Are you more kinky with yourself or with your partner?

Are you more kinky with yourself or with your partner?

SoloRebel SoloRebel
Do you find yourself exploring, experimenting and/or trying more stuff when going solo or do you explore and push new boundaries together with your partner?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
SoloRebel , OH&W, Lovebears , Leil@ , Asus013
4  (36%)
Swing Curious , GingerAnn
2  (18%)
Soundside46 , Orgasms & Pearls , Gunsmoke , satyriasis91 , ToyingCouple
5  (45%)
Total votes: 11
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Mar 13, 1:57 am
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Leil@ Leil@
As my friend used to say, and I agree with him, masturbation is sex with a person you like the most To share with a partner some erotic fantasies and implement them in life are definitely important. But there are some things which are better for solo sessions
Mar 20, 11:35 am
Orgasms & Pearls Orgasms & Pearls
I used to be more kinky during solo rides, however over the past few years I have also became more comfortable and am now equally comfortable being kinky with myself and with my husband.
Mar 20, 2:55 pm
SoloRebel SoloRebel
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Originally posted by Leil@
As my friend used to say, and I agree with him, masturbation is sex with a person you like the most To share with a partner some erotic fantasies and implement them in life are definitely important. But there are some things which are better for solo ...
I couldn't agree more...I’ve never tuned myself down, that’s for sure . Not all partners aren’t going to agree or be on-board with everything. If that’s the case, try it on yourself if possible. I can’t begin to count how much kinky, experimental, 3-way sex I’ve had with me, myself and I !
Mar 23, 1:22 am
GingerAnn GingerAnn
I feel like, once I found what I like, I'm sticking to my fave routine for a long time now and I don't feel the need to experiment. I would say it's kinky enough, but I definitely haven't changed a thing in over a year now. Don't know if it's bad?

My partner is the one who encourages me to try new stuff, and it feels like it's way more fun to experience new things together.
Apr 1, 8:21 am
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
I feel like, once I found what I like, I'm sticking to my fave routine for a long time now and I don't feel the need to experiment. I would say it's kinky enough, but I definitely haven't changed a thing in over a year now. Don't ...
Two thoughts - 1st my wife often tells me that almost nothing works 2 sessions in a row. Having said that there are several go-to scenarios that we rotate between.

2nd - when you think ahead 5-10-20 years, I can pretty much guarantee that you will be in a different routine than you are now. Either that or your partner gets bored and/or disinterested.

Don't leave all the new ideas to your partner - that's what my wife did for 25 years and I wasn't pleased by being the lead on everything.

I got so fed up that I handed her a handful of bondage and pegging gear and told her to figure it out - and not to repeat the SOS over and over.

Once 'forced' to innovate she has done quite well - has even begun to embrace being a Domme.
Apr 3, 4:03 pm
GingerAnn GingerAnn
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Two thoughts - 1st my wife often tells me that almost nothing works 2 sessions in a row. Having said that there are several go-to scenarios that we rotate between.

2nd - when you think ahead 5-10-20 years, I can pretty much guarantee that you ...
So, do you change power roles with your wife now, or it is all her in charge today?
Apr 8, 8:19 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
So, do you change power roles with your wife now, or it is all her in charge today?
I understand the Gunsmokes are into pegging. In most of these relationships, the wife is the undisputed Boss.

OW
Your emoji is right on!
Apr 8, 2:44 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
So, do you change power roles with your wife now, or it is all her in charge today?
My wife has a fairly stressful job - so she's not up to being the Boss every time. On those days she gets treated like the Queen - whatever she wants, she gets - so it's Goddess-lite.

I've tried being the Dom with greater and lesser success. She doesn't care for impact play, so my options are limited. It seems as time goes on, it happens less and less...

So OH is pretty accurate in what he says.
Apr 10, 8:13 pm
Asus013 Asus013
I am soooo much more kinky with myself. My wife would shutter if she saw some of the things I was in to.
I have shared some of the things that turn me on like pegging, which she says we could try. But she is pretty tame. And thats not a bad thing.
Apr 11, 6:07 pm
SoloRebel SoloRebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Asus013
I am soooo much more kinky with myself. My wife would shutter if she saw some of the things I was in to.
I have shared some of the things that turn me on like pegging, which she says we could try. But she is pretty tame. And thats not a bad ...
Same here; my wife’ s pretty reserved as well; her wild side is so random. Her head would spin if she knew half the stuff I did to myself ! Good luck with the pegging... I’m still working on that with mine!
Apr 12, 1:24 am
Total posts: 11
Unique posters: 7