How'd you first find your G-spot?

How'd you first find your G-spot?

Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
For a long time, I thought that my G-spot was unresponsive. I knew how the tissue was supposed to feel, and thought I'd found it with my hands and just couldn't get anything out of it. Then along comes my Bent Graduate.

Holy. Mother. Of God.

Turns out that my actual spot isn't shallow enough to hit with my fingers. So I'm curious: how did others discover their spot?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
With my hands.
25  (23%)
A partner found it for me.
32  (30%)
With a toy.
25  (23%)
Haven't found it yet.
17  (16%)
Don't have one - I'm a guy!
7  (6%)
Obligatory other option.
2  (2%)
Total votes: 108
Poll is closed
05/19/2011
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife had little or no interest in developing her sexuality. I did all the research, bought the toys and showed her how to enjoy her g-spot, a-spot, gushing etc. She freely admits the I know her body better than she does.

My efforts were not altruistic - I figured the best way for me to have more sex was to make sure she got great pleasure from the experience. Honestly I was shocked that it took more than 5 years of increasingly intense multiple orgasms before she actually reacted in a positive way. What I mean is that she finally got to the point where she would initiate sexual activity - not just follow my lead.
05/19/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
I found it with a glass toy. Glass is still my favorite
05/19/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
hand
05/19/2011
Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
I found mine with this toy, which Eden doesn't carry. :/ But the toy I have the most luck with, these days, is Ellove by Fun Factory.
05/20/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Hand. I had never been so happy or felt more empowered in my life. LOL
05/20/2011
DTV88 DTV88
I found my girlfriends for her. she never could do anything with it. but i sure as hell can
05/20/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
For a long time, I thought that my G-spot was unresponsive. I knew how the tissue was supposed to feel, and thought I'd found it with my hands and just couldn't get anything out of it. Then along comes my Bent Graduate.

Holy. Mother. ...
hands and lots of research
05/20/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
For a long time, I thought that my G-spot was unresponsive. I knew how the tissue was supposed to feel, and thought I'd found it with my hands and just couldn't get anything out of it. Then along comes my Bent Graduate.

Holy. Mother. ...
my Master did some reading about the g-spot and gave me my first one.
05/20/2011
PinkPedal PinkPedal
For the longest time I just thought I couldn't find it lol My partner and I started doing some new moves and it was like dang that feels great! If he moved out of that spot it wasn't as intense. Still took me an extra year for me to find it on my own solo lol
05/20/2011
K101 K101
My partner found mine! I didnt ever really think it was pee and never had the issue with worrying about that so I was lucky. I was able to relax and all the wetness making a small mess doesn't bother me like it does most so I think that's why mine was so easy. I don't do it myself because my partner's always the one to do it for me & I prefer it that way. Lol
05/22/2011
Wookin-Pa-Nub Wookin-Pa-Nub
I found my wife's G-spot after much debate, pratice and research. After finding it with my fingers and getting the motion just right, she had the most amazing squirting orgasm ever! One of those "hit the ceiling" type squirts that left her totally shocked and in heaven. Unfortunately, she claims that she can't stimulate it herself, but I think she just likes me to do it.

Recently, we've been experimenting with stimulating her A-spot. It's just past the G-spot and deeper. Almost out of reach with just your finger. My wife claims that this is almost better than the G-spot since it creates really deep orgasms that make her really want to push. In time I'd like to get some toys that would allow her to reach these spots more on her own. I think it's probably best if the woman can find her "spots" on her own so she knows exactly how to direct her partner. From a man's perspective, I can say there have been many cramped fingers and confused moments getting this far. I'm not complaining though....it's very rewarding and worth the effort when you see your woman cumming like rock star!
05/26/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Wookin-Pa-Nub
I found my wife's G-spot after much debate, pratice and research. After finding it with my fingers and getting the motion just right, she had the most amazing squirting orgasm ever! One of those "hit the ceiling" type squirts that ...
My wife is an A-spot pro. The VixSkin Johnny and Njoy Eleven are her favs for having those deep orgasms. She also really likes the rotating shaft of the Decadent Indulgence dual-stimulator.

