How many sexual partners have you had?

Contributor: Elaira Elaira
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
None.
7  (4%)
1-5
116  (59%)
6-10
25  (13%)
10-15
13  (7%)
16-20
13  (7%)
21-25
7  (4%)
26-30
3  (2%)
30+
13  (7%)
Total votes: 197
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
Since "toys" have really become mainstream (get a laugh by looking in some of the "old folks" supply catalogs, with walkers, orthopedic shoes, and phone dialing aids, and there, you WILL find sex toys!!! No more pretending they are "muscle massagers" either. VERY descriptive ads aimed at getting great grandma back into the "O" zone!!!! Thus, I think WE, here at EF, ARE a plain, old cross section of the nation and probably have about the same "norms" and "envelope pushers" as anywhere else. Just my guess.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
^ Totally agree with above. I mean, I'm sex-positive and love talking about sex, but I've only had intercourse with one partner and been sexually active with three. It's funny when people get uncomfortable around me and tell me they don't like talking about sex because they still consider themselves virgins. You can be a virgin and be interested in sex and sexual health! XD
05/27/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
21 17 guys & 4 girls
05/27/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
I'm . . . way high up there on the spectrum.
05/27/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
I am not positive, but I think I've been with 17 people
05/27/2011
Contributor: Buttercup Green Buttercup Green
I have had only one sexual partner, and that would be my husband. We work really well together in and out of the bedroom. That is all I need.
05/27/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I have only been with my wife, and she has only been with me.
05/27/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
i have only had a few and only do it with people i really care for
05/27/2011
Contributor: oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
Just a couple partners, but if you ask me how many dildos I have, I guess I'm a bit of a dildo slut.
05/28/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Two. One in high school, one now.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
a lot more than most of eden lol
05/30/2011
Contributor: KrissyRoro KrissyRoro
I officially feel terrible after seeing everybody elses answers.
05/30/2011
Contributor: TexasBrat TexasBrat
Well, with PEOPLE, I've been with 9 men. With sex toys....OMG.....uh, over 300 different ones (at least)!! I'm a sex toy slut I guess!!! LOL
05/30/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've only been with my boyfriend, although if we weren't together, it would be higher
05/30/2011
Contributor: DTV88 DTV88
Me and my girl were each other's firsts last and only. I have only slept with her. and she only with me. i would have it no other way.
05/31/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Quote:
Originally posted by KrissyRoro
I officially feel terrible after seeing everybody elses answers.
No need for that!
05/31/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
The average number of partners for a woman in the US is 6.6, men are at 11.

But the EF community is 58% between 1-5!

Perhaps sex toy enthusiasts are less promiscuous?
05/31/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
one! although im not going to lie, I have wondered what it would be like to be with someone else. But i dont wonder enough to really go do it lol
05/31/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I have been with a lot of people, though that would be because I was once a call boy.

Ah, yes. The darker days.
06/05/2011
Contributor: purple579 purple579
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of two and a half years and he lost his virginity to me.
06/05/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I responded the way some women respond to having been forced and became very promiscuous. It took many, many years before I could see sex as something other than a way to show that I was in control of my body. I'm not ashamed of my past, but I certainly would have liked it to have been different.
06/05/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Quote:
Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
I responded the way some women respond to having been forced and became very promiscuous. It took many, many years before I could see sex as something other than a way to show that I was in control of my body. I'm not ashamed of my past, but I ... more
I'm totally there with you.
06/05/2011
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
Just one. =]
06/08/2011
Contributor: Trillian Trillian
I guess I am above average on here. 18 girls for me and 3 guys when I was exploring
06/13/2011
Contributor: MN58 MN58
just one
06/13/2011
Contributor: Maeby Maeby
Just one, and I married him
07/05/2011
Contributor: Jenimi Jenimi
Quote:
Originally posted by Dusk
^ Totally agree with above. I mean, I'm sex-positive and love talking about sex, but I've only had intercourse with one partner and been sexually active with three. It's funny when people get uncomfortable around me and tell me they ... more
I totally agree with you
07/05/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Who knows...
07/05/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
honestly I think if people in society had more sex theyd be less pissed off s o im proud to be a slut matter of fact me and mybetter half were talking about that the other day im his slut and proud of it
07/05/2011