Have you ever been in a relationship where.....

Have you ever been in a relationship where.....

Nirelan Nirelan
Have you ever been in a relationship where the sex seems boring to the other person....? How did you deal with it? I'm at my wits end! I'm NOT boring...I don't understand....
05/13/2012
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Originally posted by Nirelan
Have you ever been in a relationship where the sex seems boring to the other person....? How did you deal with it? I'm at my wits end! I'm NOT boring...I don't understand....
No I'm sorry, I can't say I've experienced this...or at least the partner didn't tell me they felt that way lol
05/13/2012
js250 js250
We went through a stage years ago where our sex was routine. Then we found porn, toys and started sharing our fantasies. Now we surprise each other with toys, etc. for hot nights!!
05/13/2012
LovesAPoet LovesAPoet
I haven't been with someone who seems like they think the sex is boring. However, I have been with someone who had a low sex drive and sometimes seemed uninterested/bored. I guess they're similar in a way. It left me feeling unattractive and like something was wrong with me. I'm not sure if that's how you feel, but if it is I'm sorry it's a rough place to be in. I just tried to spice things up and try to kick start things. Lingerie really helped for us. I hope that answers your question.
05/13/2012
Deeder Deeder
While I've never been with someone who seemed to find sex boring, I do know what it's like to be that person. While I'm on a sort of personal quest to find that one perfect sex toy, more often than not I'm just uninterested in the act itself (it's really more of a chore for me). I love my husband dearly, but the vast majority of the time I find it nearly impossible to want to get in the mood, because I know that since I won't be able to get off, there's really no point in starting in the first place.

Granted, there are some times when I can get going a little from one specific toy in particular, but it's just too much for my husband and he can't deal with it. Since all that does is frustrate us both, I just figure it's better to not really try.
05/13/2012
Feisty Feisty
i personally haven't. but you can always spice it up by dressing up, role playing, foreplay. what was most important to me was being able to discuss with one another what we wanted out of our sex lives, etc.
05/13/2012
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