I love when my husband massages me. He starts on my back, very soft and sensual and it relaxes me. It's a naked massage by the way. Then he moves down to my legs and works his way up to my inner thighs. It so turns me on! He includes lots of kisses all over too.

We do this almost every time we make love. I've even published an article on erotic massage. For us it's the perfect foreplay. I usually start with a back rub and move south pretty quickly. When she turns onto her back I settle in between her legs and stroke in various patterns from her breasts to her knees - gradually reducing the circle to build up her anticipation for the long awaited 'main event'.

The groin area is filled with nerve endings - and by now know exactly how she likes it - but also mix in some new moves to keep things fresh. Sometimes it progresses to oral sex - sometimes not - just depends. The slow build up gets us both ready both physically and mentally for the up-cumming orgasms.

Overall the process takes about 80% of love making time.

When I've given my wife a sensual massage, I like to start her off with a nice hot bath, playing some music she likes and giving her a glass of wine to drink. This gets her relaxed and in the mood, but also softens and hydrates her skin before the massage.

I bought some massage oil specifically for this but haven't had hardly any chances to use it thanks to "circumstances"!! I really want to practice tantric massage on my husband

yes, i was so good he fell asleep

No, but sometimes I give my cat erotic back-rubs!

I have, actually, it's very nice. I'm not sure what helpful tips to give you, though - you'll want to use your imagination!