So my man and I have been discussing bringing swinging type scenarios in our situation and the question came up for the ladies. If your man wanted to let you have sex with any man/men in any situation you desired as long as his stipulations were followed. Such as, he must approve your final choices before hand, he has to be told every last detail when talking/texting to the other dude about the hook up, no kissing only, and lastly video the encounter for him only.
So ladies, how would you feel about having that option given to you by your man? Would you want to do it or not, or I my under 1 time special circumstance?
Gentlemen, how would you feel about the situation? What would you want your women to do or not do?

If You're willing to do this would you be happy and appreciative of being able to do this and feel good knowing your man understands that you need this? Or would you feel like this is a set up to hurt you later someway or be used against you in ever argument.

*if your wiling to elaborate in comments.
Comments pls do. I would love to know how you'd handle this and if there's anything you think should or should not be done to help keep the relationship with your s.o. going great? Does your mood always have to be cheery and kiss his butt constantly for being allowed to have sex with anyone you want or should that be separate from each other. less

For me, the situation in question feels like cuckolding for some reason, more than polyamory or swinging.
The idea of trying cuckolding does me all hot and bothered, but I don't think I'm on that stage of self-consciousness to act on these desires correctly.

Or am I missing the point and is it simply about "trying something new with someone else and you SO being ok with it"? less

I've been polyamorous for quite a long time and the main thing is communication. It's key to happiness when treading in the unfamiliar nonmonogamous territory.

Obviously, Polyamory involves other relationships versus swinging which is all physical intimacy. Being open and honest during the process is also important. You might find yourself having jealously feelings or feelings of doubt, those are normal and human. Dialing into those feelings will tell you if you should continue or not or if it's nothing to fret about at all.

If you're feeling like this set up might be a trap, why do you feel that way? Is your partner giving you some indication that they are not comfortable? Are you projecting your insecurity?

If you don't want emotions involved with a regular intimacy partner, it's slight impossible to avoid. You're going to care about their well being, but what do you identify as a relationship that's casual and not romantic? Hammering out those details with your partner will take the worry away and hopefully the fears away. Remember this other party has feelings too, treat them with the same kindness you would your own partner.

best of luck,

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So my man and I have been discussing bringing swinging type scenarios in our situation and the question came up for the ladies. If your man wanted to let you have sex with any man/men in any situation you desired as long as his stipulations were followed. Such as, he must approve your final choices before hand, he has to be told every last detail when talking/texting to the other dude about the hook up, no kissing only, and lastly video the encounter for him only.
So ladies, how would you feel about having that option given to you by your man? Would you want to do it or not, or I my under 1 time special circumstance?
Gentlemen, how would you feel about the situation? What would you want your women to do or not do?

If You're willing to do this would you be happy and appreciative of being able to do this and feel good knowing your man understands that you need this? Or would you feel like this is a set up to hurt you later someway or be used against you in ever argument.

*if your wiling to elaborate in comments.
Comments pls do. I would love to know how you'd handle this and if there's anything you think should or should not be done to help keep the relationship with your s.o. going great? Does your mood always have to be cheery and kiss his butt constantly for being allowed to have sex with anyone you want or should that be separate from each other. less

That is 1 of my biggest fantasies. With a woman or man . To have my husband act as director would b a dream come true. I think that as long as everyone is involved , either active or passively, it isnt a betrayal as long as all parties r happy and satisfied
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