Happy hunting!
05/26/2011
liilii080 liilii080
With glass ben wah balls and my Hitachi by accident. It was a nice surprise!
05/26/2011
Buttercup Green Buttercup Green
Before my partner, I had no idea where my G-spot was. The first time he fingered me, he found my G-spot. It was so easy for him to find. I have not had any problem finding my G-spot since.
05/26/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
I googled excessively to see if it really exists and where it is.. and eventually got the courage to try to find it with my fingers. I found it finallyyyy after some searching
05/28/2011
Wondermom Wondermom
My husband found it in the perfect position one night and I have been discovering it ever since
05/28/2011
indiglo indiglo
With a toy, on my own. I was looking for it, and at first it wasn't even an overly pleasurable experience. I could feel the stimulation, but it just made me feel like peeing. LOL With time, practice and patience, I learned just what to do, and how my body responds to it - and now it feels goooooooooooooooood!
06/06/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
Still haven't found it. But I will figure it out one day!
07/31/2011
Beck Beck
With my finger, it is right there! Glad I know where it is!
07/31/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Just recently found it, but don't find it extremely pleasureable yet.
08/01/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
During sex with my guy!
08/01/2011
ToyPanda ToyPanda
I found it through self exploration, I was bored one day so I thought I'd try poking around in there,so to speak.
11/18/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by ThoughtsAblaze
Still haven't found it. But I will figure it out one day!
Pardon this comment from a guy - but I think the misunderstanding about the g-spot is that it's like a clitoris or penis. Although all these structures are made of erectile tissue, because the g-spot is inside the vagina, some women need to be thoroughly aroused before enough blood gathers there to make the characteristic 'ridges' noticeable.

When the wife and I are doing a 'quickie' I will use my fingers inside to help her get ready for penetration. When I first enter - nothing. But because I know about where it is, I can stroke the area and actually feel the blood gathering and ridges become prominent. It's usually about this time that I hear her moan - letting me I'm in the right place.

If a woman is just 'clinically' poking around - there's a good chance you'll feel nothing.

It takes more than just arousal - it often takes careful direct stimulation of the anterior wall of the vagina about where the urethra is descending - this is why many women report the urge to urinate when they first start stoking their g-spot - which is sometimes referred to as the urethral sponge because of it's proximity.

Once you learn to relax, the urge to urinate will likely subside - assuming you have recently emptied your bladder.

Happy hunting!
11/18/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I found mine with a dildo (the Ella). I respond best to G-spot stimulation once I'm already quite turned on, and usually after I've had a clitoral orgasm, I can have a few awesome G-spot orgasms in a row.
11/18/2011
poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
For a long time, I thought that my G-spot was unresponsive. I knew how the tissue was supposed to feel, and thought I'd found it with my hands and just couldn't get anything out of it. Then along comes my Bent Graduate.

Holy. Mother. ...
I had never had an orgasm till I got pregnant with my oldest daughter. I was so horny while I was pregnant that I bought my first toy. It scared the crap out of me when I first hit that spot and had and orgasm. I screamed so loud that I am sure the neighbors heard me.
11/18/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
For a long time, I thought that my G-spot was unresponsive. I knew how the tissue was supposed to feel, and thought I'd found it with my hands and just couldn't get anything out of it. Then along comes my Bent Graduate.

Holy. Mother. ...
With a toy
11/19/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
My boyfriend found it for me. I'd never fingered myself before.
So he was doing it, and hit my g-spot, and I was like "WHAT DID YOU JUST DO?"

I'm glad he knows how to find it too.
11/19/2011
oldman oldman
Haven't found it yet.
11/20/2011
jr2012 jr2012
My boyfriend is on the nerdy side, and did some research. He's been all over that G-spot! I am still learning how to work it on my own, though.
09/20/2012
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