Okay so i got into an argument about body count and what is high and what is low and if it should matter. Ive got 2 bodies and by buddy is at 25+. My point was to find someone special and settle down. A special someone isn't gonna want 25+ bodies. Am i wrong? I feel like getting to know someone and what they like and blowing their mind in need is what's fun. Maybe I'm wrong?
Body count. What is yours?
Jun 10, 10:15 pm
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It really depends on what kind of relationship dynamics you're after. You're thinking like I so and want a dedicated relationship, while your friend seems to be more casual about things. Both are valid approaches, and I'd say neither of you are really wrong.
As for if having a large number of past partners matters... I can't answer that one. Depends on the environment, I guess.
And as for my count... well, it's 0, so take anything I say with... not really a grain of salt, more like the whole salt shaker.
As for if having a large number of past partners matters... I can't answer that one. Depends on the environment, I guess.
And as for my count... well, it's 0, so take anything I say with... not really a grain of salt, more like the whole salt shaker.
Jun 28, 7:57 pm
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Nah, you’re not wrong at all. Everyone's got their own lane when it comes to sex and relationships. You’re out here looking for connection and meaning—that’s dope and rare these days.
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Shegoes1st
Okay so i got into an argument about body count and what is high and what is low and if it should matter. Ive got 2 bodies and by buddy is at 25+. My point was to find someone special and settle down. A special someone isn't gonna want 25+
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Okay so i got into an argument about body count and what is high and what is low and if it should matter. Ive got 2 bodies and by buddy is at 25+. My point was to find someone special and settle down. A special someone isn't gonna want 25+ bodies. Am i wrong? I feel like getting to know someone and what they like and blowing their mind in need is what's fun. Maybe I'm wrong?
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Yeah, some people might care about body count, others won’t give a damn as long as there’s trust, loyalty, and fire chemistry. But saying someone won’t want you just ‘cause of your past? That’s not a rule—it’s a preference thing. And honestly, blowing someone’s mind in bed and actually caring? That hits way harder than some inflated number.
So nah, you’re not crazy. You’re just built different. Keep doing you and let the right one match your vibe.
Jul 14, 4:44 am
You and your friend are both right and as the other commenters said, it really comes down to someone's preference and whether they care or not. Low or high body count doesn't exclude you from finding a connection with the one, especially as people change. Someone could be interested in only casual in the past then want to get serious and interested in a dedicated partnership!
As for my body count, 1.5? Had oral only (no PIV) with my ex, then all the way with my wife! While she is on the higher count side from the past. But when we met were both looking for the same thing, dedicated long-term relationship and that with openness, learning each other and each other's bodies more than casual hookups led to much more mind-blowing and amazing sex in the bedroom regardless for us!
As for my body count, 1.5? Had oral only (no PIV) with my ex, then all the way with my wife! While she is on the higher count side from the past. But when we met were both looking for the same thing, dedicated long-term relationship and that with openness, learning each other and each other's bodies more than casual hookups led to much more mind-blowing and amazing sex in the bedroom regardless for us!
Jul 14, 7:54 pm
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