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Girlfriend can't orgasm from oral..suggestions?

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Contributor: Patrón Patrón
My girlfriend has never had an orgasm from oral. Even when using toys on her, both internal and external (same time and seperate)...with or without tongue, fingers or no fingers. I've tried everything. Over an hour the other day and stil nothing.
She has an extremely hard time relaxing and is scared that if I do use a vibrator on her clit, she might "squirt" and get it on my face (something i find extremely sexy btw, and have told her)

She does have orgasms during sex, however. and loves when I use a vibrator on her clit during sex..but I still want to give her one during oral.

any suggestions?
08/21/2012
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I can't orgasm from oral either. I have orgasms from sex. I just don't like oral really. It doesn't do anything for me. I get bored and have a hard time relaxing when it's being done to me.

We just don't do oral on me. *shrug* I just assume it's not something I'm going to get pleasure from and have moved on. Perhaps she's just one of the women that doesn't like it/can't get off to it.
08/21/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I can't orgasm from oral either. I have orgasms from sex. I just don't like oral really. It doesn't do anything for me. I get bored and have a hard time relaxing when it's being done to me.

We just don't do oral on me. ... more
Same here. It just doesn't do anything for me.
08/21/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
It's so very sad that there are ladies who don't get to enjoy oral. I LOVE ORAL! I can't have sex without it. I must have oral in order to have penetration.

It does sound like you have done all you can. She has to learn how to relax completely and not worry about what is going on. Otherwise she won't be able to O from oral.
08/21/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I too cannot orgasm from oral. I enjoy it, but it's more of an appreciation of my boyfriend's enjoyment of it. I don't expect to ever reach orgasm from it, as I need a lot of clitoral pressure to have clitoral orgasms. I usually have no problems have orgasms during penetrative sex.
08/21/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I also can't finish from oral. My boyfriend thinks it's sexy to do it to me, but I just think it's okay. It's not worth the time and effort when there are other things that get me ready faster.

Some people just can't do oral, so I'd focus on the things that she DOES enjoy. Maybe later in life she'll be more relaxed about it, but you can't force her.
08/21/2012