Ladies how would you feel if you could have sex with anyone you want with your mans permission and encouragement? Would you do it?

Ladies how would you feel if you could have sex with anyone you want with your mans permission and encouragement? Would you do it?

Gypsie Angel Gypsie Angel
So my man and I have been discussing bringing swinging type scenarios in our situation and the question came up for the ladies. If your man wanted to let you have sex with any man/men in any situation you desired as long as his stipulations were followed. Such as, he must approve your final choices before hand, he has to be told every last detail when talking/texting to the other dude about the hook up, no kissing only, and lastly video the encounter for him only.
So ladies, how would you feel about having that option given to you by your man? Would you want to do it or not, or I my under 1 time special circumstance?
Gentlemen, how would you feel about the situation? What would you want your women to do or not do?

If You're willing to do this would you be happy and appreciative of being able to do this and feel good knowing your man understands that you need this? Or would you feel like this is a set up to hurt you later someway or be used against you in ever argument.

*if your wiling to elaborate in comments.
Comments pls do. I would love to know how you'd handle this and if there's anything you think should or should not be done to help keep the relationship with your s.o. going great? Does your mood always have to be cheery and kiss his butt constantly for being allowed to have sex with anyone you want or should that be separate from each other.
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G A, this is quite the poll. I hope people come forward. For us we have discussed this. However it's mostly pillow talk during and after having sex or fantasy talk. Often after watching an exciting elicit adult flick. I would ask her while pumping if she would f**k that well well endowed performer. She would say " maybe......yeah I wouldn't mind " ( me)

On another adult forum elicit pictures are allowed. A few guys display their enormous members in various states. They offer to give women particularly wifes the experience of their life with the promise to satisfy with the fuc**ng in the orifices of your choice or both.

They also post numerous pictures of their "conquests " in various stages of penatration in various love ho*les So I would ask OW if she would want to try them out. Sometimes she would say maybe. Other times say they aren't real. I would post comments on their exploit pictures. They would reply " would love to do her " . That's because we have some pics on our profile also. And being petite and cute they want her .

It's a good thing they live far away
Sep 2, 11:36 am
hollymarie hollymarie
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Originally posted by Gypsie Angel
So my man and I have been discussing bringing swinging type scenarios in our situation and the question came up for the ladies. If your man wanted to let you have sex with any man/men in any situation you desired as long as his stipulations were ...
I've been polyamorous for quite a long time and the main thing is communication. It's key to happiness when treading in the unfamiliar nonmonogamous territory.

Obviously, Polyamory involves other relationships versus swinging which is all physical intimacy. Being open and honest during the process is also important. You might find yourself having jealously feelings or feelings of doubt, those are normal and human. Dialing into those feelings will tell you if you should continue or not or if it's nothing to fret about at all.

If you're feeling like this set up might be a trap, why do you feel that way? Is your partner giving you some indication that they are not comfortable? Are you projecting your insecurity?

If you don't want emotions involved with a regular intimacy partner, it's slight impossible to avoid. You're going to care about their well being, but what do you identify as a relationship that's casual and not romantic? Hammering out those details with your partner will take the worry away and hopefully the fears away. Remember this other party has feelings too, treat them with the same kindness you would your own partner.

best of luck,

HM
Sep 3, 1:16 am
GingerAnn GingerAnn
For me, the situation in question feels like cuckolding for some reason, more than polyamory or swinging.
The idea of trying cuckolding does me all hot and bothered, but I don't think I'm on that stage of self-consciousness to act on these desires correctly.

Or am I missing the point and is it simply about "trying something new with someone else and you SO being ok with it"?
Sep 3, 5:10 am
Gypsie Angel Gypsie Angel
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Originally posted by GingerAnn
For me, the situation in question feels like cuckolding for some reason, more than polyamory or swinging.
The idea of trying cuckolding does me all hot and bothered, but I don't think I'm on that stage of self-consciousness to act on ...
Cuckolding as I understand it is about forcing someone to watch and has that element of humiliation in it. This is more like being his own personal porn star. I have sex with others because I enjoy sex and he watches my vids because he likes that and gets turned on.
Sep 3, 2:13 pm
Gypsie Angel Gypsie Angel
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Originally posted by hollymarie
I've been polyamorous for quite a long time and the main thing is communication. It's key to happiness when treading in the unfamiliar nonmonogamous territory.

Obviously, Polyamory involves other relationships versus swinging which is ...
So how much contact do you have with the outside party? Is it only a quick hey let's hook up tomorrow at 2 or is it more of a friendly converse reguarly about anything? Do you share every little detail of said convos with each other no matter how minor or important they may be? Or is it more based on trust and you only need to let them know when you'll be going to hook up?
Sep 3, 2:18 pm
Curiouslyseeking Curiouslyseeking
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Originally posted by Gypsie Angel
So my man and I have been discussing bringing swinging type scenarios in our situation and the question came up for the ladies. If your man wanted to let you have sex with any man/men in any situation you desired as long as his stipulations were ...
I would definitely want to see my wife have an intimate evening with another man. I would prefer she got to know him like a coworker, a gym acquaintance, or some guy she sees on a regular and has a quick convo with weekly. I think that is important to me so there is some type of connection already established for when they hook up.

I would want to watch live, me sitting in a chair just looking, and maybe even scripting the scenes or seductive talk while they perform. I would want it to be sensual, some love making, teasing, and lots of caressing. Things she normally wouldn't do would be allowed like anal. And hopefully the guy is open to getting rimmed, rubbed in his ass as she would do to me.

Allowing him to cum inside her and she dripping would be ultimate scene as she cums too. I would probably join her right after he left.

This is a fantasy discussed before but never implemented. Anyone else have these thoughts?
Sep 4, 2:24 pm
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