how many sexual partners can someone have had, before you go Whoa! that's enough! quiddit1! is there a general number?
how many is too many?
03/15/2011
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I think more then 1, but thats just me.
03/16/2011
Gee, there's gonna be a lot of different opinions here.
Personally I think 20 in one way is a lot. But then when I think about most guys I know who like to screw around - that 20 is bugger all.
Personally I think 20 in one way is a lot. But then when I think about most guys I know who like to screw around - that 20 is bugger all.
03/16/2011
Well where I used to live people had way more then 20 sexual partners throughout the years.
I won't judge anyone because some people think my number might be high.
I won't judge anyone because some people think my number might be high.
03/16/2011
So long as they've been tested and come up without anything I don't really care. People live lives, have romances, screw around and f*ck. Who am I to judge their history. It's what shaped them into the person that I'm attracted to today.
I think it's less important to focus on the number and more important to ask the "why" of the number - as in, why did they have so many? - failed relationships, flings, bad decision making, wanting notches in their belt, etc. That would give you a better perspective into the person that they are then the number.
I think it's less important to focus on the number and more important to ask the "why" of the number - as in, why did they have so many? - failed relationships, flings, bad decision making, wanting notches in their belt, etc. That would give you a better perspective into the person that they are then the number.
03/16/2011
I don't think any one number is right for everybody. There's nothing inherently immoral about wanting to experience a lot of different partners (or just ending up doing so without trying). Personally, I wish I had started earlier and done more, but I'm sure many others could say the opposite. As long as you're happy with your experiences, it shouldn't matter.
03/16/2011
I think age is also a factor. Like 15 partners when you're only 17 is too many in my opinion but fine when you're say 25 (still alot though). I think upwards of 30-40 is pushing it.
03/16/2011
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Well said, Kara!
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KaraSutra
So long as they've been tested and come up without anything I don't really care. People live lives, have romances, screw around and f*ck. Who am I to judge their history. It's what shaped them into the person that I'm attracted to
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So long as they've been tested and come up without anything I don't really care. People live lives, have romances, screw around and f*ck. Who am I to judge their history. It's what shaped them into the person that I'm attracted to today.
I think it's less important to focus on the number and more important to ask the "why" of the number - as in, why did they have so many? - failed relationships, flings, bad decision making, wanting notches in their belt, etc. That would give you a better perspective into the person that they are then the number. less
I think it's less important to focus on the number and more important to ask the "why" of the number - as in, why did they have so many? - failed relationships, flings, bad decision making, wanting notches in their belt, etc. That would give you a better perspective into the person that they are then the number. less
03/16/2011
As long as the person is clean, I don't think it really matters. Unless your looking for someone with a bit of committment, then once you hit the 100+ mark, I might start to wonder.
03/21/2011
AngelicaU
I think it depends. If you're just throwing yourself around, opening your legs to anyone, I think any number is too much. If you're not though, then I don't see a problem.
03/25/2011
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