Do you feel its weird to be a virgin after a certain age?

Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
I feel like anything past 23 and you've missed the best stuff but I don't really think its weird. I met a girl that is 24 and a virgin though and shes terrified of the fact
02/03/2012
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
No, I don't think it's weird. It's a personal choice. If I compared my sex life at 23 to my now ripe old age of 30 and had to choose...I'd definitely stick with 30.
02/03/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Nope, some people have made that commitment and others haven't found the right person. Others just may be happy not to get involved with a physical relationship or whatever. To each his own, whatever the reason may be.

I really don't get this culture's obsession with virginity to begin with, if she decided not to have sex, that's her business.

I have to ask though, what exactly is the best stuff that she's supposedly missed? One night stands? Multiple partners? Anal sex? Cause that can be done at any age.
02/03/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I'm turning 23 in a week, and I still haven't had sexual contact of any kind with another person. I'm a little bummed that I haven't yet gotten to experience something that's supposed to be really wonderful - even more wonderful than my toys - but more than that I'm happy I've never jumped into bed with someone just because I felt like I had to.

I don't think it's weird. A person shouldn't want to lose their virginity just for the sake of losing it.

And I'm not sure what you mean by "missing the best stuff." Seems like both good and bad sex can occur at any age.
02/03/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I lost my virginity at 17, but I don't think there's anything wrong with waiting.
02/03/2012
Contributor: slynch slynch
I would say about 30.
02/03/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
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Originally posted by spineyogurt
I feel like anything past 23 and you've missed the best stuff but I don't really think its weird. I met a girl that is 24 and a virgin though and shes terrified of the fact
Not really, I'm going to be 24 this September...if it happens it happens, if not the world won't end.
It's better to be ready and actually enjoy your first time than to just rush it so you're not a 'spinster'.
02/04/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
No way; there's no set age. It's best to be ready physically, mentally, emotionally than just have sex just because everyone else your age already has and to get it over with.
02/04/2012
Contributor: NurseKitty NurseKitty
No way! I was 20 before I had sex and 18 before I had even gone to 1st base with a guy. A lot of people thought that was weird but I didn't find the right guy to do it with.

You'll be ready when you are ready.
02/04/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I don't think it's weird to be a virgin at a certain age, and certainly not by age 24. I do think it's odd if someone has gotten into middle age without having had a romantic relationship (either having had sex or not).

I also don't agree that by 23 you've missed the best sex. It takes time and trial and error to figure out what works for you. I know that I am constantly learning new things that work for me. I'm only 25 and my sex life continues to get better every year, so I am actually looking forward to getting older and the sex I am going to have.
02/04/2012
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
The Why is the more important aspect. Why are you still a virgin? By choice or not?

I don't think a person's sexual worth starts to go down after 23. The mind is the greatest sexual organ, and at 23 your mind is still developing. Plenty of women hit their sexual peak in their 30s. Yes, younger women tend to have tighter bodies and higher breasts. But I'd take a 30 year old who has an interesting mind and takes care of her body over an inexperienced 18 year old anyday.

If you've reached your twenties single and healthy and you've done your own sexual exploration (you know how to pleasure yourself, you know what your sexual interests are, you know how to be safe, etc) I'd say that you are doing just fine and will have no trouble finding a partner when you're ready. Just relax and don't treat your virginity as something you are just itching to get rid of. Treat it like the next great leap.
02/04/2012
Contributor: te te
Whatever works for the person in question. If someone is happy waiting or not waiting I say let them be happy with what works for them.
02/04/2012
Contributor: AndromedaJane AndromedaJane
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Originally posted by spineyogurt
I feel like anything past 23 and you've missed the best stuff but I don't really think its weird. I met a girl that is 24 and a virgin though and shes terrified of the fact
not too weird.
02/05/2012
Contributor: Graniteal Graniteal
I don't find it weird at all
02/05/2012