For your first time

Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
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11/01/2012
Contributor: B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
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Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

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I could care less
11/01/2012
Contributor: B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
llama
11/01/2012
Contributor: B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
llama
11/01/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
My husband and I where both inexperienced as each other and it is now this amazing special story we hae together.
11/01/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
More experienced! Are you kidding? I don't date men my age for this very reason. Well, that an maturity issues. But I want a guy that can knock my socks off and teach me a thing or two.
11/01/2012
Contributor: hmb12 hmb12
I like experiencing things along with my partner but I'm not going to be upset if my guy has done something before me
11/02/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Does not matter. Both have pros and cons.
11/02/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I would like for both to be inexperienced.
11/02/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
My first was much more experienced, but he still had no idea how to please a woman. But my second guy was also more experienced but he knew what he was doing and it was wonderful. Even though my first few times were rather lackluster, I would still prefer someone more experienced.
11/02/2012
Contributor: Lizard Lizard
More experience is best.
11/03/2012
Contributor: smlove smlove
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
we were both virgins. I was glad for that in the sense that we neither of us had any STDs (which he later did get one... thankfully after we broke up).

but otherwise, it woulda been nice to be with someone who knew what they were doing. even though I had sex for the first time at 18, I didn't have my first orgasm until I was 22. that was from my wife (gf at the time). she's definitely way more experienced, so I was thankful for her skills (and love, of course).
11/03/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
I had a partner who was a touch more experienced than I was and I actually preferred that. My partner was actively looking for a more experienced partner once he realized that he really had nothing to offer a woman who had no experience. He had no idea what he wanted or how to go about getting it so letting me lead him helped him to build his skill level. It also helped knowing that as a more experienced lover I wasn't going to be squicked out by some of the things he wanted to try.
Having a partner who looks at your scared attempts to explain what you want as something that sounds fun can be freeing.
11/03/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
More Experienced.
11/03/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
Same level or more experienced.
11/06/2012
Contributor: Lacey- Lacey-
It was sort of fun figuring things out together for our first times, so I'm sticking having wanted what I had, someone just as inexperienced. I think it was also nice knowing that who I was with had no one to compare me to; so as of then, I was the best sex she has had, lol. That sorta made it easier to relax, I wasn't in my head being like "oh no, she'll think I'm a bad fuck because this is my first time"
11/06/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
As a guy, I was glad to lose my virginity with another virgin. I think I might have been intimidated by an experienced woman. We taught each other A LOT over the next 2 years.

Since then, I've usually been the more experienced partner. The one exception was my worst relationship (I've had 5 serious relationships), but I'm not sure if our experience levels had much to do with that.
11/26/2012
Contributor: invisiblehat invisiblehat
More experienced, but it kind of depends on the person.
11/26/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I wish my partner had had more experience than me.
11/26/2012
Contributor: nsavetheworld nsavetheworld
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
more experienced. my first was just weird
11/28/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
At the same experience level as me or less. I want to be the one teaching them what to do!
11/28/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
more experienced - though Im into older guys, so thats kind of a given.
11/28/2012
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
I would want someone more experienced than me.
11/28/2012
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
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04/07/2013
Contributor: kaylajoy89 kaylajoy89
i liked that he had more experience
04/08/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
I would want someone more experienced than me, but not super experienced. Enough that they can guide me through things, but not so much that I feel like I was completely useless.
04/15/2013
Contributor: freeport freeport
I picked other because it wasn't the level of experience that mattered for me. It was my partner's expectations. Your first time with anyone, no matter your experience level, should consist of getting to know them. I wish I'd felt comfortable enough to tell him to back off when it became clear that he wasn't going to pay attention to how I was feeling and that nothing we did was going to be enjoyable for me.
04/15/2013
Contributor: muffinlovesegg muffinlovesegg
Although it's nice and sweet to figure things out with a partner that is just as inexperienced as you, i think it would be interesting to have the person you are with know exactly what to do to please you.
04/20/2013
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
more is better
04/20/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
I liked that I had someone more experienced. =)
04/20/2013