He can’t cum or Dry Cum

He can’t cum or Dry Cum

Liser22 Liser22
I have been married for 20 years and there was times in my life that I just wasn’t interested in sex. Now for some reason that has changed and I am horny all the time. I am son antidepressants and find that is probably the cause she of not be interested I. The past. Now that I am my husband that is 10 years older than I keeps telling me that he can’t keep up. In the past he has always been kind quick and only 1 time when he cums. He has taken testosterone and that helped. But now taking anything he seems to have dry cum and he says it hurts worse than blue balls. If I am stimulating him orally he keeps it hard most of the time but it will periodically go limp and if we actually have intercourse he goes limp before even getting it in. He had a hernia when he was young because of his father so some of the stuff has always been and no problem to me. But now he says from going weeks without do to my lacj of interest he says that he just learned to live with it. Now he is not interested or has to be built back into it. What do I do I’m so horny i am mastrubating every time he leaves. The house please help me
Feb 21, 7:28 pm
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Orgasms & Pearls Orgasms & Pearls
If he doesn’t currently use sex toys, maybe you could introduce him to some.

This would be something you need to have a personal conversation with him about, but maybe see what turns him on & try to incorporate that in your sex life.

Me & my husband went thru a dry spell as well. With three kids I don’t have the energy to jump in bed & have sex anymore. It took us a lot of talks & trial and error to figure out what worked for us. One of the things for us is my husband likes to watch me masturbate.

I hope you can get some relief!
Feb 26, 4:49 pm
fluffykitty fluffykitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Liser22
I have been married for 20 years and there was times in my life that I just wasn’t interested in sex. Now for some reason that has changed and I am horny all the time. I am son antidepressants and find that is probably the cause she of not be ...
The dry cum thing he might want to get checked out. It could be caused by a medical issue such as a prostate problem or could be something else. Blood pressure meds can cause a guy not to be able to maintain erections and as they get older,things tend to not work the way they used to. In the meantime,use toys to help yourself out.
Mar 1, 11:41 am
GingerAnn GingerAnn
I would suggest definitely going to see a doctor - anything that causes pain in sex (given that you're doing everything right) should be checked out.

Having said that, I must also notice that it is normal for men after a certain age have lower sex drives. Using sex toys and/or exploring new sexual practices may help a lot. He might not be so into classic sex toys, aka masturbators, but trying out some penis pumps, for example, seems like a good idea. They can help him stay harder longer + the amount of blood that is attracted to the shaft during pumping makes the penis more sensitive, aka he might get more pleasure out of stimulation.

Prostate massagers at this point are not a suggestion - they're a must. If the doctor says you're good t go and try anything you like (and clears you on any potential prostate problems), prostate massage is a thing you should incorporate in your everyday sexy menu. First, it is a new sensation that can keep him going for much longer - prostate orgasms are very different from the usual ejaculatory ones and may last for long minutes. Secondly, it can do wonders to his health, mixing the mandatory prostate massage with some orgasmic fleur. And the last but not the least - exploring new sexy things together might bring you closer, reignite the spark and boost your intimacy.
Mar 4, 6:39 am
glasha glasha
good
Mar 6, 9:52 am
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Please please please go and see your healthcare professionals.
Mar 18, 4:26 am
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