Does it bother you when other people can hear what your doing??

Does it bother you when other people can hear what your doing??

Nkev Nkev
Wether it's sex masturbating or god knows what else does it bother you when you know other people can hear you? and i mean differently than does noise in general bother you, i.e. if the beds a rockin and no ones around i dont care but if people are around i do and it changes how i play! :/
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02/07/2012
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Teacookie Teacookie
I'm a screamer and I only care out of respect to others. Translation piss me off and i don't have to be considerate of you anymore.
02/07/2012
Curiouscat Curiouscat
Yea it would bother me. I think this would bother most people...
02/07/2012
Kitka Kitka
Depends..am I drunk? lol Nah, I care usually just because I'm really loud.
02/07/2012
CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by Nkev
Wether it's sex masturbating or god knows what else does it bother you when you know other people can hear you? and i mean differently than does noise in general bother you, i.e. if the beds a rockin and no ones around i dont care but if people ...
Totally don't care. I don't go out of my way to be louder or smash the headboard into the wall on purpose but I also don't turn it down from my normal. I know I have been overheard multiple times but really I'm not doing anything they don't do themselves.
02/07/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Many moons ago, when my big brother was in high school and would bring lady friends home, I learned that it's not hard to hear through our bedroom doors. Don't worry, I'm not one to eavesdrop. Turned around and went the other way as soon as I realized it.

But after that, I learned how to stay pretty quiet. Sometimes it can be too hard to keep it down when using toys, so I'm a little more cautious about who's around in that case, or use them in the shower. I don't really like the idea of anyone in the house knowing exactly when I'm masturbating, though I couldn't care less if the neighbors heard since I don't really talk to them.
02/07/2012
Rossie Rossie
Yes, it will bother me. We avoid daytime sex if my son's home, as I tend to moan pretty loud.
02/07/2012
callsignhusker callsignhusker
I wish it didn't but it does
02/07/2012
Jul!a Jul!a
It's one thing to know that it happens and it's another thing to hear it actually happen. It bothers me if people can hear me, so I try to make sure nobody can hear me when people are home.
02/07/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
I had a roommate (male) who liked to bring girls over and have obnoxiously loud sex when I was home and could hear. I learned to do laundry or turn on a movie or music or something when that was going on, but I was woken up by it or otherwise annoyed by it a few times so I retaliated once or twice. He learned that I'm partial to a pretty severe spanking session once in a while and I think it kinda creeped him out because he started asking what my plans were before bringing someone over and being much more respectful. Other than that, I'm much, MUCH quieter if people are around. I can be damn near silent when masturbating and I prefer super quiet vibrators both for this reason and so I don't get distracted. Though the quiet hum of my favorite vibrator will actually turn me on just to hear it sometimes. But I definitely don't want anyone to hear it.
02/07/2012
Bebela Bebela
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Originally posted by Nkev
Wether it's sex masturbating or god knows what else does it bother you when you know other people can hear you? and i mean differently than does noise in general bother you, i.e. if the beds a rockin and no ones around i dont care but if people ...
I love to hear it and to be heard!
Depending on the place though. If it's strangers around, then I'm all up for noise. If it's a family house or my roommates are about I tend to be VERY quiet.

I have heard them and it doesn't insult me in the least. I feel happy for them, a little embarrassed to hear it and a kind of turned on to be honest >__<
02/07/2012
EdenJP EdenJP
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Originally posted by Nkev
Wether it's sex masturbating or god knows what else does it bother you when you know other people can hear you? and i mean differently than does noise in general bother you, i.e. if the beds a rockin and no ones around i dont care but if people ...
Yes
02/07/2012
GONE! GONE!
Yes. It bothers me a lot. This is why I hate having a roommate and an apartment with paper walls.
02/08/2012
married with children married with children
it all depends on where we are and who it is.
02/09/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
I bothers me, definitely. Unless I'm masturbating and it's just my boyfriend hearing me. Lol.
02/09/2012
musicownsmysoul musicownsmysoul
Not really, no
02/09/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
Many moons ago, when my big brother was in high school and would bring lady friends home, I learned that it's not hard to hear through our bedroom doors. Don't worry, I'm not one to eavesdrop. Turned around and went the other way as soon ...
Amendment: thinking about it, I do keep quiet for the neighbors at night. I hate having noise keep me up, so I'd hate to do it to someone else (though row-homes are usually somewhat decent with blocking sounds). But since nighttime is also "keeping quiet so Dad doesn't hear from his bedroom" time, I'd usually stay quiet anyway, neighbors or no.

It's all kind of moot - I'm a gasper, not a screamer, so even at my loudest you can usually only hear me if you're on the same floor.
02/09/2012
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Yeah, it does bother me.
02/09/2012
te te
It bothers me nine times out of ten.
02/09/2012
jalolo jalolo
Quote:
Originally posted by Nkev
Wether it's sex masturbating or god knows what else does it bother you when you know other people can hear you? and i mean differently than does noise in general bother you, i.e. if the beds a rockin and no ones around i dont care but if people ...
In a dirty way... I kind of like when people hear
02/10/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
yes
02/10/2012
RonLee RonLee
For the most part doesn't bother me. It DOES however bother my GF she does NOT want to be heard. Sadly, my son still lives at home... and doesn't go out nearly often enough.
02/11/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I don't like it. It is too distracting to me.
02/11/2012
Nkev Nkev
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Originally posted by BlooJay
I don't like it. It is too distracting to me.
yeah it throws off my groove!
02/13/2012
<3BF <3BF
If people I don't know can hear I don't care. If it's a relative or a friend or something than I really want to be quiet.
02/13/2012
Lisa72 Lisa72
being drunk does matter
02/13/2012
glassdoll glassdoll
Currently, I share an apartment with 3 other girls. I don't know them very well (complicated living situation) so, no, I don't really want to share my sexy time noises with them.
If I was in an apartment with myself and the issue was more 'can the neighbors hear?', it'd be different and I wouldn't care so much.
02/13/2012
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Yes it bothers me sometimes.
02/13/2012
amandaco2011 amandaco2011
So it bother me a little. My boyfriend shares an apartment with two other guys. I know from time to time I can get a little caught up and loudish. Thankfully his bed is on the wall opposite their rooms and the noisy heater is right next to us so it downs me out for the most part.
02/13/2012
calliope calliope
I'm an extremely private person and I live in a real crap appartment when it comes to sound proofing. The last time someone lives below us this guy would pound on the walls evertime my daughter would say drop something or walk fast. So my husband and I always tried to keep our uh activities real quite.
02/13/2012
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