18- same year I lost my virginity!
How old were you when you first had anal?
03/31/2011
18- same year I lost my virginity!
03/31/2011
I was 19, but it was not when i gave up my cherry.
03/31/2011
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LOL I love the phrase 'gave up my cherry' kinda describes exactly what I did....I kind of thrust it at him LOL
Originally posted by
Just Jen
I know there is going to be quite a range on this one. Please explain if your answer is #3
We experimented with anal when we were newly married so around 20 or so.
04/01/2011
Wow, well...my story is "none of the above." I had non-consual anal date rape well before my first experience with vaginal sex.
Scared me off (emotionally and physically) of anal sex for a good long time, even after I married. Now that I'm with a caring partner (divorced for a good while now, to clarify), it's a different story, though a decade later, I still can't shake it. Been thinking about role playing through the scenario as a sort of "therapy," but we haven't worked out the details and it's a potentially dangerous/scary territory to enter.
Scared me off (emotionally and physically) of anal sex for a good long time, even after I married. Now that I'm with a caring partner (divorced for a good while now, to clarify), it's a different story, though a decade later, I still can't shake it. Been thinking about role playing through the scenario as a sort of "therapy," but we haven't worked out the details and it's a potentially dangerous/scary territory to enter.
04/02/2011
16 or 17
04/10/2011
Anal takes alot of trust and a high comfort level with your partner I think..
04/10/2011
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Absolutely... most of my friends seem to agree they went about it the wrong way: casual dating, no real knowledge of anatomy, no relaxation, not enough lube, fear.
Originally posted by
callsignhusker
Anal takes alot of trust and a high comfort level with your partner I think..
I'm surprised a lot of young people are comfortable with it.
04/10/2011
Solo anal play, 10 or 11
With a partner late 14, early 15
With a partner late 14, early 15
04/22/2011
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I agree with your advice! I know what a forcing experience can be like and just giving in to something you don't want to do can lead to serious problems down the road when perhaps you find someone who wouldn't push.
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
If you don't really want to you probably shouldn't. Your man should respect your wishes. I think if a guy pushes for it when he knows you don't want to then he is showing that he doesn't really care how you feel about it.
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If you don't really want to you probably shouldn't. Your man should respect your wishes. I think if a guy pushes for it when he knows you don't want to then he is showing that he doesn't really care how you feel about it.
That being said, if it is more a question of being intimidated, but curious, and you are ok with trying it out, GO FOR IT.
I had my first experience when I was 19 and I was of two minds at the time... ew thats my butt and poop comes out of it! and ..... how does it feel though?
The guy I was with was a douche and not really considerate about it, which turned me off of it for a long time. less
That being said, if it is more a question of being intimidated, but curious, and you are ok with trying it out, GO FOR IT.
I had my first experience when I was 19 and I was of two minds at the time... ew thats my butt and poop comes out of it! and ..... how does it feel though?
The guy I was with was a douche and not really considerate about it, which turned me off of it for a long time. less
My answer though, I never have done the booty thing. 21, and my partner and I are happy with the cooter sex! I hate when men pressure you to do things and honestly after going through stuff that I HAVE in the past, I would never ever put up with it in a relationship.
04/23/2011
I was 14.
04/23/2011
I was fifteen when I first tried anal and my boyfriend and I waited til we were 16 to have actual sex.
06/06/2011
We should be trying anal on my guy's coming visit (first week of October!).
06/06/2011
Lol you forgot about people under 20! I did it when I was 16
06/06/2011
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Intensely curious about it. Similar to another poster, I went from "ew poop comes out of that!" to "but...it's hot, and I wonder what it's like."
I'm not really sure how that happened, but my lover's an ass person. I bet some of his enthusiasm rubbed off on me.
I'm not really sure how that happened, but my lover's an ass person. I bet some of his enthusiasm rubbed off on me.
06/06/2011
Started experimenting with anal myself when I was a junior in high school. Tried it with a couple of girls in my late twenties but don't get to enjoy it anymore. My wife is not interested in it in the least and that is ok with me.
06/13/2011
There isn't a choice for me..
I was about 16
I was about 16
06/13/2011
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Yikes, I'm so sorry you had such a sucky experience. *offers hugs* And I agree with your advise to Fannybutts! Entirely!
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
If you don't really want to you probably shouldn't. Your man should respect your wishes. I think if a guy pushes for it when he knows you don't want to then he is showing that he doesn't really care how you feel about it.
That ... more
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If you don't really want to you probably shouldn't. Your man should respect your wishes. I think if a guy pushes for it when he knows you don't want to then he is showing that he doesn't really care how you feel about it.
That being said, if it is more a question of being intimidated, but curious, and you are ok with trying it out, GO FOR IT.
I had my first experience when I was 19 and I was of two minds at the time... ew thats my butt and poop comes out of it! and ..... how does it feel though?
The guy I was with was a douche and not really considerate about it, which turned me off of it for a long time. less
That being said, if it is more a question of being intimidated, but curious, and you are ok with trying it out, GO FOR IT.
I had my first experience when I was 19 and I was of two minds at the time... ew thats my butt and poop comes out of it! and ..... how does it feel though?
The guy I was with was a douche and not really considerate about it, which turned me off of it for a long time. less
09/23/2011
I put 20, but I think I was actually 19. It wasn't at the same time as when I first had sex, although it was the same person.
09/25/2011
I was around 20-21 when I tried anal with a partner... didn't care for it.
02/18/2012
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mid 20s
Originally posted by
Just Jen
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12/04/2012
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lost my virginity at 18
Originally posted by
libbyv
mid 20s
12/04/2012
Had vaginal and anal within a couple days of each other.
05/18/2013
Mid to late 20s I think
05/21/2013
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Late 20's...
Originally posted by
Just Jen
I know there is going to be quite a range on this one. Please explain if your answer is #3
05/21/2013