Do you believe that women give cunnilingus better that men and men give blowjobs better?
Best cunnilingus by women, best bj by men
01/18/2011
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I guess in theory that could be true, but I wouldn't know where to begin when it comes to cunnilingus, but BJ's always came naturally to me.
01/18/2011
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no just the opposite
Originally posted by
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Do you believe that women give cunnilingus better that men and men give blowjobs better?
01/19/2011
I don't that your supposition is right or wrong. I think enthusiasm and a dedication to your partner are more important.
If you're gay, sure giving another guy a BJ would be a good thing. But my wife gives great head - she doesn't need a penis to know what to do. She pays attention to my breathing, body language etc.
It's the same with her - if I had a pussy, I'd know what makes mine feel good - but not necessarily hers. Because I obviously don't, I am very attentive to her breathing and body language.
If you're gay, sure giving another guy a BJ would be a good thing. But my wife gives great head - she doesn't need a penis to know what to do. She pays attention to my breathing, body language etc.
It's the same with her - if I had a pussy, I'd know what makes mine feel good - but not necessarily hers. Because I obviously don't, I am very attentive to her breathing and body language.
01/19/2011
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way to state it--its a matter of loving and caring about your partner
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I don't that your supposition is right or wrong. I think enthusiasm and a dedication to your partner are more important.
If you're gay, sure giving another guy a BJ would be a good thing. But my wife gives great head - she doesn't ... more
If you're gay, sure giving another guy a BJ would be a good thing. But my wife gives great head - she doesn't ... more
I don't that your supposition is right or wrong. I think enthusiasm and a dedication to your partner are more important.
If you're gay, sure giving another guy a BJ would be a good thing. But my wife gives great head - she doesn't need a penis to know what to do. She pays attention to my breathing, body language etc.
It's the same with her - if I had a pussy, I'd know what makes mine feel good - but not necessarily hers. Because I obviously don't, I am very attentive to her breathing and body language. less
If you're gay, sure giving another guy a BJ would be a good thing. But my wife gives great head - she doesn't need a penis to know what to do. She pays attention to my breathing, body language etc.
It's the same with her - if I had a pussy, I'd know what makes mine feel good - but not necessarily hers. Because I obviously don't, I am very attentive to her breathing and body language. less
01/24/2011
A basic understanding of anatomy and a bit of extrapolation will allow you to figure out generally what feels like what (i.e. the clitoris is similar to the glans, the labia are similar to the skin along the penis and scrotum but more sensitive, etc.)
Beyond that it's just a matter of communication, paying attention, and adventure.
Beyond that it's just a matter of communication, paying attention, and adventure.
01/24/2011
As someone who was in a relationship with a bio-female for years - my ex sucked at pleasuring me orally. I had always assumed I just don't get any satisfaction from oral sex but now I'm wondering if they just sucked (and not in the good way). So it's a good theory, but I don't know if it has any truth.
01/24/2011
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That's a tough one - some people take to instruction better than others, but it's really bad - a few suggestion might work for both concerned.
Originally posted by
Darling Jen
As someone who was in a relationship with a bio-female for years - my ex sucked at pleasuring me orally. I had always assumed I just don't get any satisfaction from oral sex but now I'm wondering if they just sucked (and not in the good way).
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As someone who was in a relationship with a bio-female for years - my ex sucked at pleasuring me orally. I had always assumed I just don't get any satisfaction from oral sex but now I'm wondering if they just sucked (and not in the good way). So it's a good theory, but I don't know if it has any truth.
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01/24/2011
Whoever practices more I would imagine. So on average women would be better at the bjs and vice versa.
01/28/2011
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Yeah, that's my feeling. Just because somebody has the same body parts does not mean they know what works for you. Practice, on the other hand, counts for a LOT.
Originally posted by
0letitgrow
Whoever practices more I would imagine. So on average women would be better at the bjs and vice versa.
02/06/2011
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i know i prefer cunnilingus from a girl over a guy, they know how to do it better
Originally posted by
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Do you believe that women give cunnilingus better that men and men give blowjobs better?
07/03/2011
No, I would not say this is the general state of things. What I will say is that people who possess the parts that they also wish to stimulate have an advantage- they can (if they so choose) experience what it is like from both ends. And when it comes down to BJs (a topic in which I admit, I'm the opposite of an expert) I've been told that men have an easier time because on average, they simply have bigger mouths than women.
But in the end, it comes down to effort and listening ability, since people have different preferences. What is good oral sex to one person could be bad oral sex to another.
But in the end, it comes down to effort and listening ability, since people have different preferences. What is good oral sex to one person could be bad oral sex to another.
09/20/2011
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