am in a serious relationship but I also want a dual action vibrator..will I be less tight if I use diffrent sized sex toys or vibrators in general? I want to feel as good as I do now around my bf..haven't used vibrators.
ladies:sex toys and tightness?
02/21/2009
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No. Not at all. If you are having sex, a vibe shouldn't make a difference. If you are worried about it try exercising your pc muscles.
Originally posted by
kinky girlfriend
am in a serious relationship but I also want a dual action vibrator..will I be less tight if I use diffrent sized sex toys or vibrators in general? I want to feel as good as I do now around my bf..haven't used vibrators.
02/21/2009
I haven't noticed too much of a change. I haven't used what you linked to above, but it looks fun.
02/21/2009
We have use various sized vibes and dildos up to 2 inches in diameter and 10 inches in length and it hasn't seemed to make any difference. Cinnamon's suggestion is a good one.
02/21/2009
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well I've only slept with one guy,but I heard if a girl sleeps around with a bunch of guys guys notice cuz shes loose or not very tight...Well I actually bought Velvet touch vibrator from this website
Originally posted by
Cinnamon Chambers
No. Not at all. If you are having sex, a vibe shouldn't make a difference. If you are worried about it try exercising your pc muscles.
02/22/2009
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oops,heres the link to the one I bought link
Originally posted by
Cinnamon Chambers
No. Not at all. If you are having sex, a vibe shouldn't make a difference. If you are worried about it try exercising your pc muscles.
02/22/2009
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I bought this link cheap with good reviews.
Originally posted by
Sammi
I haven't noticed too much of a change. I haven't used what you linked to above, but it looks fun.
02/22/2009
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That is a myth created to shame women.
Originally posted by
kinky girlfriend
well I've only slept with one guy,but I heard if a girl sleeps around with a bunch of guys guys notice cuz shes loose or not very tight...Well I actually bought Velvet touch vibrator from this website
02/22/2009
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Agreed.
Originally posted by
Epiphora
That is a myth created to shame women.
Your vagina is a muscle that will accommodate all sorts of sizes but it never "stretches." Sure, if you use a big toy and have sex with a smaller guy or toy right after, you'll notice but that's about the extent of it.
02/22/2009
The only times I have noticed a difference was when I lost my virginity, and when hubby is away for more than just a couple months and I don't do a lot of play with penetration. I stand behind exercise though. It is good for more than just added sexual pleasure.
02/22/2009
No, you won't be stretched out from a vibrator of that width nor having sex with various partners. The vagina is one big muscle, even after childbirth it tries to go back to it's natural shape but sometimes needs to be aided with kegel exercises.
02/22/2009
Vexed
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I agree. That is a myth created to shame women.
Originally posted by
Epiphora
That is a myth created to shame women.
Women should be able to explore sexually and experience being penetrated by a very thick dildo or penis if she so choses. The vagina may need to become more flexible to take in something very thick, but it will not become permanently loose. That is a myth used to control women.
I had a girlfriend that enjoyed being fisted, and she also enjoyed a toy that was 2.25" in diameter. Her vagina felt the same on days when we would have regular sex.
06/27/2010
I've stretched myself a lot, and have had regular sex for seven years. I do Kegels regularly and I'm as tight as I've ever been!
07/29/2010
i use them and no complainants,
09/10/2010
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No your vagina is a muscle and it is meant to stretch and then contract back to it's prestretched shape. Only after repeated doses of oxytocin and the other chemicals involved with natural childbirth will the vagina muscles permanently stretch. I have had three kids and LOVE large vibes, my gynocologist has to use a small size speculum during my exams because my vagina is tight.
Originally posted by
kinky girlfriend
am in a serious relationship but I also want a dual action vibrator..will I be less tight if I use diffrent sized sex toys or vibrators in general? I want to feel as good as I do now around my bf..haven't used vibrators.
If you really wanna maintain good muscle tone "down there" check out some of the excellent vaginal exercisers available on EF. I personally use the glass Ben Wa balls from Doc Johnson but in all reality a few kegels a day is all that is necessary to maintain good tone. Using a different sized bgger vibe iosn't going to be noticeable to your boyfriend...after using a vibe your vagina engorges and it swells slightly making you feel tighter rather than looser.
09/10/2010
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That's a wives tale...it doesn't matter how many guys you sleep with the vagina doesn't permanently stretch from sex alone. Only repeated childbirth with natural vaginal delivery results in any stretch of the vaginal muscles.
Originally posted by
kinky girlfriend
well I've only slept with one guy,but I heard if a girl sleeps around with a bunch of guys guys notice cuz shes loose or not very tight...Well I actually bought Velvet touch vibrator from this website
09/10/2010
I don't believe so. I use my vibrators a lot and when I have sex with my partner, I just feel as tight as ever.
10/06/2010
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