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Contributor: bowzer311 bowzer311
Has your partner ever made excuses during sex? Like trying to "slip" to the wrong hole?
02/15/2013
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Contributor: js250 js250
No--he knows more than anyone how much damage was done to me when we tried. He has however done the old, "well look who came out to say hi" routine to get me interested.....it works.
02/15/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
No if he goes near my rear I simply say um NO an he moves back he is trying to get me into anal. I have tried anal on my own just not having great results with it
02/15/2013
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by bowzer311
Has your partner ever made excuses during sex? Like trying to "slip" to the wrong hole?
yes but I didn't mind.
02/15/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
No, there's no need for him to make excuses.
02/15/2013
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by bowzer311
Has your partner ever made excuses during sex? Like trying to "slip" to the wrong hole?
Ooh yeah.
02/15/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No that doesn't happen - we have been dancing around the issue of anal sex for a long time - it didn't happen until she finally consented.
02/16/2013
Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
Nope, my husband is very considerate and would never do anything to upset me.
He knows better than to try and do something without getting permission first.
02/16/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
thats a good one. I slipped, I swear!

No, I have never done anything like that to my wife. I would never do something that she does not like or would hut her. Marriage is about respect for each other.
02/16/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by bowzer311
Has your partner ever made excuses during sex? Like trying to "slip" to the wrong hole?
Hell no. There's something very wrong with that. I have had guys do that & I feel it's a complete and total violation of my body and my trust. If I've made it clear I do not want that, that wish should be repsected period. Anything other than accepting that wish is wrong, terribly. And I can say -- you don't accidentally end up putting your penis in someone butt. We've had extremely rough sex where it has slipped and scraped my butt really hard, but you don't accidentally do that. It would be rare.

If my partner had so little respect for me and my body that he would go against my wish, I'd never be with him. I mean, it's kind of borderline rape if you say no and they "accidentally." And what infuriates me is when they think it's cute and funny. Glad my man is better than that.
02/16/2013
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Never made one. Have on occasion hit the wrong hole. That does happen. It is sometimes hard to tell in a position. But I never press hard so I just get a laugh and a "you missed" and re-aim.
02/16/2013
Contributor: laflauta laflauta
I've never had that happen (at least not intentionally). I've never been with anybody who disrespected me enough to go outside of my boundaries.
02/16/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Not between us, it would be too confidence shaking after the first time which I could excuse.
02/16/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
He has not
02/16/2013
Contributor: Kelslynn22 Kelslynn22
Nope, never.
02/16/2013