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ThoughtsAblaze
Still haven't found it. But I will figure it out one day!
Pardon this comment from a guy - but I think the misunderstanding about the g-spot is that it's like a clitoris or penis. Although all these structures are made of erectile tissue, because the g-spot is inside the vagina, some women need to be thoroughly aroused before enough blood gathers there to make the characteristic 'ridges' noticeable.
When the wife and I are doing a 'quickie' I will use my fingers inside to help her get ready for penetration. When I first enter - nothing. But because I know about where it is, I can stroke the area and actually feel the blood gathering and ridges become prominent. It's usually about this time that I hear her moan - letting me I'm in the right place.
If a woman is just 'clinically' poking around - there's a good chance you'll feel nothing.
It takes more than just arousal - it often takes careful direct stimulation of the anterior wall of the vagina about where the urethra is descending - this is why many women report the urge to urinate when they first start stoking their g-spot - which is sometimes referred to as the urethral sponge because of it's proximity.
Once you learn to relax, the urge to urinate will likely subside - assuming you have recently emptied your bladder.
Happy hunting!
