For the ladies: Age in regards to size preferences for vaginal insertion

Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
I voted medium, but I like them thicker than longer.
09/12/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I really prefer girth to length. Sometimes I feel like I have a shallow vagina because anything over 4 or 5ish inches isn't really ideal for me. Girth-wise, I can deal with plenty, though.
09/13/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by geliebt
I really prefer girth to length. Sometimes I feel like I have a shallow vagina because anything over 4 or 5ish inches isn't really ideal for me. Girth-wise, I can deal with plenty, though.
My wife use to feel the same way. It turned out to be that it was bad technique on my part.

What I learned is that as she becomes more aroused, her vagina elongates. If I do it right, as she becomes more aroused the toys will go a little deeper - and sometimes she'll take up to 7+".

The key is to go with the flow - as her arousal grows, she'll press her hips toward me - that's my cue that I need to go a little deeper. And a little deeper is the key, each increment may only be 1/4" - 1/2". It's all about being attentive - not aggressive.
09/13/2011
Contributor: PunkyB PunkyB
Im in my late 20's and I usually choose medium lenght toys. I have a retroflexed cervix and inserting can be painful some times so i dont go too large with my toys. I havent noticed a change in what has worked for me though
09/15/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I'm 24 and I put medium, since I'm not a big fan of smaller girth toys; they just aren't as stimulating to me. However, I haven't tried anything larger so maybe over time I'll prefer those, I can't yet say really.
09/18/2011
Contributor: SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
I am 20, and I prefer smaller toys. Anything thicker than my current boyfriends penis and it hurts too much enjoy it.
09/19/2011
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I'm 31 and another one that prefers larger toys since giving birth. I've been doing kegels and using my exerciser balls, but things just aren't the same down there!
09/23/2011
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Penetration still hurts me a lot, so I prefer smaller toys. I'm also in the 18-24 age range.
09/27/2011
Contributor: cathy23 cathy23
my last boyfriend and I used a toy to get me accustomed to his larger size. I still have it and play with it sometimes
12/21/2011
Contributor: Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
i think preferences change but mine has stayed the same for quite some time.
12/23/2011
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
The size of the toy doesn't typically matter to me, as long as it's not so big that it causes me pain. I typically stick to "medium-sized" toys because of my size/shape.
12/23/2011
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
I love the thick ones but not so much the long ones. The long ones just seem to hurt more and cause more damage when I'm clumsy.
12/23/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I'm 21 and I prefer very thick toys (5 1/2- 7in circumference) and I can only insert up to 7in, so the longer toys do absolutely nothing for me, short and thick is best.
12/23/2011
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
really depends on my mood
12/24/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
I like something medium length but I can't have a lot of width/diameter.
12/27/2011
Contributor: biancajames biancajames
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Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Insertable toys come in all shapes and sizes and of course everyone likes their own thing but I am curious whether if ones age plays a part in determining their size preference in their choice of toys.
I've always liked large toys, even in my late teens. I think people's bodies vary.
12/27/2011
Contributor: biancajames biancajames
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Originally posted by Waterfall
I like both medium and large sized toys but the material makes a difference. For example all of my glass toys fall in the medium range, but I have some silicone toys that are large and that I LOVE!
This is very true- my pure wand is quite slim, but it really packs a punch!
12/27/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I'm 33 and I prefer medium sized toys.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
Quote:
Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Insertable toys come in all shapes and sizes and of course everyone likes their own thing but I am curious whether if ones age plays a part in determining their size preference in their choice of toys.
I dont have too many insertable toys, but when i bought them size was not a factor... strange. it will be now.
02/28/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Insertable toys come in all shapes and sizes and of course everyone likes their own thing but I am curious whether if ones age plays a part in determining their size preference in their choice of toys.
I really like smaller toys because I have a super small vagina and anything kind of over average is really painful for me
04/12/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I turn 28 in 10 days and I voted medium and larger toys. It really depends what kind of mood I'm in. I also really like texture on my toys most of the time.
04/12/2012
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
I'm 21 and I voted for small and medium since although I prefer the "medium" girth (1.25 inch - 1.5 inch range) I prefer shorter length (meaning anything under 6 inch, even when I do use 6 inch dildos I don't use all of it inside me). I'm not a fan of long toys since I worry about hitting my cervix. I did that once with a 6 inch dildo and it hurt so bad I went from masturbating happily to crying in a fetal position on the floor trying not to vomit from the pain.
04/12/2012
Contributor: joja joja
I'm 21 and I prefer smaller toys. 5-6" long and 1-1.25" in diameter.

I think it has more to do with body size than age, really.
04/12/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
24 and I go about medium for both of them.
04/12/2012
Contributor: pix pix
Never given birth, haven't had sex on a regular basis until recently, so smaller toys are just more in my comfort zone.
04/14/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I'm 31 and prefer small toys. Most reviews say big toys are for "more experienced users", yet I am experienced and prefer them small.
04/19/2012
Contributor: Sam the Man Sam the Man
I wasn't sure whether to vote medium or large because I usually like thick toys but not necessarily long ones. Maybe it would be worth differentiating?
04/21/2012
Contributor: bh253 bh253
I am 18, and I like the small toys.
05/17/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm 24 and prefer medium
05/18/2012
Contributor: madame macbeth madame macbeth
Size doesn't matter to me really.
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