better for solo sessions
03/20/2019
I used to be more kinky during solo rides, however over the past few years I have also became more comfortable and am now equally comfortable being kinky with myself and with my husband.
03/20/2019
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I couldn't agree more...I’ve never tuned myself down, that’s for sure . Not all partners aren’t going to agree or be on-board with everything. If that’s the case, try it on yourself if possible. I can’t begin to count how much kinky, experimental, 3-way sex I’ve had with me, myself and I !
Originally posted by
Leil@
As my friend used to say, and I agree with him, masturbation is sex with a person you like the most To share with a partner some erotic fantasies and implement them in life are definitely important. But there are some things which are better for solo
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As my friend used to say, and I agree with him, masturbation is sex with a person you like the most To share with a partner some erotic fantasies and implement them in life are definitely important. But there are some things which are better for solo sessions
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03/23/2019
I feel like, once I found what I like, I'm sticking to my fave routine for a long time now and I don't feel the need to experiment. I would say it's kinky enough, but I definitely haven't changed a thing in over a year now. Don't know if it's bad?
My partner is the one who encourages me to try new stuff, and it feels like it's way more fun to experience new things together.
My partner is the one who encourages me to try new stuff, and it feels like it's way more fun to experience new things together.
04/01/2019
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Two thoughts - 1st my wife often tells me that almost nothing works 2 sessions in a row. Having said that there are several go-to scenarios that we rotate between.
Originally posted by
GingerAnn
I feel like, once I found what I like, I'm sticking to my fave routine for a long time now and I don't feel the need to experiment. I would say it's kinky enough, but I definitely haven't changed a thing in over a year now. Don't
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I feel like, once I found what I like, I'm sticking to my fave routine for a long time now and I don't feel the need to experiment. I would say it's kinky enough, but I definitely haven't changed a thing in over a year now. Don't know if it's bad?
My partner is the one who encourages me to try new stuff, and it feels like it's way more fun to experience new things together. less
My partner is the one who encourages me to try new stuff, and it feels like it's way more fun to experience new things together. less
2nd - when you think ahead 5-10-20 years, I can pretty much guarantee that you will be in a different routine than you are now. Either that or your partner gets bored and/or disinterested.
Don't leave all the new ideas to your partner - that's what my wife did for 25 years and I wasn't pleased by being the lead on everything.
I got so fed up that I handed her a handful of bondage and pegging gear and told her to figure it out - and not to repeat the SOS over and over.
Once 'forced' to innovate she has done quite well - has even begun to embrace being a Domme.
04/03/2019
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So, do you change power roles with your wife now, or it is all her in charge today?
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Two thoughts - 1st my wife often tells me that almost nothing works 2 sessions in a row. Having said that there are several go-to scenarios that we rotate between.
2nd - when you think ahead 5-10-20 years, I can pretty much guarantee that you ... more
2nd - when you think ahead 5-10-20 years, I can pretty much guarantee that you ... more
Two thoughts - 1st my wife often tells me that almost nothing works 2 sessions in a row. Having said that there are several go-to scenarios that we rotate between.
2nd - when you think ahead 5-10-20 years, I can pretty much guarantee that you will be in a different routine than you are now. Either that or your partner gets bored and/or disinterested.
Don't leave all the new ideas to your partner - that's what my wife did for 25 years and I wasn't pleased by being the lead on everything.
I got so fed up that I handed her a handful of bondage and pegging gear and told her to figure it out - and not to repeat the SOS over and over.
Once 'forced' to innovate she has done quite well - has even begun to embrace being a Domme. less
2nd - when you think ahead 5-10-20 years, I can pretty much guarantee that you will be in a different routine than you are now. Either that or your partner gets bored and/or disinterested.
Don't leave all the new ideas to your partner - that's what my wife did for 25 years and I wasn't pleased by being the lead on everything.
I got so fed up that I handed her a handful of bondage and pegging gear and told her to figure it out - and not to repeat the SOS over and over.
Once 'forced' to innovate she has done quite well - has even begun to embrace being a Domme. less
04/08/2019
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I understand the Gunsmokes are into pegging. In most of these relationships, the wife is the undisputed Boss.
Originally posted by
GingerAnn
So, do you change power roles with your wife now, or it is all her in charge today?
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Your emoji is right on!
04/08/2019
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My wife has a fairly stressful job - so she's not up to being the Boss every time. On those days she gets treated like the Queen - whatever she wants, she gets - so it's Goddess-lite.
Originally posted by
GingerAnn
So, do you change power roles with your wife now, or it is all her in charge today?
I've tried being the Dom with greater and lesser success. She doesn't care for impact play, so my options are limited. It seems as time goes on, it happens less and less...
So OH is pretty accurate in what he says.
04/10/2019
Asus013
I am soooo much more kinky with myself. My wife would shutter if she saw some of the things I was in to.
I have shared some of the things that turn me on like pegging, which she says we could try. But she is pretty tame. And thats not a bad thing.
I have shared some of the things that turn me on like pegging, which she says we could try. But she is pretty tame. And thats not a bad thing.
04/11/2019
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Same here; my wife’ s pretty reserved as well; her wild side is so random. Her head would spin if she knew half the stuff I did to myself ! Good luck with the pegging... I’m still working on that with mine!
Originally posted by
Asus013
I am soooo much more kinky with myself. My wife would shutter if she saw some of the things I was in to.
I have shared some of the things that turn me on like pegging, which she says we could try. But she is pretty tame. And thats not a bad ... more
I have shared some of the things that turn me on like pegging, which she says we could try. But she is pretty tame. And thats not a bad ... more
I am soooo much more kinky with myself. My wife would shutter if she saw some of the things I was in to.
I have shared some of the things that turn me on like pegging, which she says we could try. But she is pretty tame. And thats not a bad thing. less
I have shared some of the things that turn me on like pegging, which she says we could try. But she is pretty tame. And thats not a bad thing. less
04/12/2019
I don’t have a partner so I can only get kinky with myself. Probably would be twice as kinky with a partner.
01/16/2022
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I’m way more kinky and trying something new with myself. The wife’s not into kink as much!
Originally posted by
4ever18
I don’t have a partner so I can only get kinky with myself. Probably would be twice as kinky with a partner.
02/20/2022
I am in a long-distance relationship, so I can't really be kinky with my partner as other people are (although we do try a lot when we call). If we were in person, though, I know that I would be 100x more kinky with him. For now, though, I have to do kinky stuff by myself.
03/01/2022
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Over the years I have found myself in some pretty kinky situations.The one kink I really want has been a failure with a partner.(anal sex). every partner(men), didn't know there are things that need to be done before it's pleasure not scary for me. So it is pleasure when solo.(I now am proud to be a lesbian) I so much want my wife to be the one who gives orgasms like my body screams for.(if I can get over the fears.)
Originally posted by
SoloRebel
Do you find yourself exploring, experimenting and/or trying more stuff when going solo or do you explore and push new boundaries together with your partner?
05/08/2022
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