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19, a few months ago actually. Didn't really want to but it made him happy and I like him being happy.
If you don't really want to you probably shouldn't. Your man should respect your wishes. I think if a guy pushes for it when he knows you don't want to then he is showing that he doesn't really care how you feel about it.
That being said, if it is more a question of being intimidated, but curious, and you are ok with trying it out, GO FOR IT.
I had my first experience when I was 19 and I was of two minds at the time... ew thats my butt and poop comes out of it! and ..... how does it feel though?
The guy I was with was a douche and not really considerate about it, which turned me off of it for a long time.