Hi guys,

I need your help.

I'm in a sexless marriage and about 2 years ago, after a slightly heated but constructive argument, my wife knowing that I enjoy/need sex and she has very low libido, she said I can find a woman to have sex with.

I was heavily against it.

Now we have decided to go Japan (where she is from) and she has gone ahead to set things up but it may take a while; 6 months to 1 year...the Japanese legal system is apparently more complicated and demanding for foreign spouses.
I am therefore tempted now to actually find a woman but with her understanding that I'm married and just appreciate a women's touch that I do so miss.

But all women online demand a verification card that I just can't find.

Any suggestions?